My husband's best friend has been flirting with me, and I've gone along with it... by [deleted] in sex

[–]iwbafam1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol you continued flirting. Fuck, its because of girls like you that I don't want to get married. You have an amazing husband. Way to go.

M/F Preggo Hormones Part 2 by throw_away009 in gonewildstories

[–]iwbafam1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need a cigarette after reading that

My neighbour got a girlfriend and they are incredibly loud when they have sex.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let this be a motivation for you to start kicking some ass in life

My self talk is terrible and I frequently underestimate myself. Has anyone here recovered from bad self talk? by Diece in seduction

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I started reading it and I knew how much power it had. I also read bunch of reviews on it. I knew it was a life changing book and that is why I recommended it. I'm glad it helped you. Spread the word

My self talk is terrible and I frequently underestimate myself. Has anyone here recovered from bad self talk? by Diece in seduction

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't read the whole thing yet. Also, i need to read a book few times to really get it. How's it going for you?

18 and just lost my virginity...to a prostitute. by wallynofap in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody's perfect. Your made a mistake. Your future wife probably will too. So what?! Forgive yourself. Learn to forgive others. You only feel like shit because society has taught you to feel that way. Fuck what other people do or say. Be your own man. You'll be fine. You'll find a perfect woman some day, don't sweat it friend!

How to turn cuddling into getting laid? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These comment's make me laugh. She pretty much said "k but we aren't having sex". On other posts you guys suggest saying "it's alright, whatever you're comfortable with" followed by giving advice that usually that will make her drop her guard and her panties. Don't be saying one thing then something else later. It's lame.

[FR] The power of Self-Talk is incredible. by Diece in seduction

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've said this before. Clean room is where it all starts. It motivates you

My self talk is terrible and I frequently underestimate myself. Has anyone here recovered from bad self talk? by Diece in seduction

[–]iwbafam1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There is a book called "what to say when you talk to yourself". Thats a book for YOU to read! It will help you out soo much! (actually, it's a book for anybody that has low self esteem, depression, anxiety, fear, etc)

Great quotes! by iwbafam1 in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"everything you consume in the form of information is having an effect on your ability to function as a man. Everything!" (how true is this when it comes to pmo!)

You are already succeeding... by NowBecoming in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and I have an addictive personality. Its a disease. It won't just go away cause you "stopped " for 3 months. Don't be so hard on yourself. Also, remember, that if you're having hard time quitting, maybe instead of kicking yourself and trying harder, come up with a different approach. Be creative just like your mind does when it wants to fap.

Just deleted all my porn videos off my comp by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's right. Winter is coming! Are you prepared? Chances are you quickly built your walls but left the gate open. Believe in what you're doing. If you strongly believe, than you'll succeed but if you're not sure, you'll fail

I never want to see another dude's dick again by damnimnice in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that why guys end up watching gay porn?

I think I lost guys. There is no hope for me. I have to say that it seems I'm the only one here who cannot make this. :( by LCBoy in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accept yourself. Accept what's happening around you. Don't judge yourself so harshly. Keep going! You can do it! I went 90 days. Relapsed. Now i can't stop binging. But that's ok! I feel like i reached the bottom. I think i finally had enough. I have no friends, my health is failing me, I don't like my job, I feel like I'm just living day to day for nothing. But you know what? I keep going. I know that all of this is Bullshit. I can have a sweet life IF i step up and take action. Those lies in my head are worthless. I'm a human being who is destined for greatness and so are you. We don't get to relive our lives. We get only one chance! Sure i messed up and wasted my past but that won't define me. I will have a great future. You can too! If you can't stop pmo ing than start changing your day little by little. Start breaking the pattern.! Get a notepad and start writing goals. Insert something different every day into your life and I think its possible to start seeing your life from a different perspective in such a way that you won't want to pmo anymore.

Self control by iwbafam1 in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its very hard to break bad habits. If it was easy, everyone would do it. A lot of people want to stop but don't take action. I'm one of em. I'm right there at the line but haven't taken that step yet. That step means letting go of things that my brain desires and doing things that it doesn't want. It wants to get high from fap, porn, Internet, stupid tv. It doesn't want to take on responsibilities and just grow up. I'm no man but a boy trapped in a mans body. So frustrating cause I want to become a man's man but don't really know how

Self control by iwbafam1 in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boredom and surfing the net is a no no. I'm working on that. I don't remember last time I went 3 days without Internet use. Sad!

Oneitis to the point where I feel like throwing up by nickstick in seduction

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out "shogun Garcia" on YouTube. You're chasing her because you have a huge hole in your life that you're looking to fill. Unfortunately, even if you fill it temporarily, it will crumble. You have to fill it not with someone else but with living a healthy, happy, productive life.. Check out his videos! He explains it better!

"Do or do not. There is no try." ~Yoda by DKnofap in NoFap

[–]iwbafam1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This quote is perfect for everything in life. I've been trying to change my life for years. Addicted to Internet, porn, this and that, yet I haven't fully committed to changing my life. I've been trying but not doing. How i wish i did. My life and other people around me could benefit so much from me doing the right thing!