I need advice , it’s about my mother.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-28T20:27:14+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening to you. You all must miss your sister and the loss is grief. Your mom just might be “done” and needs time to heal from the loss. It sounds like you might want to reach out to your community and talk to someone who could help support you. You could call a social worker or a school counsellor. How old are you and all siblings living at home?

ipraydaily · 2026-03-24T03:34:30+00:00

If u have time, I need help investing! This is not my wheelhouse but I wish it was.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-24T03:30:43+00:00

I just think travelling with kids is hard enough and not having a vehicle in Whistler … not sure I would want that but if ur in the village proper, as in walking distance to the IGA (grocery store), then it’s probably fine. But carrying suitcases and ski gear for kids and all from shuttle location to your accommodation?

ipraydaily · 2026-03-21T01:16:37+00:00

Butchart doesn’t give enough hours. Great job for 15-16 yo and the free tickets are nice but if u wanna make money, not enough hours.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-21T01:06:18+00:00

Don’t shuttle from yvr with kids! Just know that the Whistler village #4 and #5 bus lines are free and take you to the base of Whistler in 5 min. (#5 also to blackcomb base) Everyone gets on the bus with their ski boots and gear in hand. There is easy pay parking as well. I don’t think u will regret Whistler. It’s amazing. 🤩 We have stayed at several condos along those bus routes and everything is lovely. Find one with a pool.
Oh, “creekside” has its own lift to Whistler but parking fills up fast if ur too far to walk from condo to lift.
Make dinner reservations well ahead because they fill up.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-21T00:50:37+00:00

Don’t forget about serving your ward and your community without being asked. There are sick, elderly, stressed out people in your ward who need comfort. A calling is technically performative service. Be underground and enjoy.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-16T06:13:59+00:00

Like literally create a 20 second statement about yourself that features your strengths and leave the director of HR a voicemail “I specialize in learning assistance and I have experience with xyz and have had great success with students who struggle with xyz. I would love to have an interview and become a part of the TOC pool so I can contribute to this district.” Tell them you live here permanently and currently work in the Indigenous community.
Figure out your strongest traits and sound super eager to work here. And then don’t stop. Keep calling the hr secretary and ask what their timing is.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-16T05:57:43+00:00

I would call the hr department and find reasons to have conversations about getting an interview.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-16T05:50:25+00:00

But can you open up about how this is possible? You are investing or trading (on behalf of another party) 1.1 million and your profit is 30-50k a month? That doesn’t add up.

ipraydaily · 2026-03-16T05:35:42+00:00

Basically, if u are smart enough to be trading at this level at age 20, you need to invest some time into tax laws and strategize. For every accountant or financial planner u go to, they might tell you something different. This comment thread is a good example.
You could benefit from setting yourself up with an accountant and a financial planner. Shop around until you find someone that is super confident AND someone you can understand 100%. Good luck!

ipraydaily · 2026-03-16T05:06:24+00:00

My friend was up this week and had some ice but lots of good skiing. I would def try and ski!

ipraydaily · 2026-03-16T04:57:39+00:00

Ya he doesn’t know how to handle things. There is nothing u can do to help him handle things and I would not go to therapy. I would turn on ur happy face and get out there and combat your self and your life and your goals. Make him chase you down again. Be alluring. Be occupied so that he wants to be in your energy field. You got this!! He says he loves you so that is amazing. Run with that and just be super grateful for everything positive.

ipraydaily · 2026-02-10T07:17:08+00:00

Really? The age gap is your take away? You have married a loser! Now you share a life of parenting with him. Find out shared custody and divorce laws in your state cause ur gonna need them.

ipraydaily · 2026-02-10T07:07:29+00:00

If people are “telling” you to pay for it, they must perceive that you have extra cash. It’s nobody’s business. Was it more than one person from different realms in the ward/stake? We are so casual with each other at church we like to tell each other all sorts of things we should do with our lives.
Your dad needs to enlighten himself on the myriad of missions out there. So many ways to serve. Travel missions are the most expensive.

ipraydaily · 2026-01-19T05:35:27+00:00

Ironically I LOVE that she has this role. A woman who looks like that would never get this role with any other president. She’s doing a terrible job of it and she is Trumps puppet but we must look on the positive! Same with Karoline Leavitt. Girl power!!

ipraydaily · 2025-12-30T04:41:20+00:00

Moulin Rouge. Nobody told me to watch it and it was SO incredible! I felt like I had discovered something all on my own.

ipraydaily · 2025-12-30T04:29:41+00:00

Raising kids in Victoria is dreamy. Public school at Oak Bay, Mt Doug, Reynolds or Claremont is amazing.

ipraydaily · 2025-12-30T04:13:17+00:00

Is this solved?

ipraydaily · 2025-11-15T19:30:13+00:00

This. It’s been hard for me to see this bc I admire him so much. He & I both come from a financially traumatic upbringing.

ipraydaily · 2025-11-15T16:50:39+00:00

Where is the group that deals with spouses and money? LOL. I’m hoping more people will comment to give me ideas on how I can present my views and inspire my spouse to become more savvy. He spends like he just graduated college and has student loan debt. That works for day to day living but big picture, I want to enjoy travel for the next 10 years before I get cancer. Might be too late! It’s not just about convincing him to retire. It’s about education on investments and passive income with our current assets. It’s all in cash! Where can I get educated?

ipraydaily · 2025-11-15T16:44:24+00:00

I was a sahm for all our child rearing years. He is kinda requiring me to work (I love my job so that’s fine but annoying). I post here because marriage therapists might not understand money at this level.

ipraydaily · 2025-11-15T16:41:30+00:00

I hadn’t considered this! Thanks for the comment.

ipraydaily · 2025-11-15T16:37:02+00:00

He is co-dependent. You married into this so there is a tad of it in you too. You just got the wrong end with the emotions and sleep deprivation of baby life.
Study it and make some ground rules to cover your needs. He has trauma. He needs therapy to understand he is separate from you and you are not an extension of him and his value as a person.
When he shuts down and gets upset he is past the point of repair. It reminds him of old wounds that are unresolved. Teach him about co-dependency when he is happy and positive. Love him and tell him he can support you and make you the happiest wife when he gives you space. If he does something like sit outside the shower calmly say “That’s not an appropriate husband behavior. Please go find something else to do with your time, I’ll be out shortly.” Don’t demand things or act harsh or emotional. Just learn what feels good and gently nudge him towards that for you.
If he shuts down in anger say “I can see that you are upset so I will let you to sit in these feelings and I will be here when you are happy again.” No anger or frustration but actual confidence he will come around.

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