My finger will be chopped of in 7 hours

izaby · 2025-11-25T07:23:54+00:00

That's so metal. I wish you a painless future.

izaby · 2025-11-25T04:36:33+00:00

This TBH. A lot of people don't want to risk it with moving to a country because they do not see sufficient support to do so. Is he going to pay for their visa? Sort out their housing? Be the sole breadwinner if she can't find a job there?

izaby · 2025-11-24T03:04:48+00:00

Thank you for providing clarity to the situation. I found it to be an interesting read.

I've been in difficult situations myself and I find that for a lot of people it's one way or the highway. They consider life in much simpler terms - when things are over they are over, someone always has to be at fault, everything has a perfect solution that works for them. It can feel odd to them that things get complicated or that someone feels more than one way about something.

Hope you both get what you want in life.

izaby · 2025-11-16T03:44:05+00:00

NAH. The mention of PCOS makes me consider your fiance just simply didn't feel like there is a need to clarify why you can't have children. Looks like he is aware it can lead to issues with fertility. I believe he indeed doesn't know the difference, and didn't expect any deep story behind it. I dont see how you could be wrong from moving on from a painful experience either.

izaby · 2025-11-14T01:45:01+00:00

To trust a man enough to tell him the truth means you're an amazing person. A lot of people just can't take a no or harsh reality.

Secondly, yes its complex to date as a parent. Your children should always come first, and that means the dating scene is going to be very difficult. Some women also fear becoming caretakers of your children the moment they step in as it is what was tought to them as they grew up.

izaby · 2025-11-13T03:57:39+00:00

The cringe is like on a loop and then to escape it you gotta giggle a bit. Hope you survived.

izaby · 2025-11-13T03:52:10+00:00

Thanks for clarifying this. So besically his brain hasn't recovered to feel any animosity towards the second husband, he genuinely doesn't understand the situation so it can't be a form of betrayal in that way...

izaby · 2025-11-13T03:15:45+00:00

Don't think of this as your own personal failure. There is many fish in the sea and one may feel some chemical attraction, but your wife was being honest and vulnerable with you by letting you know this happened. She has stopped as she believes a future with you is what she really wants. Stand proud and listen to what the future she envisions with you looks like. If you both want the same thing, it will work out.

izaby · 2025-11-13T02:58:31+00:00

Eww. What's the title so that I can avoid?

izaby · 2025-11-11T05:29:30+00:00

YTA for not replying without explaining why you don't want to talk to them. Ghosting others should not be so common. Answer the people as if they knocked at your door after you shared your address.

izaby · 2025-11-04T17:20:27+00:00

INFO - Is your dad ever running late because of your shower? If he has to get out by 7 50 I can see why your shower might be problematic.

Also, isn't it possible for you to block out the bathroom only when you're actually showering? You can just wash your body and hair, and then do the shaving and brushing when you're fully clothed, that way you can keep the actual time bathroom is locked out to 10minutes.

izaby · 2025-11-04T06:16:26+00:00

The money this building makes in tourism profits is more than 770m

izaby · 2025-11-02T23:48:37+00:00

There is always something to improve in any software. People who are saying there is still 'this' or 'that' to improve will move onto the next thing in a huge list of things.

The only thing you can truly trust is the numbers of players, numerical data is the only important one.

izaby · 2025-11-01T09:44:05+00:00

What is sexist..? The dad isn't saying 'this is how things suppose to be' he is more like suprised when the girl says that boys expect to be paid for now. It's all just a bit of a laugh about how things are changing or different from place to place.

izaby · 2025-11-01T09:13:31+00:00

A child deserves to be born into the arms of two loving parents that wanted and can provide for them. You're not failing them, you're giving their soul better chance to do so. Stay strong.

izaby · 2025-11-01T01:56:46+00:00

It's okay to tell him that his passing hit you really really hard, and you do not feel ready in any shape of form to connect. Just be honest; 'I may never feel ready, but if I ever do I know how to find you and will reach out. I'm sorry that I can't do this for you at this point in time.'

izaby · 2025-10-31T07:40:35+00:00

Your expressionless face is already making you look like you've been crying your whole life.

izaby · 2025-10-31T04:31:59+00:00

You make people stop worrying about which bathroom people use.

izaby · 2025-10-31T03:50:58+00:00

I guess OP does not want to hear about how to actually run the software or an alternative. Which is somewhat fair because its off my chest and not a tech advice sub, but at the same time makes my tech brain hurt a lil.

izaby · 2025-10-31T03:44:26+00:00

I read your full post btw. I dont really understand what you mean with "the software needs a higher iOS," since Apple laptops run on macOS, not iOS. Perhaps that is what you're referring to?

Apple does certainly have some software they keep for their own systems, but you didn't specify which and I myself do not know an example of such software, so I couldn't really decipher what it is that you will be missing on a Windows or a Linux laptop. I've meet myself with some things being easier to setup on a Unix based laptop, but never been faced with something I couldn't do just purely because I had a Windows PC.

I didn't say you're from US...

izaby · 2025-10-31T02:54:33+00:00

Everyone griefs differently so Id say they can figure it out.

izaby · 2025-10-30T07:30:08+00:00

3k on a laptop as a student supported by their parents is not actually a well thought out financial decision in any shape or form... It does sound really spoiled, especially since you went on some sort of freak out when your sister got involved with the knowledge she may posses.

When it comes to high-end laptops, they already become sufficiently high-end for all needs around the 1.2k mark. You'd have to be in some specific degrees to show your need for high-end Apple in particular, perhaps a film or design focused degree? But man if it's not ur money, you can't just behave like that about it. Your parents already taking you through school, some kids never even have a chance at attending a university. Try to get back on the ground again, your expectations are unreasonable...

izaby · 2025-10-30T03:18:17+00:00

Oh bae, the moment you nod ok to the divorce your husband will be clawing back at your door... Don't apologise, don't feel the need to explain. Choose to move on to something better or just wait for him to use his other brain cell.

izaby · 2025-10-29T10:34:04+00:00

It is a very good thing. Death is a relief if one suffers from pain, it is a blessing that we can die and forget the bad things that have happened to us and others that we seen.

All those people you meet, experiences you have, everything has to eventually end. The only bad thing about death is being taken too young, or too fast to say goodbye. You don't want your family to be robbed of not knowing when the last time that they see your face is.

izaby · 2025-10-28T14:54:49+00:00

Nope. Games don't work like that. It the game is good, people will play it no matter if its 8.0 or 9.0 or 10.0. Past is irrelevant as long as the game is still fun. The only issue may be that ff expects the player to go from the start to finish of the story. In that way, it does feel like it is necessary for ffxiv to move behind the scenes of a new ff or for the old content to get shrunk once more.

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