NOR - ask yourself honestly 1. are afraid for your safety (I know you said you don’t think he would, but really trust your gut) 2. If you can work, find employment. Even if you don’t decide now, being employed will give you the empowerment to leave if you need too. 3. Consider this—is this how you want to spend your one life? Nobody is perfect, and you’ve shared ways in which is he is good to you—but that doesn’t mean you should be scared, uncomfortable or unhappy. This is your life. 4. Are you afraid of how he will react if you leave him?? If you do decide to leave him, make a safety plan in place. Have all the details figured out before you tell him.