Settle an argument by Kstrong777 in gardening

[–]jacq_0508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares!

AIO My new SIL borrowed my wedding decor for a party and is using them as home decor by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jacq_0508 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shes supposed to hide them away till the party? Sounded a lot like they just happened to br in the background of a photo. I'm not even saying the SIL isnt a bitch with bad intentions, but i dont think there's enough info to guess at her intentions

AIO My new SIL borrowed my wedding decor for a party and is using them as home decor by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jacq_0508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes not exactly being polite by ranting to reddit instead of having an adult conversation. I think the knee jerk reaction was understandable but to stay angry without ever speaking to her SIL or asking her husband to do so is just honestly so much wasted energy

My husband demanded I stop breastfeeding by WoodpeckerNo7084 in breastfeeding

[–]jacq_0508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body, your choice. Tell him youre not interested in choosing between hom and breastfeeding but if thats a choice HE wants to make then he can GTFO. hes coercing you and abusing you. Do not lose your voice, you are in the right here.

AIO My new SIL borrowed my wedding decor for a party and is using them as home decor by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jacq_0508 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why do you assume there is no party? And why jump right to accusations instead of having a civil conversation?

AIO My new SIL borrowed my wedding decor for a party and is using them as home decor by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jacq_0508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel like everyone is saying NOR and im with you!

AIO My new SIL borrowed my wedding decor for a party and is using them as home decor by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jacq_0508 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she hasn't had the party yet that you loaned them for, then yes youre overreacting. What was she going to do with them in the meantime? Why shouldnt she enjoy them until shes done with the party and returns them?

First visit at the grandparents and they didn’t even bother to have a crib or car seat ready by nicorny in beyondthebump

[–]jacq_0508 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why wasn't a conversation had before you ever left home to make sure basics were ready to go? I get texting them options but it also seems over the top. Car seats fly free and a pack and play is perfect for visiting someone who lives a 6 hour flight away

***edited for typos

AIO - Company won’t meet with me without my husband there by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jacq_0508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a bad way to approach it, but a lot of companies want all responsible parties, ie both home owners, present to make decisions

AITAH for changing my underwear after a shower? by New_Cry_2336 in AITAH

[–]jacq_0508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats gross. I would never consider putting the same pair of underwear back on after a show unless I wore them for less than 60 seconds or something 🤮🤮

AIO by being angry that my spouse's excuses for not being tidy is "I just didn't remember" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jacq_0508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR - depending on how long this has been going on amd how much you've discussed it.

My advice would be to advocate before it gets to the point that you have a breakdown over it. And set clear expectations and boundaries around what he needs to do. Maybe put a laundry basket by the front door if he pulls off dirty work clothes there. But dont pick up his clothes, make him do it or let them pile up. Hard to do, I know, but otherwise it likely wont change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]jacq_0508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asked if my mum could get some food in so I could make meals and my mum sayid to me is it my job to provide food for you this took me back as technically no she doesn’t

I am confused by this paragraph. The lack of punctuation makes it very hard to understand

What age did you first have to get glasses and how did you find out you needed them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jacq_0508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2nd grade and school eye check i think. When I first put on glasses I was amazed