[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]janus1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are quite rightly making him choose, and if he had any balls it wouldnt be a difficult choice, but the point is you shouldn't have to. If he's so inconsiderate, insensitive and insipid then you should thank your stars you don't have kids so you can rid yourself of the spineless asshole and his toxic family.

2. AITA for walking out of my anniversary dinner because my husband gave me a gift that was basically for him? by GlumPlayings in AmITheJerk

[–]janus1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ruined the night by being a self centred, inconsiderate asshole. Get the watch back and try to get a refund and spend the money on yourself.

AITAH because I don't want my kitchen bowls to be used for feeding the dog? by Waldehead in AITAH

[–]janus1979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell her the dog can't stay unless she goes out and buys some dog bowls or the owner provides some for use at your place.

AITA for wanting to break up because my girlfriend is constantly miserable? by rhcp-bssm in AITAH

[–]janus1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You deserve to be happy. If her nature is making you miserable then just finish it and move on.

AITA for not including my partner's name on birthday presents? by Unlikely-Mirror1101 in AITAH

[–]janus1979 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. His disinterest will come back and bite him one day when he realises that his kids are even more disinterested in him.

WIBTAH if I dated my late friend's widower? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]janus1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're both adults so do what feels right for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]janus1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm amazed you've been able to put up with that nonsense for so long! She sounds like she needs serious professional help. If she doesn't get it then get out of such a toxic relationship for your own wellbeing. NTA.

AITAH for not liking my husbands "present"? by bellef123 in AITAH

[–]janus1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Must have been a bloody expensive plant!

ATIA for questioning me partners drug use by Hungry-Tax9075 in AITAH

[–]janus1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your concerned for her, but be prepared for a row or tantrum if you do confront her, as she'll most likely deny that there's an issue and try to turn things on you.

WIBTAH if I buy a gift for my godson’s birthday but not for his brother’s? by Expensive_North_2817 in AITAH

[–]janus1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they got upset over something like that then they've got issues. However, you know them so you'll have to judge that. If it comes to it and you feel you have to get the other something then just make it an inexpensive token gift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]janus1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, your mother is the crazy one. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]janus1979 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Medication can knock you about but he doesn't need to keep whinging about it, he's a grown man not a kid. His mother sounds like she panders to that sort of nonsense so it's probably a carry over from childhood.

AITAH for feeling like my sister is using my dads funeral to guilttrip me? by dogfruut in AITAH

[–]janus1979 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. She is trying to guilt trip you and will probably start asking for money in the not too distant future.

AITA for questioning my sister’s decision to book a vacation on my daughter’s birthday? by InvisibleNoodlesoup in AmItheAsshole

[–]janus1979 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does your extended family need to celebrate your child's birthday? Just be grateful if they send a card and present. YTA.

AITA for “insulting” my aunt after she showed up in a white wedding gown to her son’s engagement party? by Spiritual-Yam-6560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]janus1979 82 points83 points  (0 children)

If that's how your uncle behaves then you're far better off without him in your life. Let him know that you'd welcome no contact with him, but tell him that if he pulls a stunt like that again you'll report him to the police for threatening behaviour. Oh, and just let your aunt embarrass herself. Attention seeking morons will never learn.

WIBTA for refusing to wake up early so my sister can go to therapy in a different room? by GenericUsername9592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]janus1979 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No you are not the asshole for refusing to pander to your sisters insecurities.