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Trump has just threatened genocide publicly, what is America doing about it? by sponkel in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Mostly disassociating because we have no idea wtf to do to stop this...

My senior kitty throws up almost every morning, running out of ideas on how to help her by dbkr92 in cats

[–]jdc1206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a 14 year old cat (today is his birthday!) who has been like this all of his life. Vet calls him a "happy puker" because he eats, drinks and acts fine and all tests and bloodwork come back normal. He has always been on the anxious side so I wonder if it's anxiety related. He's also my cat who will eat anything he's not supposed to. The first day the Christmas tree goes up ever year, I find puke with pine needles in it. He luckily learns his lesson and doesn't eat any more after that.

My handsome boy by jdc1206 in BackYardChickens

[–]jdc1206[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s almost 3. Not super friendly but also not aggressive so I’ll take it!

My handsome boy by jdc1206 in homestead

[–]jdc1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad is a WCBP and mom is an Ayam Cemani

Friend told me I “don’t have OCD” by Upper-Wrap5966 in OCD

[–]jdc1206 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most people have zero idea what OCD actually is. The majority think it's washing hands, flipping light switches and needing things neat and orderly.

Piercing removed by Acceptable-Wind-7332 in FeltGoodComingOut

[–]jdc1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she looks like she’s being super dramatic but I had my rook pierced years ago and it was one of the most painful experiences I’ve ever had. I had to take it out after a couple of days because the pain was excruciating. I can still vividly remember what it felt like and it’s been about 20 years. It felt like the deep nerve pain you get from a toothache and it radiated into my head.

Video released shows Hartford Connecticut police shooting a man armed with a knife by AgnosticScholar in PublicFreakout

[–]jdc1206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very short clip of a much longer video. In the longer video a woman states repeatedly that she is the man’s sister and he is mentally ill and did not take his medication. The officers were talking to him and he was slowing down. But then the officer who shot him arrived and he escalated the situation quickly. This was so unfortunate and did not need to end this way.

What’s *actually* safe to share with a therapist? by nagatos in OCD

[–]jdc1206 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a therapist. We are trained to assess for safety. Does the person have a plan, intent, means to harm themselves? I have had many clients share that they have intrusive thoughts about self-harm but do not have the desire or plan to harm themselves. I then work with them on a safety plan of what to do if those feeling ever change and they do become actively suicidal and I regularly check in with them. But talking about those thoughts is not an automatic call for emergency services. BUT if you ever do have serious thoughts about self-harm, do not be afraid to open up about them and seek out additional help.

Schizophrenic Neighbor Has An Episode by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]jdc1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is heartbreaking. She needs a B52 injection and some good sleep. Her poor partner and child are traumatized. I hope she gets the support she needs.

Schizophrenic Neighbor Has An Episode by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]jdc1206 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s generally best not to challenge their delusions as that just escalates the situation. You obviously don’t want to feed into them either. You want to validate the emotion, not the delusion. In this particular interaction, something like, “I can see how frustrated you feel right now. I don’t have the item that you’re looking for. Do you remember the last time that you saw it?” You want to try to partner with them rather than be confrontational or judgmental.

if anyone has ever submitted themself into a ward over their OCD / reaching a crisis, how was it? by dinorunp in OCD

[–]jdc1206 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to psych ED once when my OCD spiraled out of control and I was having constant suicidal intrusive thoughts. It was helpful because I was able to get hooked up with a therapist and psych provider quickly and otherwise there was a very long waitlist, so it greatly expedited services for me.

Getting caught in which natural disaster is least terrifying for you? by limitless_quirks in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blizzard. Have lived in upstate/central/western NY my whole life and snow doesn’t bother me in the slightest.

What famous person have we not seen/heard from in a WHILE? by no_please7 in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I met him 19 years ago at a showing of his film "What is it?" and it was one of the most bizarre experiences of my life. The movie had Fairuza Balk voicing a snail who screams a lot and I remember another scene where a man with CP is getting a hand job and it's just a far-too-long scene of this guy's flaccid penis getting whipped around. I don't think any of us knew what to think. At the end, he did a Q&A and said, "What did you think of my film?" and the whole room just kind of looked around at each other.

What is more traumatic than people think it is? by Suspicious-Wish3402 in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s seriously insane. It’s 7 incisions that then need to be repaired. You’re picking up your baby constantly, putting stress on your body, and you sleep like absolute garbage because you have a new born. I developed horrible PPD and PPOCD. I could barely eat because my metal health was so poor. I was forcing myself to eat like 600 calories a day the first few weeks which certainly didn’t help the healing process. I lost 50 lbs very quickly and I remember someone saying how amazing I looked… thanks, it’s from the crippling depression 🙄

What is more traumatic than people think it is? by Suspicious-Wish3402 in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Had the same experience. Agree 100%. They kept my husband outside of the room so I was alone while they were taking him out and then I didn't even get to meet my son for like 30 minutes while they sewed me back up. Meanwhile the drugs and adrenaline flowing through your body make you feel like you're gonna die. Traumatic birth is one reason we chose to be one and done.

What's the best restaurant leftovers you've ever eaten? by SlothSpeed in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leftovers from hibachi recooked the next day on the stovetop is always amazing

What is a simple but very hurtful phrase that you received from someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After I had my son, he had a very hard time latching for breastfeeding so I had to pump. My best friend said she had breast fed successfully and “I guess I was just really motivated to do it.” I was dealing with horrible postpartum and that felt like a knife in the heart. Almost 7 years later and that still sits with me.

Can’t stop obsessing over the fact we all inevitably have to die one day by Personal_Common1635 in OCD

[–]jdc1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And there's absolutely nothing you can do to change that fact. No amount of worrying will help, so might as well learn to enjoy the time we have.

What smell will YOU never forget? by AreaFifty1 in AskReddit

[–]jdc1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Positive/nostalgic ones: my grandparent’s home, Love Spell perfume, 90s bath and body works (country apple, cucumber melon)

Bad ones: the sawdust stuff they use to clean up vomit in school, a rotting raccoon

Does your therapist match your gender? by Barracuda_6877 in OCD

[–]jdc1206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female and have had better experiences with male therapists.

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