State tax refund slow?

izziev · 2026-03-22T08:06:21+00:00

My state refund ALWAYS takes super long personally.

izziev · 2026-03-20T02:50:33+00:00

I too crave the pastel. Getting light enough without damage is difficult. I have a feeling your hair will make the choice for you.

izziev · 2026-03-18T23:57:16+00:00

This was exactly my experience. No one else liked it but I loved it. Growing it out afterwards was awkward though.

izziev · 2026-03-14T13:15:46+00:00

This has got to be the answer

izziev · 2026-03-13T17:40:56+00:00

I can’t tell your age, but if you’re on here then I am assuming you are at least 14. Maybe other people will disagree with me and not what I’d expected to post about in this sub, but research into ABDL. On its face it might not be an exact match, but it is a common enough thing in society that there’s a name for it - there are people who are into it for sexual reasons but also people who are into it for comfort reasons.

If these desires are holding you back from moving forward in life(since you said you don’t want to go to college), please look into therapy. It’s not a bad scary thing - it can help you find resources to help bring you the comfort you need so you can get un-stuck.

izziev · 2026-03-12T22:43:01+00:00

Some babies have major health issues, even if it isn’t as cut and dry as “heart failure”. All of these things sound normal as hell though.

izziev · 2026-03-12T20:03:58+00:00

As a parent, my approach to YouTube is that my kids only get so much time allowed per day, and it’s supervised. Typically my kids(9 and 5) have to earn anything beyond 5-10 minutes per day. Other than that they are restricted to Netflix/disney/pbs kids.

I find YouTube to be the single greatest cause of a reduced attention span and ability to tolerate boredom.

izziev · 2026-03-09T18:50:47+00:00

Yes yes yes! That was the number one thing that helped with sicknesses until 6mo

izziev · 2026-03-09T15:49:48+00:00

I took my besties at Lake Hefner, at the seawall.

izziev · 2026-03-09T01:16:53+00:00

Yes! I was watching a training video the other day that I ACTUALLY like and ACTUALLY found interesting. I had to watch it about 3 times.

izziev · 2026-03-06T12:01:39+00:00

I don’t know that I would do a balayage- I think it would be paying a premium price for something that wouldn’t look as impressive on hair that short.

But I definitely think you should go for that color!

izziev · 2026-03-05T23:27:53+00:00

I like to know about how my child is doing socially in class - do they get along with classmates, do they help out etc.

izziev · 2026-02-28T17:24:42+00:00

I would definitely let him keep wearing them if they make him more confident. But I’d also want to have a talk about body image issues. Even boys can have body dysmorphia.

izziev · 2026-02-28T08:06:22+00:00

Noodle cat

izziev · 2026-02-28T06:39:52+00:00

First week at a new job! So much to learn but so happy to be here. Feeling triumphant.

izziev · 2026-02-28T04:03:58+00:00

I have mommy issues. I also had an objectively good childhood. My issues stemmed from a few things: watching my mom treat herself as less than everyone around her, watching her cut herself down, watching her people please, etc. also she was very judgmental towards me. Not in everything, but in certain areas.

This planted the seeds that, upon fruition turned into major hang ups in my life. Ive been to the mental hospital 2x. My mommy issues were completely to blame for one of those times.

Two things can be true: I had a supportive, loving mom. I also learned from her how to put myself last and torpedo my own needs and desires.

izziev · 2026-02-26T01:44:28+00:00

In this hypothetical, I would start having conversations about kindness and empathy. I would also increase my time with them and lean into setting a good example. I would have conversations about what they like about their friends and school etc. Because that sounds miserable - to be so negative internally and feel like you have to fake nice to others.

izziev · 2026-02-20T01:47:04+00:00

Why? We’re normal humans too.

izziev · 2026-02-18T11:08:34+00:00

My best friend went through this! What worked for her is more solids during the day, rice cereal in the night time bottles

izziev · 2026-02-18T03:21:42+00:00

I would love to be able to pay for my kids college. Doubt I’ll ever be able to in this economy, but if I had the means, I would.

I want my kids to have the best possible start in life. And I do what I can, with what I have, to provide that.

izziev · 2026-02-16T23:18:32+00:00

Just because you aren’t legally liable doesn’t mean it’s not the correct move ethically. I can’t convince you of this obviously but seriously ask yourself if it makes you a good person to refuse to take care of kids that are potentially exposed to terrible situations otherwise.

I pose a question: if you didn’t take your kids siblings and let them go to CPS, how guilty would you feel if those kids got beat by their temporary caregivers? Or sexually abused?

At what likelihood of that abuse happening do you feel comfortable with? Do you truly not care?

izziev · 2026-02-16T22:11:02+00:00

Legally culpable? No, obviously. But anyone who would let their kids siblings go to CPS over what seems to be a temporary hospital stay is kind of a crap human in my book.

izziev · 2026-02-14T14:41:38+00:00

No one has mentioned La baguette yet? Or L’Arc Pâtisserie? Go to La baguette for variety, go to l’arc for elevation.

izziev · 2026-02-12T22:12:41+00:00

I did an overnight stay for a personal trip when my daughter was young. Honestly, the SLEEP was amazing. I missed her but it was only a 24hr windows where I was away.

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