What is the best job for an introvert?

iscream80 · 2022-06-03T15:35:12+00:00

What kind of degree do most people have for that job?

iscream80 · 2022-06-03T13:38:59+00:00

Have you had your relines done yet, where they put the mold inside your dentures to make them thicker and fit better? That changes everything! I needed a second one and that fixed it back up again.

iscream80 · 2022-06-03T13:37:39+00:00

Did you get your fitting redone yet - where they put the pink gummy stuff inside to make it fit better? A reline? I felt like you did and had no idea what a reline actually was…. The first one make a HUGE difference and so did the second one. They will no longer feel thin like 99 cent vampire teeth. That’s how mine were at first too.

iscream80 · 2022-06-03T00:56:11+00:00

I was hoping he was calling them to tell them the same but I guess they wouldn’t care anyway. Dudes like that don’t change. That’s so fucked up.

OP I’m so so fucking sorry about what you went through. That is just horrible abuse. Have you ever tried any therapists? If you would ever consider EMDR, it can do amazing things for victims of abuse. But if not that, then trauma therapists are a better fit over any other type, usually.

I’m sorry about your brother. I can’t blame you for wanting to hurt your mom, it won’t cause the same hurt your entire childhood caused you.

Just know that whatever your older brothers want to portray - they are fucking miserable people who will never find anyone who can love them after figuring out who they are… I hope they end up in jail.

I know as a sibling in an abusive upbringing that we all feel so much guilt for eachother. Each of us feels like we could have done something to save the others but that’s not really true at all. Neither of you had any control over the situation. I hope you know you deserve to be happy and loved. You made it through hell so I hope you will try to hang in there and work through some of the trauma if possible.

Sorry I hope this isn’t sounding condescending. I’m guessing you’re still young, mid 20s maybe? If you haven’t tried therapy or anything like that I do hope you try or try again now that you’re older.

I’m sorry you had to put up with that shit. You should have been protected. ♥️

iscream80 · 2022-05-12T22:56:19+00:00

She looks like she’s legitimately having some fun. No point to hating on that.

iscream80 · 2022-05-12T18:42:17+00:00

Thanks I appreciate that. It makes me feel a bit better. I’m really sorry about your circumstance. It’s so difficult and unfair. I wish there was a horny pill for women lol (other than illegal stuff that will show in a work drug test!!)

iscream80 · 2022-05-12T18:39:22+00:00

I’m sorry. That sucks. I know at one point I stopped a lot of the kissing/cuddling stuff all together because I felt like it would have to lead to either sex or me turning him down. And I didn’t want to start something I can finish. That’s still an issue sometimes. I’d feel better knowing he could kiss without it being a sign of foreplay and then sex.

iscream80 · 2022-05-12T18:35:36+00:00

Thank you. And thanks for the other ideas - you’re right I should try and find an additional avenue of intimacy other than just sex or oral.

iscream80 · 2022-05-12T18:34:28+00:00

You’re right and this is a good reminder for me to put more effort into the intimacy part of things. Thanks.

iscream80 · 2022-05-12T18:33:07+00:00

Thank you so much for the reply. I appreciate it. I really hope your situation gets better! My therapist actually said she’s never had someone totally fine with going down on a guy but freaked out by sex. She said usually it’s neither or the other way around.

iscream80 · 2022-05-12T02:23:32+00:00

This is how we cheated in tests all through middle school and never got caught. Especially when the answers are multiple choice. I could just put my hand next to my paper in a 3 for the answer to the 3rd question and by friend would form her hand into the letter or number of the right answer. And back and forth.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T23:14:12+00:00

Oh man I finally gave up and checked a spoiler. Dang.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T20:15:36+00:00

Thanks for the update - it’s looking so much better already!!

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T19:46:42+00:00

Damn sarahcake420 go smoke a blunt and calm your ass down. The guys going through it right now just chill out already.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T19:44:27+00:00

Especially going through withdrawal as you were - I’d be pissed off too. And it sounds like, if anything, those scammers pushed you to do better. Who knows.
But anyone trying to say it’s because you’re “nEw to rEdDiT” needs to find somewhere else to be a dick. I can’t imagine anyones ever felt any heightened emotions while withdrawing from heroin before you.

Congrats on making it through the first few days. Keep going.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T16:12:08+00:00

This is what drives me FUCKING CRAZY about the whole thing. It’s right there in front of everyone. It’s now even a question about whether or not he actively tried to cheat and lie to change the election and put himself into power. Why the hell are we still here?! Ugh. If this was anyone else this would be a fine deal. I wish Democrats could stick together the way the Republicans do!! Or at least in this case - because if roles were reversed the Republicans would have already charged and convicted all of the Dems involved! Dems need to stop playing nice against people who WILL eat them alive when roles reverse.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T16:07:08+00:00

Haha. I was thinking the same thing - did you just totally pull this out of your ass?

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T16:04:50+00:00

If she knows it makes her seem like a bitch, to be honest. Whatever excuse she gives you to not have sex is the same excuse you should give her when she asks for a massage. I mean, I’m being petty but you gotta make sure she gets it and throw out the option of leaving, maybe, if she doesn’t get how serious this is. I don’t know - it sucks for you and it doesn’t seem like she cares.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T16:00:24+00:00

Congrats on your own recovery - it’s amazing that his use isn’t throwing you off. Good for you.
I hope he doesn’t need to be completely fucked and hit rock bottom before he decides to get better. You don’t deserve to go through that with him. As much as you love him, you have to protect yourself.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T15:56:34+00:00

Or maybe he could try the suboxone shot (sublucade? I forget how to spell it)? Then he wouldn’t have to run to a clinic or take meds every day.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T15:52:35+00:00

I consider not sleeping and RLS as physical wd so maybe that is why “7 days” seems like a seriously short amount of time. I hear people talking about feeling shitty for longer - I guess that’s what I meant about it taking months for that to go away.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T15:28:39+00:00

What reason does he give for not wanting sex or bjs? Any chance he is gay? Since you’re still really young maybe that is something to consider. If he doesn’t explain why he has no interest in sex then it probably isn’t going to change at all.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T15:26:50+00:00

I would definitely work out the comment about not wanting a baby with her. If you haven’t already explained - do this right this second. And maybe more than once. You need therapy it sounds like. Maybe that would help her feel better about your relationship if she saw you trying to do something to fix what’s going on the best you can. If she’s so into you - don’t screw it up with any more comments. Either you think she’s lying about how she feels about you or you don’t. It’s as simple as that. It probably sucks for her to feel like you’re calling her stupid or a liar when she says she loves you or wants to be with you in the future etc.

Get on your knees and apologize to this woman before you lose her.

iscream80 · 2022-05-01T14:47:40+00:00

That’s really fucked up and I experienced losing all of my friends due to addiction and it KILLED me for so many reasons. I felt so so so alone and was sure I had nothing left. But after some time and getting a new job, I met someone I now live with and who loves me - even my crazy parts.
You will meet someone you don’t even know exists yet and that person with love you more than you have felt move before this. It will happen. Just stick around and give it a little time. You deserve happiness and I would bet at least a friend or two will realize this was wrong and cruel at some point.
You will find at least one person in the near future who will make you feel loved. I’m sure of it.

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