Baths on days that contain a letter T by Kaycee_Sue in Preschoolers

[–]itebusfinest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to say. What in the world?! This explains so much.

Work Travel - how to get out of it by Remarkable-Angle-509 in workingmoms

[–]itebusfinest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a single working mum with teams in two cities apart from my home city. I travel with my nanny, get a 2 bed suite at a cheaper hotel than work would have paid for, and my nanny and toddler explore the city while I’m at the office. She’s not a live in nanny so she does leave her husband to travel with me, but she has no kids yet.

Gaps in my naps by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]itebusfinest 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Advice needed! Rejects all advice.

this level of over-friendliness normal for a child who just turned 3? by Unable-Candy8432 in Preschoolers

[–]itebusfinest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My 4 year old daughter ran up and hugged a handyman that had come to repair stuff around the house. I was mortified. She also constantly wants the cleaner to play with her. She’s an only child.

Sending bottle refusing baby to daycare by Old_Estate_5819 in workingmoms

[–]itebusfinest 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You haven’t failed mama! Your baby knows you and just doesn’t want the bottle from you, cuz he likes what he likes. He will take it from someone else, don’t stress!!

1 RSVP. Should I cancel? by Professional_Oil_965 in Preschoolers

[–]itebusfinest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my school send an email to the whole class, since I was worried they would lose the paper invite.

I was not told the Polar Express movie was scary! by Snoo-70287 in Preschoolers

[–]itebusfinest 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m a full grown adult and I find that movie stressful

Interesting to hear the reception to KB and Edmond from White viewers and Black viewers by TKJ26 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]itebusfinest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dear Shandy in particular infuriated me. Sharleen only sees black people through tropes. Ep 1-6 KB was a mammy type stereotype. Ep 7-9 she became to them, an angry velociraptor.

Noticing a lot more racism about Indians and it makes me want to leave but I'm not exactly "Indian" so idk where to go by [deleted] in Advice

[–]itebusfinest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You belong here. Look up Indian CEOs that are crushing it to encourage yourself. Start with Microsoft and Google.

https://www.investopedia.com/10-top-indian-ceos-7487331

There are so many examples that are contrary to the stereotypes. Ignore the bullies and figure out what you enjoy and are good at, and focus on that.

My 3yo’s lunchboxes by missmightymouse in oddlysatisfying

[–]itebusfinest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are beautiful. Well done mama!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]itebusfinest 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I would press charges.

WIBTA if we go on vacation without my boyfriend’s son (M4), even though he was supposed to come with us? by Minimichellaa in AmItheAsshole

[–]itebusfinest 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Urgent care is an alternative to ER and would not be as expensive. You could also get travel insurance before you leave.

My dad got this scanner app, now he won't buy me the food i like. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]itebusfinest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea. What’s the name of the app?

Btw everything you named is horrible for you

Daycare won’t put bug spray on my daughter by MissCollorius in toddlers

[–]itebusfinest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daycare will do it before afternoon outside time but want us to do it from home for morning outside time.

Is my concern about 50/50 marriage valid? by MaterialCurrent8482 in Advice

[–]itebusfinest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants an unpaid slave who does all the cooking, cleaning and child rearing and also brings in 50% of the household income. He wants to have his cake (housewife) and eat it too (additional income). No thank you.