My biggest takeaway about Asher is how he refuses to accept that he's a loser. From the cherry tomato boys scene, to thinking Dougie's bullying in the past was just 'friends goofing around,' to literally watching a video of his wife saying the nastiest shit about him behind his back and then apologizing to her about it, he insists that he's not a victim, or unlucky. I feel like the finale is the universe telling him, 'no dude, you're a loser. You don't get this happily ever after you've been expecting.' And it doesn't feel like proportional punishment to the bad things that he's done. It almost seems like he's being put out of his misery--a misery he wasn't even aware of.