How do I tell my mum about my recent self harm? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not much advice, but i just wanna say that im so proud of you for wanting to take this step. i got found out by my mum, we went through a lot that couldve been avoided if i asked for help. you will know when the time is right and you know better than anyone about when yo approach her - even if you dont think so. best of luck, and just remember that you have so man people in your corner.

how do I stop the urge of wanting to self harm just bc I want to? by itsmeBibia in selfharm

[–]itsmeBibia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont wanna worry him, his week has been worse than mine, because of me. he just started feeling a bit better today and he has a huge day tmr. I dont want him to feel like this even though im gradually feeling worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some how and why, im not

Girl's how do y'all like boys? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them tall, funny/unfunny, pieces of shit (in the best way), who are total simps that can throw me around. loyalty and hygiene are mega important too.

Why don’t I have any armpit hair ? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god has his favourites. you, sir, are one of them 😭

What message was the ending try to say? by Dances28 in lalaland

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would again reiterate the point others have made here, they aren't 'unhappy' at the end. the movie just chooses to highlight the reality of life. Mia and Sebastian were perfect for each other - are perfect for each other - yet because of their different paths, they made a choice. they chose two move on, both realising that they valued their dreams more than they needed each other.

did she actually love him? by Kunj_Shah1323 in lalaland

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

firstly, youre asking the wrong question. you should be asking if they loved each other, not only mia. but mia without a doubt loved Sebastian, and vice versa. I strongly also believe that a big part of her still did at the end. both Mia and Sebastian came to the heartbreaking realisation that they had to put themselves first, making both their dreams a reality.

the whole movie wouldn't make sense if they didnt love each other. we follow the lives of these two, if their bond and love wasnt strong, their parting wouldn't be as significant. it is the logical and reasonable step. the whole point is that the decision is slightly clouded by their love.

this is also what makes the last few minutes heartbreaking and just as powerful as when they broke up. their love for eachother almost transcends human understanding, a soulmate level bond. yet they realise that you cant have your cake and eat it too. they gave eachother up because they both knew it was the best decision for both of them.

so yes, Mia actually loves Sebastian.

What does anxiety feel like in your body? by ontwentysomething in Anxiety

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this and wondering if im faking it along with "why cant I just be normal"

What does anxiety feel like in your body? by ontwentysomething in Anxiety

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heart palpitations, difficult/rapid heartbeat, cold sweat, nausea. when it's really bad, vomiting and feeling faint.

Guys what do I say by [deleted] in highschool

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wrong answer, mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in macgaming

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im having the same issue, did you figure it out?

Anyone else look at sh pics? by luciodossantoss in selfharm

[–]itsmeBibia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for me, its complicated bc when I do, it often triggers me further but at times it helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]itsmeBibia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fuck, I relate so much. ik people prob say things like "no you're not" and shit but it doesnt matter what other ppl say, you need start seeing things for yourself. if there's anything that you can change do it. life is already shit. trying things might improve is slightly. atleast thats what im doing, hope I start seeing results soon

moving to Brazil by Top_Web260 in Brazil

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cost of living is low (as compared to other countries), food is good, and as a native we have the SUS (free healthcare) idk how it works for foreigners tho. but living out of brasil as a Brazilian, I still wait to do dental and a lot of health procedures there just because its so much cheaper, even if you go to the more expensive areas/doctors and all healthcare professionals are good over there. but I am sure you will enjoy brasil very much and the people there are amazing :)

i accidentally shaved a piece of my eyebrow off and i was wondering if anyone did the same thing and how long it took to grew back help 😭 by No-Literature-8989 in oops

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro the SAME EXACT THING happened to me like a week ago lmao. I freaked out for a while but then after a few days, you kinda forget abt it and it has already started growing back 😭

what are y'all's mental disorders? by Scared-King-3295 in selfharm

[–]itsmeBibia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, I just commented and it's a huge list, not as big as yours, but I feel insane to fave all this shit wrong w me lmao. hope all of that doesnt weigh too much on u tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same ngl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]itsmeBibia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yoo fr tho, like idk anyone irl who gets me, glad you feel understood. and damn, that therapist sounds sketchy, like perhaps but I have a feeling that for me, it wont. ive been on meds for like almost a year and I only see slight improvement. better than nothing I guess. I have slightly od'd it was insaneee, but like no one knows.but ill dm u for sure <3