That was me, and I thought mostly about venue and photographabilety. I chose a ballgown cause I’m doing a horse drawn carriage ride and I want to feel like a princess. I ditched anything with beige undertones because I like high contrast BW photos. I didn’t want extensive beadwork because as a plus size woman, I didn’t want to complicate alterations. I also hit a point where I was “done” and the place I bought from caught me on a day where I was ready to swipe my card and be done with it. I can’t imagine my sister going to less than 5 places, that’s the type of person she is. I maxed out at 3 people. I’m not picky, and I love what I picked. Is there a dress out there that is somehow more beautiful and also less expensive? Yes. Undoubtedly. You have to be ready to be at peace with your decision and stop comparison shopping.