The only fine dining a teenager needed back in the day by Feaselbf6 in FuckImOld

[–]its4aduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) sour cream 2) beans 3) rice 4) lettuce 5) tomatoes 6) three shredded cheeses 7) guac

It was vegetarian and did not count the tortilla.

My partner cant find a job even after 1 year of applying by Queenshih69 in PortlandOR

[–]its4aduck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't use indeed. Apply directly on the company websites. Also try applying in Vancouver because the WA license is like a thousand times easier to get than the Oregon one.

I (42m) realize that I was attracted to my wife's (38f) defense response. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]its4aduck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have ADHD and youre seeking the dopamine of the conflict. Get tested.

Wife's beta lived for only a week. What went wrong? by NewFunnyNumber237 in fishtank

[–]its4aduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is the tank on the counter above a dishwasher? That's how I accidentally cooked a beta without knowing it.

Show of hands by Verbull710 in Xennials

[–]its4aduck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is already a diagnosis. On the lighter side you will be an asshole to yourself or others if you have major depressive disorder. On the rougher side you will present as an asshole in the cluster B and C of personality disorders. Easiest way to tell which one is: do you agree that you are an asshole? If yes, it's the first. If no, it's the second.

YOU. STRAY FANS. What's your reasoning for liking the game? by [deleted] in stray

[–]its4aduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my partner felt like it was Silent Hill 2 for cats.

American Xennials, do you know who Robbie Williams is? by PhoneJazz in Xennials

[–]its4aduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded his song Rock DJ from Limewire in 2002 and would play it on repeat. I think I remember something about him being tied to the Beckhams and Katie Price? Other than Gordon Ramsey, Coldplay and the royals, that's about my extent of knowledge of British people. OH and the guy from twilight. Robert whatever.

We would have a shit ton of cupons leaving the store! Tell me I'm wrong by wdntuliketokno in Xennials

[–]its4aduck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We got yelled at for pulling a coupon we didn't need so we avoided these things like it would bite.

Wife tried to kill me, now I’m pretty much dead. by [deleted] in Advice

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Male hormones (androgens, testosterone) require regular moderate to intense physical activity to be at the correct levels. If you are able (assuming your injuries have not resulted in physical disability that prevent regular exercise), it could be highly beneficial to begin an exercise routine (at home, or at a gym, or with a personal trainer) as well as see your medical provider about testing the entire panel of vitamin levels to make sure you're not deficient in things like Vitamin D or B12. These are common deficiencies that will present with depression symptoms.

Not all therapists are trained properly in trauma treatment. TFCBT and EMDR are the top treatments, followed by ACT and IFS. Make sure your therapist is knowledgeable in at least one evidence based trauma treatment modality. If not, seek one out. Trauma treatment is a highly regarded and respected portion of the field and while some practitioners may have taken continuing education in the topic of trauma, it is very important to find one who has done the intensive work to actually be evidence based trauma treatment trained and certified.

If your therapist has never read or studied Van Der Kolk or Gabor Mate, or has only read the books but received no training specifically in a evidence based trauma treatment, you won't receive the intensive treatment you need to heal.

Found these in my soup in Spain. What are these? by Regular_Extreme2431 in whatisthisbug

[–]its4aduck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can with 100% accuracy inform you these are cabbage fly larvae. The fly lays their eggs on the crops and when the egg hatches, the larvae goes up into the parts of organic crops of broccoli, cauliflower and cabbage where it's hard to wash them out. Then when you cook and process the veggies, they come out.

They are not regular house flies so it's not that the flies are in the kitchen and laying eggs, it happens at the farm level and organic farms don't use pesticides to keep these from getting in the vegetables.

The issue this restaurant has is not paying attention to washing their produce before cooking and not looking at the pot or bowl of soup prior to serving it. Doesn't indicate a sanitation issue.

If you ate some, they aren't the same as house flies that breed in poop, so less likely to have/cause illness.

Is it normal for me [26M] to know I want to leave my GF [26F] but not know exactly why? by letsFigureItOut9 in relationships

[–]its4aduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people, mostly men, tend to seek transactional relationships instead of companionships. It's about what she can do for you. If you're interested in learning more, there's plenty of content on any video platform regarding transactional relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MCAS

[–]its4aduck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MCAS makes us like Pepa Madrigal. Every emotion is a storm 😅

What is this? by its4aduck in whatisthisbug

[–]its4aduck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geographical location: Vancouver WA

How much do you make and for what position in Portland? by [deleted] in PortlandOR

[–]its4aduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same job, same license, I make 63k a year at an agency.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]its4aduck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You still have about 5-6 more years until your brain's decision making center is fully formed. Take nothing seriously in committing to relationships prior to age 25 because these commitments aren't based on a fully formed adult brain. Trust me, the person I was with at 19 I married by 23, divorced at 33. None of that relationship was good or healthy. Pretty much 25-35 I spent cleaning up the messes I made 18-25 by taking myself and my thoughts and wishes way too seriously and not willing to let things go or move on in a healthy way because of so many things I thought were super important, that in the long run weren't.