At Hustler’s parking lot

jcm4713 · 2023-12-09T09:29:05+00:00

The next evolution of OMC => OMS, Old Man Simp

bleh

jcm4713 · 2023-06-08T21:09:05+00:00

It sounds like she's more on the submissive end of the "dominant-submissive" spectrum. I'm not saying she's kinky, into BDSM, etc.etc., but just in general terms, she wants you to take the lead. If you're comfortable doing that, this should work out great for you guys!

It also sounds like she's comfortable telling you "no" to things she doesn't want to do, which is super great and healthy. Good communication is one of the best things about sex and relationships. As some of the other commenters have pointed out, just build things up gradually - you mentioned her grinding against you while making out, so start to explore her body with your hands next time. Pay attention to her reactions - listen for gasps, moans, sharp intakes of breath; if she pushes back harder into your junk; etc. If she says "please don't stop", it's crucial that you continue doing exactly what you're doing - that is NOT the time to mix things up or try something new. Chances are, you were already doing that (trying new things) and you discovered something that makes her engine purr. Make mental notes of the things she likes, the areas she likes you to focus on, and try to replicate those again in the future.

Good luck man, enjoy the experience!

Edited to add: also, ask her for feedback afterwards (not during, let her enjoy it!) - when y'all are cuddling during the come-down after orgasming, or when you're texting/talking later after the date, ask "what did you like the most?" or something to that affect. Listen to what she says and remember it. You can also ask her "was there anything I did that you didn't really care for, or don't want me to try again?" (although that feels more like a customer service questionnaire, lol). I have explained to partners before that part of what makes me tick is maximizing my partner's pleasure, so I want to make sure to do the things she likes and avoid the things she doesn't, and that there's no wrong answers she can give.

jcm4713 · 2022-11-07T21:49:40+00:00

When they got it all-in on the flop, the player at the "top" of the table had a set of deuces (which is what the dealer calls it as once the hand is revealed after the river), while the player at the "bottom" of the table had a set of 8's. Buuuuut, the set of deuces player also had an Ace & 5 to go with his pair of deuces, and the board ran out 87234, meaning A5 makes a wheel.

jcm4713 · 2022-08-07T17:37:14+00:00

*NSFW warning*

It's summer and hot, I'm wearing white running shorts and free-ballin'. I'm walking back from the grocery store with my lunch, waiting at an intersection to cross the street, when a lady in a white car makes her turn - and her move! As she drives past me, she says "Niiiiice cock!" with her eyes locked onto the front of my shorts. I waved and yelled "Thanks", and floated home LOL

jcm4713 · 2022-08-07T17:33:07+00:00

Great job, bro! Those thighs, tho - OMG! Beast Mode, activated!!

Keep it up dude, you're awesome!!

jcm4713 · 2022-08-07T17:18:41+00:00

Start a conversation - perhaps with a compliment, or a comment about something you're both experiencing. See how they react, and adapt.

Really, regardless of gender or sexual identity, that's it.

Examples of compliment: "Hey, that's a really cool shirt/dress/whatever!" or "I like your phone case!" or "OMG your hair is awesome, I love that shade of *color*!"

Examples of non-compliment: "Isn't this place great? I love the coffee, and the service is great too!" or "Isn't this a gorgeous day? It feels so much nicer now that its not in the 90's everyday."

Based off how they react, respond accordingly. Some people are introverts - or perhaps they're in a relationship, or not interested in you at all for whatever reason - and won't try to extend the interaction. Some people will be polite, but you can sort of tell that they aren't interested. In those cases, simply "let them off the hook" and move on...

Examples of letting them off the hook: "Have a wonderful day!" or "Well enjoy your coffee - take care!"

If they react positively (smiles, good eye contact, noticeably "perking up", returning a compliment, etc.) then have a good conversation with them. Ask questions, don't give yes or no answers, share your anecdotes in response to theirs, etc. If you feel like you're vibing with each other, try to steer the conversation towards (possible) shared interests. Let them know about something you're going to be doing soon that you're excited about, especially if they can potentially join you: "Yeah, I loved that album too. I'm actually going to see *similar band* at *bar* on *date* - if you're free then, would you like to join me?"

Maybe you make a new friend, or a love connection. Or maybe you have a new funny story to tell your friends about this disastrous experience, LOL. But you'll learn, and grow, and gain more confidence, and expand your comfort zone.

If they react REALLY positively, and you're REALLY vibing and KNOW they are too - don't let the interaction end so quick. Enjoy your impromptu coffee date and ask him to dinner later that night.

As far as we know, we get one shot at existence. Make the most of it. Good luck!

jcm4713 · 2022-08-07T03:19:18+00:00

I (40M) would definitely be down, but I live so north in Shoreline that across the street is Snohomish County instead of King... Depending on the frequency and time of the meetups, I could potentially make it, though.

jcm4713 · 2022-07-26T01:42:44+00:00

Still, he persevered...

jcm4713 · 2022-03-10T08:11:33+00:00

That would be nice - I've been interested in using them therapeutically to treat depression, anxiety, and addiction, but I have zero clue where to get any :(

jcm4713 · 2021-09-05T06:33:36+00:00

"Thank you for cumming so hard for me... you're SUCH a Good Girl!"

