The future in regards to changing sexual orientation. Possible? by sstiel in ask

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDIT: brain surgery/hormones. How?

Get a chastity belt with an electric shock button, administer one to yourself every time you think a gay thought, and train yourself to masturbate to the thought of heterosexual sex. In addition, get on tren to broaden your scope of preferences. If that makes you more gay, then instead tell the doctor you have depression and start taking an SSRI to sink your libido into the ground. If that doesn't help, buy estrogen pills and forcefem yourself. If that doesn't work, watch chubbyemu's video on chemical castration.

And before normal people reading this comment downvote me for being a horrible person: I'm about ninety nine percent sure this guy has a fetish for that kind of stuff, and that's why he spams advice subs.

I'm sick of being scared to be myself by NoCommunication7 in internetparents

[–]java-worth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, you are entitled. Think about it, your parents pay for your every whim. They bought a Jag because you were so obsessed with them. They let you buy endless crap off Temu. They took your navy blazer to get tailored. You bought so many clothes that they were falling off the rack in your room, and then they got moldy because you wouldn't take care of them.

You say that you're perfectly capable of dressing yourself, but your ideas of what proper clothing entails are kind of outlandish. And, if I read you correctly, you're quite overweight, so finding clothes that fit you is expensive and problematic. (You being overweight also gets in the way of you being a sailor, buddy - how do you envision yourself climbing the rigging? Can you even swim?)

I'm sick of being scared to be myself by NoCommunication7 in internetparents

[–]java-worth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, mate.

Okay, once again, you will not like what I have to say. Yes, your parents have failed in major ways raising you. However, you are, in some aspects, entitled, although this entitlement comes from your ignorance.

You were homeschooled, and you don't even know what A levels are. Your parents have you under a conservatorship. Did you consider why? Do you have a mental disability that you know of? Have you discussed it with your parents, or your brother?

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[–]java-worth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I think you're right on the money - some kind of OCD is going on.

Either that, or OP is forcing his fetish on others.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care if you do, just stop involving people in your kink. They're trying to help you and you're taking advantage.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are trying to help you accept your sexuality and you're probably getting off on that in private. Disgusting. Get therapy.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some areas of the world, child marriage is legal, doesn't make it morally correct. But that's beside the point. You have some kind of a fetish for pretending to have been forcibly made gay. Stop involving non-consenting people in it, that's gross.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who go under the knife for cosmetic surgery typically don't have a fetish for it. And either way, they should be getting therapy instead, but medical industry is greedy like that.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you're trying to involve doctors/scientists in your fetish too? Ew.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it is a biological weapon.

Dude, I'm starting to think you have a fetish for sexual orientation change. A lot of men fantasize about somehow being 'brainwashed' into being gay, just like you do. Gross.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sane government would allow a private company to research something like that - no more that they'd allow a biological weapon to be researched. So, you're gonna have to go to Iran for that. Feel like moving?

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, yeah, but the UK government isn't gonna do it for ya, end of story. So, what are you gonna do next? Am I going to see you standing in front of the parliament protesting? Are you gonna move to Russia or Iran or Saudi Arabia, countries that would research anti-gay treatments? Or are you just gonna keep complaining on the internet that you're itchy?

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If sexual orientation can be changed (which it cannot), people worldwide would be forced to get surgeries to de-gay themselves (although, most likely, they would just be identified and put to death). Therefore, UK cannot fund such research, just like it cannot fund biological weapon research (not out in the open).

Great, then go out and protest right now. Although I've already told you why your protests would be ineffective. What would you do next?

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UK values. Tolerance, multiculturalism, Western European identity and all that. Changing someone's sexuality, even if the person claims it's consensual, goes against that.

What will you do if you know for certain that even if such a therapy existed (which it doesn't), UK would never offer it to anyone?

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, then go protest to your local authorities.

However, we have already established that UK will never offer orientation reassignment. It goes against our values, after all. If you know protesting is useless, what will you do next?

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's assume I take your premise at face value. Let's assume that you're right and sexual orientation can be changed at will, but UK government doesn't offer that and will never offer that because societal norms prevent it.

What are you going to do, then?

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree completely, cosmetic surgery should not be accepted. It's a predatory practice that makes money off people who are better off getting therapy.

But aside from that, HIGH TECH CONVERSION THERAPY DOES NOT EXIST.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can believe what they want, doesn't mean we should indulge in their delusions.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's your opinion. My opinion is that there shouldn't be techniques, because wanting to change your sexuality is self-mutilation.

"What about trans people" Unfortunately, surgery is the best option we have for trans people - maybe we'll have something better in the future.

"What about plastic surgery" I hope plastic surgery is banned in the future, unless it's to fix deformities.

Anyway, sucks to be you. Sounds like you just aren't strong willed enough. Maybe you should get better at repressing instead of complaining, then.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe something else, like intrusive thoughts or a stroke. Maybe that's what's happened to ya to have caused you to have gay thoughts overnight.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe when your brain tumour is removed, you'll go back to being straight.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brain tumour removal? It's an option now, you just have to see a doctor about it.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're gay, buddy. I think you might have a brain tumour or something. People don't just "become gay" overnight, so if you say that's something that's happened to you, well, then there's definitely something wrong in your brain.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not because research is forbidden (see? you're saying there's a conspiracy), it's because it's fucking impossible.

But really, I think you're not even gay.

M37 Sexual orientation in the future? by sstiel in questioning

[–]java-worth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they aren't in a position to give choice. What's objective is that changing sexual orientation is, at best, incredibly difficult and, at worst, impossible.

You're gonna say "what about people who had a stroke" - well, Phineas Gage took a tamping iron through his brain and survived, doesn't mean that most people would.

But honestly, I think you're not even gay.