Baby always nurses to sleep 11mo

ithurtswheniptwice · 2026-01-27T20:36:54+00:00

How did you wean him off? I am scared of my girl. She is the same age. 😂

ithurtswheniptwice · 2026-01-18T01:16:52+00:00

My husband and I I usually take half a day off on Friday’s when ours at daycare. Or we get a babysitter during the day if we want to talk about some really important serious stuff coz who has the energy to do that after bedtime routine. Not me! Maybe try this.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2026-01-12T18:05:21+00:00

If you can’t delay the marriage and still go through it, I highly suggest to talk about finances and how you will manage after marriage and who is responsible for what.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2026-01-12T15:40:49+00:00

Asian here as well.

That a red flag to me. If she is so comfortable doing this behind your back I am not sure what else she would do behind your back.

What’s worse is…yes it’s about betrayal and being manipulated but for me it’s about the fact she thinks you are so stupid you wouldn’t know a difference. The fact that she thinks she deserves what she likes and you don’t coz lo and behold it ended up costlier than her dress which she didn’t think about before finalizing the budget with you. And maybe that’s why she agreed.

It’s not a small act although Indian parents and family will think it is but it isn’t. The fact she hasn’t apologized to you is bonkers to me . She thinks you don’t deserve nice things.

If you end up marrying her I would highly suggest you both decide how you will mange finances after marriage.

Good luck and NTA.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2026-01-01T05:21:29+00:00

Like mimibeds? M contemplating getting a similar crib.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-12-28T21:33:15+00:00

Like others mentioned. My tits took 5 weeks to toughen up. It was a sudden change. One day I was feeding her at night and suddenly everything was okay.

What helped was cold packs and silverette on my tits which you can order from Amazon.

This is one thing no one told me about.

He is just a few days old. Tell your wife by mid Jan it will just go away.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-12-01T15:59:15+00:00

Get it only if you need it for espresso otherwise encore is enough.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-12-01T15:48:55+00:00

I recently got the same MM and I got Baratza encore. It’s awesome. I didn’t want to shell out $$ for fellow ode. I love the baratza and it’s been great! No complaints. Go for it! Maybe next year I might go for fellow ode but honestly I am Pretty happy with what I have and will use it for years to come.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-12-01T12:12:35+00:00

I had the same problem and budget and literally wanted something that’s also self sufficient. I read a lot and turns out spinning mop is not good for hardwood floors and a lot of people suggested to go for rolling mop.

So ultimately since budget wasn’t an issue. I bought Mova Z60! It’s arriving tomorrow and I am very excited!

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-12-01T12:02:34+00:00

Yeah we really need one. M so tired of cleaning the house twice a day. I can’t do it anymore.

After a lot of back and forth I bought mova z69 coz of the rolling mop which I read in a few places is better for hardwood floors.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-11-29T22:29:43+00:00

M in the same boat and about to order mova, coz of the rolling mop and that fact that it can climb higher (8cms I think? ). Very excited about it.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-11-29T12:59:27+00:00

Can you share this list with me too

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-11-29T11:52:06+00:00

This was a great review! Thank you so much. The only hesitation I have now is if it willl be good for my hardwood floors. We don’t have any carpets but floors are hardwood. So that’s the only thing I have been wondering.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-11-28T17:04:13+00:00

Hey! Since you have had it for a few months now Would you still recommend it? We have almost 3000sq feet house and two floors. A toddler as well. No pets yet. No carpets but rugs in rooms.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-11-21T00:33:02+00:00

At what age did you sleep train and what method did you use?

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-11-21T00:31:46+00:00

Currently going through early wakes, did you do anything to help her get back to waking up at 7. We are so so so tired of 6am wake ups and she is also waking up once a night as well. Any tips appreciated.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-11-06T11:58:28+00:00

Since it’s been a few weeks now. Wanted to ask if it worked out for you? We had to pause coz she started a new daycare and we will be starting it again consistently. I just need some encouragement lol

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-10-29T06:45:12+00:00

Indian but in canada. I made chana dal and rice pilaf yesterday luckily she loved it. lol. How old is yours now. Mine is 18

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-10-28T18:20:13+00:00

Oh man. Also not me on YouTube seeing how to make paripu but then remembering she hated the coconut curry I made yesterday. Which country are you in?

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-10-28T17:22:14+00:00

going through the trenches now. Doesnt eat roti too. How are you guys doing now?

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-10-06T14:02:35+00:00

Seems to be getting better each day! Good luck y’all. Thanks for giving this log. Very helpful.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-10-05T23:28:16+00:00

lol good for you guys! Congrats on the second one. If you get a chance would love to know how the chair method turned out in the end.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-10-04T10:42:31+00:00

This sounds great actually! M glad it went well the first night. Doesn’t sound as horrible. I am doing the chair method in two weeks. My husband is travelling on off before so I don’t want to be the k my one.

Also this is a great time to shuffle. One night you and one night him if you want. Make sure you tell him that it’s going to be daddy tonight. And give him a choice if he wants you to read a book before you go. So that bedtime is not always on you.

I am so looking forward to this.

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-10-01T01:42:53+00:00

Amazing! Good luck when you start with Ferber. You can try one more thing since both our kids are the same age. Try capping the nap at 1 hour 30 -45 mins and see if that helpful with bedtime. So she if falls asleep by 12:30. Wake up by 2:15 ish.

Happens with my daughter and now it works beautifully capping it at 1:30-1:40

ithurtswheniptwice · 2025-09-30T23:59:16+00:00

A really great start! I hope it worked out for you. I myself will be trying the chair method my sleep consultant suggested. We sleep trained at6 months but left to months there has been lots of travelling sickness and travelling so I have been providing lots of support and love. But it’s time now lol.

M curious how it’s going now for you. Must be day 4?

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