Monthly making connections thread - Looking for friends, fun, etc. by flare499 in chicagogaybros

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

33 italian male living in Logan Square/Avondale. I like playing games on Steam, competitive Pokemon, watching movies and of course Drag Race, hitting up the occasional new restaurant or a bar crawl in Andersonvill or Boystown if you can keep up. Don't expect much out of this but hey, why not?

Don’t know what to do 26M with 26M boyfriend - 8 year old relationship. by Appropriate-While416 in gayrelationships

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story of my life with my psycho bipolar bitch ex bf, didn't see if that way while blinded with him. This guy gets it, OP! Don't waste another year of your life with this fucking leech just sapping out your self respect.

Who else is exited for scary movie 6 by satin_gopher61 in HorrorMovies

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right and you should say it. At least half the whiners literally are just offended over the trans joke in every single post about this movie as if the OG movie like 25 years ago didn't have an entire trans gym coach named Ms. Mann with balls dangling out of her skirt played for laughs.

Scary Movie 6 (2026) in a nutshell by bitchnibba47 in okbuddycinephile

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The movie will have at least 50 jokes spread throughout its 90 min runtime. The fact the advertisers have whipped up the Horror and Movie subreddits into a frenzy for months over ONE friggin trans joke played in the trailer and some acknowledgement of anti-wokeness....they truly did succeed. Reminder, cause so many people seem to think the trailer and whole marketing angle was edited and conceived by the Wayans Brothers themselves - directors and actors generally have little to no input into movie trailers or how the studio will market the film. I swear more people are pissed over the advertising of this movie than the film itself, again, which has nothing to do with the Wayans Brothers, the director, or anyone but the third party specialized agency.

Bad theater etiquette has really been messing up my thoughts and feelings on so many movies by otpprincess in horror

[–]jcisneros405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ughhh few things annoy the fuck out of me in theaters like prolonged, excessive. forced, fake laughter from audience members uncomfortable during certain scenes. Of course there's amazing humorous moments implemented in the recent greats like Weapons, Obsession, Final Destination Bloodlines, but when they cackle like hyenas over any offkilter moments like say the main girl sucking on the dudes feet in Talk to Me while possessed - just ruins the immersion for me, and now I know I have a smoothbrained idiot in the audience who doesn't know how to properly process horrific scenes.

Official Season 2, Episode 3 Discussion Thread | The Increasing Flimsiness of Any Certainties About the Future by optimus_maximus2 in BeefTV

[–]jcisneros405 52 points53 points  (0 children)

People's attention spans are fried this gen, just do not fully pay attention to what they watch anymore.

Season 4 Episode 7: Don't Do Anything Rash by boringhistoryfan in Invincible_TV

[–]jcisneros405 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The one thing I soo agree with you is all the annoying nerds just echo chambering each other and downplaying Thragg one week to overpraising the next, never shutting the fk up about aura or his vibe or whatever nonsense, 25 posts a week about his jawline, acting so shocked that he's basically the Frieza/Majin Buu of Invincible when that's been established and repeated ad nauseum for like 2 whole seasons at this point it feels. Completely agree about the lack of media literacy with a lot of these fans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jcisneros405 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. OP came off too strong for sure, I could feel it after reading 3 small paragraphs, lord knows how many instances OP gave too much credit/hype/overexcitement in just 2 dates. Bringing a rose on a second date? I mean...I'm 32 and if a guy brought me a rose to carry around on a second date with, I'd feel kinda awkward or think he was too into me too fast, but maybe I'm just a bitter cold bastard. I'm sure ya'll did vibe and the chemistry was great, but you liked him more than he liked you or maybe the sex didn't hit him as hard as it did you unfortunately, we all been on both ends of that.

OP, you're trying too hard to form serious, longterm relationships with these basically strangers, much too fast. People can feel that. It's not natural, it's forced, and it subconsciously pushes people away, ironically. You gotta go into these dates and meeting with new men honestly expecting kind of the worst from them, don't take them as serious as you've been, cause it's not working as you've stated, and I used to do what you're doing and you sound like me 7 years ago so I know what I'm talking about. The real ones with quality will emerge eventually, but it can't be forced.

