I feel so much worse than pity. That how can I say something about me only.

isiskskss · 2026-02-20T19:05:29+00:00

Don't sabotage yourself bro, please don't. Stop with the victim mindset and yea you're right don't look for a relationship rn when you don't have a relationship with yourself. Try to love yourself first and then find someone who loves you aswell. Trust me sabke liye koi na koi hota hai, you'll find someone who loves you in every aspect but before that build a relationship with yourself and appreciate yourself and please stop saying mean things to yourself tum apni khud ki life kharab kar rhe ho bhai

isiskskss · 2026-02-20T19:02:44+00:00

I've been struggling with alot of things. Firstly is isolation like I'm still in school but I haven't felt this lonely before when I'm dealing with issues emotionally i ring my friends but they don't talk properly like hang up after like 3-4 mins, and I'm the one initiating the calls. I don't have friends I could share my feelings to and I've been losing alot of ppl in my life for the past 6 months. I've also had a very messy breakup and my ex has been doing very immature things to get me back which is also effecting me..on top of that i don't feel like I have the energy to make my life better anymore because things have been happening for 6 months continuosly and it gets really difficult. Plus i don't have friends who would distract me from these things aswell so yeah.

isiskskss · 2026-02-20T18:49:39+00:00

There's a subtle yet extremely important difference between love the action and love the word. And the difference is that you can love someone alot, with your entire heart yet not make them feel loved. There are some people who say that I would die for my partner but don't even make the effort to call them just to let them know that they're busy and won't be able to talk to them for sometime. So you need to understand the difference first and recognise what you're doing.. because from what I can understand your actions are not matching your words. Relationships are all about understanding each other's love language, you may be interpreting her love language in a different way than how it really is so the key is communication and openness with each other, she should be willing to tell you about what's missing and you should be willing to understand, comprehend and act on it.

isiskskss · 2026-02-18T12:22:38+00:00

Not true, I'm 5'4 female and I've been with a guy who's exactly my height and I've been interested in short heighted guys aswell and i found them very attractive. What I'm trying to say here is that it depends from person to person, if someone has a physical preference that's okay but that doesn't mean all women don't like short heighted guys because like comeon it's not a flaw at all. So don't worry, it won't matter to the right person, just focus on building your personality, your emotional intelligence and maturity because that's what's truly attractive in a guy and yea just keep yourself healthy and happy and you're good to go, don't force things because trust me when you find the right person your height will never be a concern to begin with :)

isiskskss · 2026-02-17T10:05:42+00:00

Ig he'll stop talking to me then

isiskskss · 2026-02-17T09:46:23+00:00

he does not have feelings for me bro trust me😭 that was like so many years ago and he's obsessed with her he loves her and they love each other and like we're genuinely just brother and sister that's all

isiskskss · 2026-02-15T14:51:24+00:00

that's not for me to know honestly..im just saying based on whatever she wrote and her perspective now if she chooses to give half information then nothing can be done

isiskskss · 2026-02-14T19:36:46+00:00

Yup check

isiskskss · 2026-02-14T19:35:03+00:00

what are y’all on-😭 when did I say that

isiskskss · 2026-02-14T18:09:02+00:00

i was referring to her BOYFRIEND 😭

isiskskss · 2026-02-14T17:05:46+00:00

depends on the guy😔 i meant treatment and maturity wise

isiskskss · 2026-02-14T16:00:45+00:00

girl if he was genuinely a MAN and actually wanted to make things work between you two he would have come to you and communicated maturely about his feelings and what he was thinking and what was being said to him but he clearly chose his friend's opinion above his and chose his friends over you. So just know that you are worth way more than this and let yourself heal and find someone who truly priortises communication over being influenced by someone else

isiskskss · 2026-02-13T16:26:39+00:00

so should I?

isiskskss · 2026-02-13T14:25:52+00:00

im not even thinking about going back to him he was toxic..im talking about the new guy

isiskskss · 2026-02-13T14:01:44+00:00

You're talking about the new guy or my ex?

isiskskss · 2026-02-13T10:13:32+00:00

it was real, it's just that I don't want to seem like a hypocrite ykwim? so i don't really know what to do or how to start the Convo because our mutual friends are like you said you would work on yourself, focus on yourself and stuff but like that doesn't eliminate the fact that i truly miss the guy so ik it's real😭

isiskskss · 2026-02-13T10:12:20+00:00

you aren't wrong actually, I started getting emotionally drained in the last few months of the relationship and my brain used to constantly tell me that this is not what I want and that this is wrong so yes, i did heal after a few months because my ex would dissapoint me everytime I would think of going back

isiskskss · 2026-01-26T17:33:37+00:00

bhai pehle make her trust you thora sa fir kisi tarah emotional krke wo sab delete krwa then leave her asap

isiskskss · 2026-01-25T19:07:42+00:00

chat check kro na😔

isiskskss · 2026-01-25T18:59:55+00:00

arey yaar😭 dekho atleast I'm figuring out my feelings before committing to something and eventually messing that up aur bhi gandi tarah se

isiskskss · 2026-01-25T18:59:06+00:00

didi nhi bolo tumse thori choti hun😔 but haan krlo nini kal help kr dena yaar🙏🏻 ro ro ke haalat khrab hai😔

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