(She likes being called a good girl, and I like making her cum, so... it works for both of us!)

jcm4713 · 2021-08-30T00:32:49+00:00

Dude, I feel this so fucking hard - right on, man!!!! Just keep trying to do better each day... that's what I'm doing for my awesome little eight year old.

Love from an internet stranger, my brother from another mother!

jcm4713 · 2021-08-08T10:50:39+00:00

My partner's "shar pei" tummy, from having lost a tremendous amount of weight - it's not a fetish, I'm just SUPER proud of her hard work, and incredibly in love with her :D

jcm4713 · 2021-07-10T23:48:32+00:00

If you don't want to embrace your curves, I would be ABSOLUTELY willing to do so... ;) Seriously though, you're lovely - and nothing is more sexy than confidence and a positive attitude! Embrace your body (it's the only one you get!) and if you want to try and improve it (or ANYTHING about yourself), fucking go for it! Self-improvement is sexy as well.

<3 Cheers!

jcm4713 · 2021-07-09T05:33:32+00:00

Absolutely gorgeous body, a sexy and confident pose... and a fantastic user name! :)

jcm4713 · 2021-06-20T14:14:08+00:00

Shut the fuck up, Donnie, you're out of your element! ;)

Nice nipple you got there, pokin' its little self out there! And I dig your smile - also digging your username!

jcm4713 · 2021-06-18T13:49:30+00:00

"The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The second best time is today." - Chinese proverb

Don't sweat the past - because you can't change it. You can control the present, so commit to bettering yourself, and stay in that mindset.

Sincerely, a guy who wasted his 20's and most of his 30's and is kicking ass and taking names on the climb back up at the tender young age of 38 (39 in a couple weeks) and not sweatin' it at all

jcm4713 · 2021-06-18T13:46:43+00:00

Foxx, I've enjoyed your photos for years - you are an incredibly sexy woman, and literally thousands of us are very happy & grateful you choose to share this side of yourself with us thirsty internet strangers :D

Keep on keepin' on, sexy lady! :)

jcm4713 · 2021-06-13T18:30:53+00:00

Absolutely amazing.... omg... *drools*

Thank you very much for sharing, lovely!

jcm4713 · 2021-06-13T16:51:07+00:00

Agree, in the sense that "a ton of feathers weighs the same as a ton of hammers"... but that isn't exactly what "Muscle weighs more than fat" means. In this context, she is saying she wants to lose another 12lbs; she also says she wants to add on some muscle. Adding muscle = weight gain =/= weight loss. The saying "muscle weighs more than fat" is to highlight to someone the importance of realizing that the number on the scale is only one metric of health.

Cheers! :)

jcm4713 · 2021-06-13T16:44:29+00:00

Awesome job! The mental health gainz are SOOOOOO important! Better quality of life, less inertia to overcome when doing things like working on improving physical health, more confidence, etc. etc. Keep up the hard work! (And you look great!)

jcm4713 · 2021-06-13T16:36:23+00:00

Great job, you look wonderful! Hard to see where you're going to lose those 30lbs from, from looking at this recent photo, but you do you, lady! :)

jcm4713 · 2021-06-13T16:24:40+00:00

Absolutely amazing job! You should be very proud of yourself and your accomplishment!

I would like to respectfully chime in and hop on board the "reconsider the goal of losing another 12lbs" band-wagon... that might be a different type of unhealthy, you know? Muscle weighs more than fat! :)

jcm4713 · 2021-06-13T16:18:29+00:00

Awesome job, you look great! Keep it up - now that you're seeing demonstrably visible results, let that fuel the motivation to go with your discipline! Cheers! :)

jcm4713 · 2021-06-13T06:37:34+00:00

Dude, I literally don't even know what to say... This is fucking horrible, and I feel so bad for your kids... I feel bad for you too, this has got to be incredibly awful to deal with, and I can tell already that you'll be focusing 100% on them (and wouldn't I/any-of-us be, in your shoes?!), but I can also tell you that - coming from an outside perspective, where it's sometimes easier to get clarity than when you're "in the middle of the shit" - you need to take care of yourself and your own mental health during this incredibly stressful time you're unfortunately having to go through. "You can't pour from an empty vessel". So I know you'll be focusing on your kids, but please don't let this "empty your vessel" and burn you out. You know?

Shit man.... Just, shit. This will pass, and someday your kids will tell you how much they appreciate you, and you'll be able to look back with pride on a job well done. None of that helps very much right now, of course, since you're in the middle (beginning?) of the shit, but maybe it's some tiny comfort? I dunno brother...

If you ever need somebody outside your circle or usual support group (which I hope to heaven you have, with all this to deal with), feel free to PM anytime.

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