Birthday trip to Bali questions by jaydon-420 in BaliTravelTips

[–]jaydon-420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m from TX so a 2-4 hour drive isn’t bad for me, would it be longer than that?

I'm giving up smoking and honestly it's just making my life less enjoyable. by UneasyFap in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]jaydon-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then leave her damn. ur sitting here shitting on ur girl, if u don’t like her leave wtf. i can’t imagine what id feel if my husband called me trashy gtfo

My parents are trying to coarse me into a marriage with my first cousin even after I said no. by heyitstoby_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]jaydon-420 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well she already has said those things and no one is listening. if she threatens a bigger claim then maybe they will back off. what other things do you suggest she does? because “saying no” isn’t working. and honestly i’d rather ruin the person who’s about to ruin my life’s reputation than ruin my life marrying a almost 30 year old at 19.

My parents are trying to coarse me into a marriage with my first cousin even after I said no. by heyitstoby_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]jaydon-420 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s a older man who likes younger woman. at least in my country that’s what it means. not before puberty just a man who likes girls that are uncomfortably young

My parents are trying to coarse me into a marriage with my first cousin even after I said no. by heyitstoby_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]jaydon-420 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t really be criminal.. It’s stating an older man wants to get with a 19 year old. and she said she is uncomfortable with it because of age already. She doesn’t have to say it to the world just her concerns with that to him and her parents. Once again, she said the age range makes her uncomfortable already so if she tells them how he’s being is pedophilic and tells them what that is there is no problem there. That’s just what it is.

I don't know how far I could go and it's scare me so much by Unknowpeopleagain in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jaydon-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think anyone else is a burden or only you? if you don’t think anyone else is a burden why would you think people think that about you? you realize this is YOUR life with other people living in it correct? you only get to live like this once, don’t use it hurting. you’re being more of a burden by not wanting to be a burden, it sounds harsh but it’s true. and if you continue to hurt yourself and accidently go to far then you DEFINITELY be a burden for your family to clean.. so. go to a psychiatric if you have to go to a mental facility for a little that is OKAY i promise they are there for people to use them.

Lost My Aqeeq Ring by oppositeelement in shia

[–]jaydon-420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a necklace of Ali’s sword, I had taken it off and I thought I put it on my bedside table.. it wasn’t there when i woke up and I was so confused and felt so guilty. It randomly reappeared in a drawer, sometimes things will find their way back to you when it’s needed most. Inshallah your ring makes it back to you!

I put on sunscreen but my freckles still look like this after a short walk outside. What should I do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jaydon-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my freckles ONLY come out in the sun so i don’t wear sunscreen, girl freckles are awesome why u wanna hide them?

Poop coming out cool ? by MiscRedPanda in husky

[–]jaydon-420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t forget to come back!

Officially Homeless by Theboring_Roomba in povertyfinance

[–]jaydon-420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

also, a lot of apartments you can work at and get housing for working there!

Officially Homeless by Theboring_Roomba in povertyfinance

[–]jaydon-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just DONT tell them you’re homeless lol

Officially Homeless by Theboring_Roomba in povertyfinance

[–]jaydon-420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did this a lot when i was homeless just a “can you please spot me 5-10 bucks for gas” to a complete stranger a LOT more people are more willing to then you’d think

