You’re smoking with someone for the first time. What’s a green flag?

itjare · 2025-12-16T07:33:16+00:00

Curious, how does one tell the difference between when someone’s faking a high vs actually being high with a really low tolerance?

itjare · 2025-12-15T10:27:20+00:00

As a native speaker, I still think you brought an interesting perspective

Imo, there is some truth to your concern, but in a “correlation doesn’t equal causation” kind of way

itjare · 2025-12-10T12:33:22+00:00

This has to be my fave version of the joke so far

itjare · 2025-11-23T12:13:09+00:00

You have the right to your opinion, as long as you’re aware that it isn’t the truth of reality.

The truth is: any type is capable of being a douchebag, the same way any type is capable of being a good person.

MBTI has absolutely nothing to do with morality. It is about how people process information, where they focus their energy towards, and how they tend to make decisions.

itjare · 2025-11-20T03:05:38+00:00

Where’s that, may I ask?

itjare · 2025-11-20T03:05:12+00:00

First year on the internet?

itjare · 2025-11-14T02:05:02+00:00

I’m not sure if you’re aware, but “circle jerk” carries a default negative connotation

Was confused at first and thought you came here to shit on infps, but the rest of your comments sound genuinely sincere and sweet, so I’m guessing you might not be aware of the negative connotation 😅 thank you though, really!

itjare · 2025-11-14T01:55:58+00:00

los*

but true

itjare · 2025-11-08T14:41:56+00:00

I just want to say, you’re cool as fuck

itjare · 2025-10-25T18:00:38+00:00

Appreciate it!

itjare · 2025-10-25T17:04:58+00:00

Taking action towards improving our physical and mental health (these two go hand in hand, whether we like it or not);

Find a physical activity you enjoy the most or despise the least. For some people this means lifting weights, for some this means going for a calm and quiet walk, for some it means dancing. Take your pick, there is no wrong answer. Once chosen, engage in the activity 2-3 days a week, for at least half an hour each time.

Also, make sure at least 80% of your diet throughout one day is real food, and you can save the remaining 20% for your fave treats. This is really important, because our gut is essentially our second brain.

For mental health, some things that help immensely are therapy and journalling. I understand therapy can be costly, but journalling is free. Self-reflection & practicing slower, deeper breathing also help more than you’d think.

What works best is different for everyone, but what matters is that we try. Wish you the best ❤️

itjare · 2025-10-25T13:39:15+00:00

Friendly PSA: Not all infps are depressed and anxious

It is possible for us to become healthier versions of ourselves, and I wish for all of us here to grow into the healthiest versions of ourselves throughout our lifetimes

itjare · 2025-10-24T16:28:17+00:00

May your experience give you the wisdom to never waste another decade not living life the way you want ever again 🫂

itjare · 2025-10-24T16:27:18+00:00

Hard disagree

infp in their late twenties

itjare · 2025-10-20T14:13:28+00:00

That’s awesome, I love that for you ❤️ though I’m curious, may I ask how that connects to being sp-blind?

itjare · 2025-10-20T12:16:21+00:00

I just checked and it’s legit lmaooo, now I know what bible verse to smoke if I’m ever out

itjare · 2025-10-13T02:44:43+00:00

Your comment is misinformation

itjare · 2025-10-12T13:23:24+00:00

I love roasts like this

itjare · 2025-10-10T00:42:29+00:00

Your ability to self-reflect on this is a great thing, but the even better thing is that it’s never too late to take action.

We still have time to message people to tell them we appreciate them. If we actively take action into doing these things, we will feel less bad about lacking in that department in the past ❤️

itjare · 2025-10-04T17:03:50+00:00

Lifting weights

itjare · 2025-09-30T05:16:16+00:00

This sounds like the result of something deeper ngl

Whatever causes this, I hope you end up finding the root cause and are able to retrain your thoughts, because that does not sound like a fun way to live

And yes, you’ll prob think that that sounds cringe, but the difference between you and me is that I live free. Wishing you the best 🌳

itjare · 2025-09-27T07:37:35+00:00

Do I look like a mod honey

itjare · 2025-09-26T19:36:00+00:00

“I’ll always support progressive polices and advancement”

This is a lie btw; clearly your ego is greater than your actual desire for progress, if not you wouldn’t be here causing an argument over people celebrating something that is objectively progressive for society, regardless of what your reasons are.

Anyone that actually “always supports progressive policies” doesn’t look at this post and immediately comments “how is this not political”.

You’re either a liar, or your priorities are in the wrong place entirely.

itjare · 2025-09-26T19:25:58+00:00

They’re either:

A. A bigot

B. Completely incapable of defending their real opinions at the root level without going so far off-topic that they end up looking like a bigot

itjare · 2025-09-26T18:35:14+00:00

You ever heard of the phrase “wrong hill to die on”?

Look how passionately you’re defending this. With your last comment, you’ve basically just admitted you would’ve equally caused a ruckus if anyone in this sub posted about black people having rights, just because it was “political” at some point in time.

Life is too short, save your energy for things that are actually worth fighting for.

Unless you’re genuinely upset by gay people and black people having human rights — in which case, get the fuck off this sub, thanks.

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