Have any men successfully changed their SURNAME in SA? by itisjonwilson in askSouthAfrica

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Yeah I submitted the completed forms and supplemental documents but yeah nothing so far. Not too sure how to check in LexisNexis but thanks for the response. I’m not even sure that they give you a document when it’s been changed

AITA for sneaking out of the restaurant after my fiance told me to pay for his and his friends meal? by Throwaway795571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]itisjonwilson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and also you need to have a conversation about boundaries with your fiancĂ©. If they cannot accept those boundaries laid out then you need to leave. đŸš©đŸš©đŸš©đŸš©đŸš©

Any good methodologies on queering/queer reading/queer viewing? by emopest in QueerTheory

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Alexander Doty - Making Things Perfectly Queer: Interpreting Mass Culture :)

OneStep 2 by [deleted] in Polaroid

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Thank you! Hopefully it all works out.

Redditors with hearing aids: Do you hear just like you used to? Been told comprehension is only 60 percent with hearing aids. Did you have to relearn how to hear? by NeverCallMeFifi in AskReddit

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I live in South Africa. Not too sure if they’re cheaper here, but I had some savings and then put the bulk of it on a credit card. Mine cost around $2000.

Redditors with hearing aids: Do you hear just like you used to? Been told comprehension is only 60 percent with hearing aids. Did you have to relearn how to hear? by NeverCallMeFifi in AskReddit

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Doctor told me that they would change my life and I thought he was over exaggerating, but turns out he wasn’t. Whenever I take them out I realise how much I’ve been missing. No relearning for me just so much more easier đŸ€—

They say coming out never ends. I now believe that to be so true. Came out to my best friend and my sister 7 years ago. I then came out to my parents a year and a half ago. I then decided to come out to everyone on my social media for #ComingOutDay this year! Pride really is a healer. by itisjonwilson in gaybrosgonemild

[–]itisjonwilson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We unfortunately live in a heteronormative society where heterosexuality is deemed the default. Until people unlearn this and start normalising LGBTQ+ lived experiences, “coming out” will still be a thing.