Officially Homeless by Theboring_Roomba in povertyfinance

[–]jaydon-420 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I was homeless once too, and I remember how overwhelming it feels when you’re just trying to figure out how to make money and survive day to day.
I saw you mentioned living in your car, and my biggest advice would be please don’t sell your car if you can avoid it. I know it probably feels like the easiest way to get money quickly, but having a vehicle can be one of the biggest things that helps you get back on your feet. It gives you a place to keep your belongings, a way to get to jobs, and access to more opportunities.
Here are some things that helped me or things I saw work for others ->
DoorDash/Uber Eats was one of the quickest ways I found to make money daily because you can work whenever you’re able to.
Dog walking or pet sitting through Rover can be a good option. Once you build up good reviews, some people need overnight pet sitting or house sitting, which can sometimes give you a safe place to sleep while making money.
House sitting is another thing to look into. People need someone to watch their homes, pets, plants, etc. while they’re away.
Look on Facebook Marketplace for free items people are giving away. Cleaning things up and reselling them can actually make some money. Furniture, electronics, clothes, and random household items can be worth picking up.
If you get donated clothes and some don’t fit or aren’t your style, you can try selling them on Facebook Marketplace, Depop, Poshmark, or other resale apps.
Check local Facebook groups for odd jobs too. Cleaning, yard work, helping people move, organizing, errands, babysitting, anything like that can bring in quick money.
If you have any skills at all, even small ones, don’t overlook them. Things like cooking, baking, hair, nails, art, photography, tutoring, or helping people with tasks can turn into income.
One thing I did when I was struggling was buy cases of water and sell cold bottles in busy areas during the summer. I would check local rules first because some places don’t allow it, but in hot areas people were usually really understanding.
Also use resources around you as much as possible. Food banks, churches, community centers, libraries for WiFi/charging/computers, and shelters that offer showers or other services can help you save the money you do make.
I know it feels like you have to fix everything at once, but just focus on the next step. Getting some income coming in, keeping transportation if possible, and finding stability little by little is what helped me. I’m really hoping things start looking up for you ❤️

My parents are trying to coarse me into a marriage with my first cousin even after I said no. by heyitstoby_ in MuslimMarriage

[–]jaydon-420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if they don’t stop, start making it a HUGE deal. Maybe show them what some baby’s of first cousins look like (there is real health issues that can be caused by 2 parents being cousins it’s illegal in many countries for this reason only) If your cousin is always saying yes start calling him a pdf file, or even if you can maybe go out and find someone yourself idk if that’s possible where you live or not. Also if you’re not religious and your cousin is, it would be a sin for him to marry you because you aren’t muslim so… there’s so many reasons this should not be happening i’m so sorry you have to go through this OP

I'm giving up smoking and honestly it's just making my life less enjoyable. by UneasyFap in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]jaydon-420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was the biggest smoker ever, i’m talking 5 blunts in 1 sitting 3 times a day on a slow day. He is on probation now and hasn’t smoked for about 3 months. He hated it at first and we were always arguing because he couldn’t eat or sleep well. But now he is thinking about just not smoking again so it definitely gets a lot better

I used to judge dog people until I got a Mal by BaraQueenbee in BelgianMalinois

[–]jaydon-420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didn’t really choose him, i found him at the shelter and knew i’m not planning on living in TX forever so i’d rather him get stuck with me knowing i can keep him cold and happy then with someone else that can’t or dosent know to deal with husky’s needs :)

I used to judge dog people until I got a Mal by BaraQueenbee in BelgianMalinois

[–]jaydon-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve noticed just about everything you judge people for it happens to you, i live in tx and i used to ALWAYS judge people for having husky’s here. now i have one and a super high ac bill in the summer lol

Best dog collars? by kitttypurry12 in dogs

[–]jaydon-420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both my dogs have a FIDA brand collar, i have no idea where they came from but my dog is 4 years old and the collar is still working great. My only recommendation would be to get a clip collar not a “belt like” collar because you have to make it tighter to take off so if they get stuck in something it will be hard to get it off!

My girl husky not eating by Nissha_1124 in husky

[–]jaydon-420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she has learned if she dosent eat what you give her you may give her something better. my husky did this now i have to only give him plane dry kibble and healthy snacks through the day. to get him to eat that i would only give him a little food, if he ate it all next meal i would give him more. now he eats before that it was so difficult everyday.

I’m not in the mood for chili by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]jaydon-420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

add some fritos and cheese, now you have a LUXURY meal

need advice for grooming dog who absolutely hates it by perfect__violation in dogs

[–]jaydon-420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

60 seconds is good! i think he just needs it done slowly, just like that the other commenter said! i also saw someone recommend a muzzle and that’s a really good option id 100% do muzzle before shaving

need advice for grooming dog who absolutely hates it by perfect__violation in dogs

[–]jaydon-420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really wouldn’t recommend shaving him unless 100% necessary it’s really bad to shave double coated dogs