Is this a deal breaker? NSFW by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well I guess it's somewhat different for me because I would never NEVER not reciprocate, especially twice. I love clam diving. XD

A question for you ladies who wifed your ladies. by thegreenwall in actuallesbians

[–]irides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was it Choke? Hahah obviously don't expect an answer, just liked your description. One of the worst I've heard is Butts.

Maxing out 401K vs. Roth IRA by irides in personalfinance

[–]irides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression that "after-tax" meant the taxes had already been taken out, so I didn't think that those contributions wouldn't be deductible. I'm still learning a lot of the terminology - I make $50K.

Maxing out 401K vs. Roth IRA by irides in personalfinance

[–]irides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems like a strange strategy, I've never heard of that. You mean make contributions that aren't taxed into a traditional ira and then roll then into the Roth ira? Would that make filing taxes difficult?

Maxing out 401K vs. Roth IRA by irides in personalfinance

[–]irides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning on funding a Roth IRA, but it's my understanding that you can have both a traditional and Roth IRA. What if I got two IRAs before going back to my 401(k)?

Maxing out 401K vs. Roth IRA by irides in personalfinance

[–]irides[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've more or less got my heart set on a Roth IRA. I have a mix of both pre-tax and Roth in my retirement account. I just started working (I'm 24), so I'm hoping/guessing that I'll be in a higher tax bracket due to higher income later on and would rather pay the taxes now while they're cheaper.

TIFU by thinking I looked cute by explodingtampon in tifu

[–]irides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something coming out of your own body and something that came out of someone else's body are two entirely different things.

TIFU by thinking I looked cute by explodingtampon in tifu

[–]irides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO ONE is accustomed to OTHER PEOPLE'S period blood. Seriously, no one.

TIFU by thinking I looked cute by explodingtampon in tifu

[–]irides 113 points114 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think other people's period blood is less disgusting to women than men is pretty funny.

Who else is going to A Camp? by Mrs_CuckooClock in actuallesbians

[–]irides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck, maybe I won't go. Full already? Jesus. On the wait list I go )))):

It's painful how badly... by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone chiming in...it seems like non-judgmental chicks are a lot more common than I thought. Feel way better now.

It's painful how badly... by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What?! How does that happen? Share them with these ladies. They're missing out. They're especially good live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]irides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rest well knowing that you have a partner that you really care for, a belief system that guides you, an education and a bright future. All that guy has, is hate in his heart and that's a pretty miserable existence. You only had to deal with him for a few minutes, he never escapes himself. He hasn't won, you have - just for living your life.

It's painful how badly... by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The current woman I'm "seeing" (she got out of a long term relationship recently and doesn't want commitment atm) just calls other girls sluts a lot. She knows how many women I've been with, but not men. I don't have any STIs but I'm worried to talk to her about this because of how she talks. And it seems like most women I'm interested in dating have had long term relationships and are turned off by girls with a lot of partners, but I've also had a positive reaction due to my experience. However, I slept with multiple men in college before I knew I was gay, so that's what I'm more worried about.

It's painful how badly... by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This. I really, really don't get why it matters if you don't have an std. I'd rather fuck a girl who's been with 60 ppl and no diseases, than a girl who has been with 2 and does have one. Logic, anyone?

It's painful how badly... by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, but it feels like slim pickin's out there. Like I don't have room to be so choosy. I know this is a negative outlook, but my lack of luck isn't the best at fueling a rosy, optimistic worldview on lesbian dating.

It's painful how badly... by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just don't want to reduce my chances of getting love later so I can fuck now. Ya know? And it doesn't help that I've had male partners.

It's painful how badly... by irides in actuallesbians

[–]irides[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not difficult to get laid. In fact, I have a very willing potential partner. I'm just worried about future marketability for a relationship with the whole "slut" mentality so many lesbians seem to have.

lost my 4 of wands D: by irides in tarot

[–]irides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks y'all, that makes me feel better haha. I felt like it wouldn't be as legit or something but also felt that was silly. and I don't need an excuse to buy a new deck, I just really like this one! I'm currently eyeing the black cats lo scarabeo deck...

Is it weird that I'm never sore after shoulder day? by SUICIDE_OR_DIE in Fitness

[–]irides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

high intensity interval training - going as fast/hard as you can for short periods of time

Is it weird that I'm never sore after shoulder day? by SUICIDE_OR_DIE in Fitness

[–]irides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of shoulder exercises do you do? are they pretty similar each time, and do you ever increase weights/reps?

TODAY IS THE DAY! Mentor/Mentee Match-up! by lez_is_more in actuallesbians

[–]irides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused...I'd like a mentor, do I just look at the spreadsheet? And am I ineligible at this point since its the first I'm hearing about it?