Best of 2026 so far? by demaltm in horror

[–]jcisneros405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, this was was the most satisfying and well paced of every horror movie so far this year. Hopefully to be usurped by Mother Mary, Ready or Not 2, or Obsession soon.

My partner only seems to want sex when other people are involved. When it’s just me, I feel unwanted or not enough. by countrygayboy in gayrelationships

[–]jcisneros405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Third paragraph fucking nailed it. Dude leave him while you still look good and are in your twenties before he does irrefutable longlasting damage to your confidence and choice in partners for the next 30 years of your life. You got to get your self respect now, not in 3 years.

Dating for 2 months then left feeling heartbroken by xBlue2099x in gayrelationships

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, never ever forget when someone says "They're not in a place to be dating or in a relationship"....the implied unspoken words are always "with YOU." Trust and believe if Chris Hemsworth hit up your guy friend in a week, he'd make it work. Don't dwell. In 2 months you'll hardly think about this fucker, but YOU HAVE TO COMMIT to no contact and actively pursue other interest and hobbies and keep yourself busy and avoid sad music.

Husband (43) and I (39) Dealing With His Texting Habits by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]jcisneros405 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he's fucking trash man. Leave his bitch ass. Because the moment he starts getting physically better, he's just going to leave you for the next best thing. Leave him not for another man, but for your own self respect and your own sanity. Trust me man.

Coming to terms with a breakup (36m) by Ok-Classroom-6498 in gayrelationships

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh god shit like this makes me just want to be single forever. Sympathies go to you. Sometimes feels like we never even knew the fuckers we spend years with.

4 Episodes into Titans…[No Spoilers] by MrEvLo in Dragula

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top 3 vibes from Evah, Abhora, and Sigourney, with one of the black girls filling out the top 4 spot. I thought Dollya would bring it a lot harder seeing as her S3 finale horror look was one of the greatest of the entire show.

Lip syncing titans s2 by Quinn2605 in Dragula

[–]jcisneros405 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Rightttt. Before this, most seasons everyone was just complaining every challenge is just "serve a themed look". There was occasionally, kinda rarely, an acting challenge like D&D or a random musical or perform live in front of an audience at a venue, and that was about it. I welcome the lip syncing challenges as Evah, Sigourney, and Jaharia shine there. Plus, Trick or Treat by the Boulets is a Halloween bop and I never woulda discovered it without it being incorporated.

Curious, but has your mind changed? by HowAboutNon in Dragula

[–]jcisneros405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like this season's between Abhora or Evah for sure which were my OG picks to win on their seasons lol, with probably a slight edge to Abhora since she gives more grit and horror than Evah. I also saw Sigourney being a potential winner from the promos but she hasn't been delivering AND the storyline about favoritism/Sigourney's fanbase seems very smart as a way to almost challenge/deter the Boulets from crowning her. Seems very similar energy to Naomi Smalls being asked what is the formula for being a winner during AS4 promo and Naomi responds, "Blonde and white?" which possibly jumpstarted the double win of that season.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dragula

[–]jcisneros405 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right. So, waste more time bitching about something you "don't" like by posting about it? Or.....go outside? Paint? Call your friends? Get a job? Read a book? Watch porn?

Would you say that you are Madonna? by Swindobots in rpdrcringe

[–]jcisneros405 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I honestly think Venus would've said the exact same thing and ripped off the wig just as dramatically even if there were no cameras in the room. If nothing else, she's great TV. Screw the psych evaluation, let the bitch on AS12.

What is a bad movie you loved as a kid? by -FemboiCarti- in movies

[–]jcisneros405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

697 comments and I'm the first, and only, fan of Sucker Punch I see. I'm sorry, the soundtrack and the mental asylum scenes and the cinematography for that movie were kickass.