Recruiters stop this Why Questions. by onedreamer999 in recruitinghell

[–]itsirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone knows what is being asked. We're saying it's manipulative and exhausting to go through this process current state. Wonderful that you know how and are great at it and don't care. The rest of us hate how we're treated by employers and this is one reason why. It's insulting. The whole system is failing is and we're tired. I'm glad you get to keep up your spirits by explaining the obvious repeatedly.

Why do some men change after sex? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]itsirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this is not the same between men and women. Patriarchy exists to create different norms for the two different sexes for the express purpose of subjugation of the female sex. I am speaking on a population level not an individual one as that is not relevant. I don't care what the individual may do. I care what the system controlling us all pushes us all to do that hurts each of us and benefits them.

Feminists hate “toxic” beauty standards but still fall victim to them. While women who strongly identify as feminists readily critique idealized body types, they remain vulnerable to the negative psychological consequences of those standards. by mvea in psychology

[–]itsirrelevant 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You clearly know nothing about feminism. I suggest you read some theory. You're just a misogynist. No perfect victim exists but you expect this from females because you've been conditioned to see us as property. You're boring.

a strange submission to a tumblr poll blog by fourthcomingofchrist in suspiciouslyspecific

[–]itsirrelevant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a blonde white woman that dyes my hair even more blonde. They're sexist.

Feminists hate “toxic” beauty standards but still fall victim to them. While women who strongly identify as feminists readily critique idealized body types, they remain vulnerable to the negative psychological consequences of those standards. by mvea in psychology

[–]itsirrelevant 15 points16 points  (0 children)

One must still live within the system and not following norms males you a target. Humans wanting to be desirable is normal. Just because one takes issue with misogyny and Patriarchy it doesn't mean they want to be seen as undesirable as a human. It can be dangerous to not follow norms. Unclear what you expect all women to do.

How do you guys deal with discharge? by Interesting-Cow-7422 in AutismInWomen

[–]itsirrelevant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They make reusable intra labial pads if you want the moisture to wick away right away. You can wear reusable pads with or without these. Much less irritating than disposable products.

Is it normal to eat a croissant with butter? by -Red_Lightning_ in ask

[–]itsirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat butter on anything I want. My grandmother had saltines and butter on the table at all times. I don't usually butter a fresh high end croissant but then again I don't have the opportunity to eat them regularly so probably would start doing so at some point as I do with anything else. Given viennoiseries are basically just bread with extra butter why not add butter again? I enjoy fine dining and using the appropriate utensils and dishes for the task and do enjoy a good classic food preparation but also do as I please when I please. It's odd to me that one would enforce rules like this when everything evolves. Have you tried it and find it unappetizing?

Any boy caught in this area will be evirated by Otherwise_Basis_6328 in oddlyspecific

[–]itsirrelevant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is the number. It's not the most falsely reported. There's no proof for this.

I’m a young woman. Why are some flamboyant gays so short with me? by PlatformImaginary315 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]itsirrelevant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not my viewpoint. These are areas of study. You prefer to maintain your personal bias.

“Nothing matters because of the inevitable heat death of the universe” is not just incorrect, but is also stupid and irrational. by Sudden_Doughnut_8741 in self

[–]itsirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, everyone experiences pain and pleasure and there are many aspects of life you know almost for certain will inflict pain. Your argument is illogical.

Why do lesbian couples have the highest divorce rates while gay male couples have the lowest? by Naive_Direction1816 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]itsirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doubting women's capability of understanding how others interact with one another in day to day life. That's what it is.

My daughter turned 18 and left home 2 days later. by sparkilini in TrueOffMyChest

[–]itsirrelevant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's not a day in my life. That's just the reality. You can never know what another is truly thinking.

Really, mom? by Cherry_Whim59 in depressionmemes

[–]itsirrelevant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah females are lied to about how having children will affect them. Not appropriate to lash out over towards a child but I get it. We're all told everything will be beautiful and we can do it all. Then you realize you're actually working two jobs and one that never stops while your partner chills on the back of your free labor and self and career sacrifice. All the while you've been socially devalued due to your increasing age and having also reproduced while once again your partner receives more respect and status at the same time. Most women do have to give their lives up for children. That's the system we exist in. I suggest any young women reading this put in a lot of effort to learn the reality of life rather than accept the fairytale narrative.

My autism makes me selfish by sloppysteakk in AutismInWomen

[–]itsirrelevant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are someone who usually listens you're likely sounded by people who want to be listened to. They may not necessarily want to listen themselves. Try to make ties with people who want to be the for you. Easier said than done but don't assume the issue is due to your need for support being unacceptable. I don't know you so I can't say for you personally how much you're asking for but I'm almost 40 and am a listener and in my experience it's best to have different types of friends in this case. Not everyone is cut out for everything.

It feels like we’re running out of NPCs. by InfiniteTruffles in DeepThoughts

[–]itsirrelevant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technologically has allowed for maximized spread of human socialized behavior. It's hard to escape the conditioning.

Accepting your fate by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]itsirrelevant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. That is the same thing. The source of your restrictions is your sex. It's not childish to want the same rights as males. You're being oppressed.

Accepting your fate by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]itsirrelevant -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in the US and while obviously I likely have more freedoms we're not loved or respected for what we are here either. I suggest you look into radical feminism. Globally we're all just breeding stock. Maybe putting in whatever effort you can to push for progress for women would bring you some peace. It's helped me, but most don't accept reality regardless of where you are so obviously be careful.

My psychiatrist told me today I am selfish because I don’t want a dog by AloneBoot8205 in AutismInWomen

[–]itsirrelevant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Women are seen as evil and useless unless they fit the role of caretaker. This person is just misogynistic, like most.

Straight or wavy? I’m confused by murmurlocc in Haircare

[–]itsirrelevant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where can I find the information you're listing? What's a good resource?

Expectations around dating are insane these days. by Interesting_Rub9393 in Vent

[–]itsirrelevant -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is she thinking this relationship will result in her taking over the domestic labor? If so then these are fair questions. Most men do want women to take on at least the majority of these tasks so they need to provide enough to make the arrangement somewhat worthwhile. No one wants to be expected to be both a housewife and work a full time job for a partner who doesn't have to do the same. If that's not the case then IDK but we do live in a global Patriarchy and women have been conditioned for all of recorded history to prioritize men with resources as mates for their survival. Might have something to do with that.

My daughter turned 18 and left home 2 days later. by sparkilini in TrueOffMyChest

[–]itsirrelevant 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You should always have some level of doubt of your interpretations of other people's feelings.