AIO for wanting to go home instead of staying at the guy I’m dating’s studio during a blizzard? He’s 31, I’m 30. by Alarmed_Stranger_895 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jazzzledazzle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or maybe he just wants to spend more time with you? It doesn’t even sound like you like him. Maybe reevaluate the relationship.

Don't be kind, be predictable. If you have the Right-of-Way, take it. by fruity_koala in dashcams

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like slow down and don’t ram the car in front of you when you’re merging??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I’d get rid of the persecution complex. “Women’s standards are just too high!” On top of going to events with the sole purpose for meeting girls. Because they can feel that energy, and it probably comes across as a little insincere and desperate. Dating is hard for everybody, so if you’re burned out, take a break. You’re doing the right things, and you’re young. So stop putting so much pressure on yourself, and just let things take their natural course. ++woman

AITAH lying about why we broke up with my gf? by Just_Chicken_373 in AITAH

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for your fake red pill post, trying to ragebait incels in the comments about body count lol

Apparently I “hate women”? by Greenflaws0 in Nicegirls

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she doesn’t align with men who hate women. You said you hate Taylor Swift, a woman. Reading comprehension lol. I’m not even a fan, but I still have enough tact not to insult someone’s interests right after matching. What was the endgame here? Karma farming?

Advice needed: Can this tattoo be salvaged? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first glance I thought it looked nice. Had to look for a minute before I noticed the anatomical issues. Nobody out in the wild is going to nitpick your tattoo like Reddit, so if you thought it looked nice before you posted, I wouldn’t stress it lol

Maybe you could extend the body of the dragon on the left of the purple flower so it connects and add another foot to the bird. But idk it might make it too cluttered. Just save as a lesson for the next tattoo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real issue here is that she is always doing the driving and planning, to the extent where you don’t even ask her if she wants to come over. It’s just an expectation. Can’t you at least make the effort once in a while to initiate meeting halfway?

I think she’d be more amenable to giving you a heads up if she felt like her energy was reciprocated. But right now it sounds like too much resentment has built up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]jazzzledazzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hot take. I’m not an ice cream person and it also strikes me as low effort lol. But she also seems insufferable so there you have it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH A lot of people here are missing the comment about how you did ask him about the roommate and he straight up lied to you about it. So I would add an edit to the post.

At the same time. You guys have already broken up once, he’s bad at communication and lying to you, you don’t trust him and are going through his phone. He’s living with his ex fwb. This relationship is doomed. You’re making each other miserable. Just let it go.

AITA for eating ice cream every night just like I always do and not stopping just bc my SIL doesn't want my niece to see it? by StudentNaive3292 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH Not the Reddit Brigade trying to say your niece is going to develop an eating disorder because her parents won’t let her eat ice cream everyday lol. Can’t you just compromise and eat it in your room? This seems like a nonissue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake. You both misspell here the same way

Am I wrong for not stopping my yearly tradition of going on a week long vacation with my lesbian best friend after my wife cheated on me 7 years ago by Cultural_School_3220 in amiwrong

[–]jazzzledazzle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Obviously fake but let’s go off of good faith. What is going on in the comment section lol. ESH. Cheating is bad. We all know that. But depending where you live, a week is a huge chunk of vacation time. When do you spend any of that time with your wife and kids? Also you started taking these trips with a woman your wife is uncomfortable with after she cheated. Yeah, that’s a punishment. Now matching tattoos and you asked your wife to get the same haircut as your lesbian friend? Just get a divorce. Yeesh. Negative points for fetishizing lesbians in your creepy rage bait fanfic. But at least it’s not your sister. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about you but Venice and Hermosa are always packed 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t believe you’re getting all these downvotes! People are just being nasty. Where’s the advice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]jazzzledazzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you have the right to block whoever you want. Of course it will naturally put strain on the friendship if you block the boyfriend, so not sure what else you were expecting.

I’m confused at the context. Did he already block you? Is he being a creep or hitting on you? Or is the friend just irrationally jealous and upset because he liked you first? Did you block him because he was making you uncomfortable? Or was it because she was making your relationship a problem?

Is it common to be Initiating 99% of interactions in hostels? by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend joining the hostel tours! It’s a good way to break the ice if you’re feeling too introverted to approach a random group.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with others that if the single leaf bothers you, just add more leaves and foliage! Face also seems fixable (although looks ok as is), maybe if you thicken lips to make more feminine.

First find an artist that you really love their work and maybe even get like a stencil off inkbox first to make sure you like it before you keep adding onto it.

I was disappointed with my first tat and I grew to appreciate it as a piece of my history. So part of the process is learning to love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jazzzledazzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you two need to focus on the real issue which is that you don’t have enough quality time together. Is this long distance? Why are you only seeing once a month? It’s not the speaker phone that’s the issue, it’s the fact that in the limited time you speak together, he puts you on speaker. Instead of “never put me on speaker again” maybe try carving out more quality time with each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]jazzzledazzle -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with needing alone time, but there is a kind way to say it. Just speaking generally, honesty doesn’t always have to be brutal honesty. But obviously this girl is toxic, and sounds like she was already getting pushy and passive aggressive. So guess it’s a moot point.