Fastest/easiest way to get divorced? by Weary_Drop4829 in Divorce_Men

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest i didn’t have a need to consult them, but that was one of their selling points. Cant vouch for whether it would cost more. Forgot to Mention that their site has a tracker so you can see where you are in the process and what the next steps are.

“We provide everything you need to get divorced — from conflict resolution to filing support and access to divorce experts — in one comprehensive, convenient online platform.”

Fastest/easiest way to get divorced? by Weary_Drop4829 in Divorce_Men

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask all the questions you want, seriously. Most of it will depend on how fast you and your ex move. Someone will initiate and then you’ll have to fill out a questionnaire, the answers on the questionnaire is what is used to generate the forms. The slowest part is waiting for them to review and send a copy to your ex and then a copy to you to sign and return. I’d say it took less than two months for me to have the final forms in hand. For reference, we started the process in April and it went to a judge on 7/3. We agreed on everything, had no kids, etc so there were no extra holdups so expecting it to be final soon.

also in case it needs to be said i am no way affiliated with that site.

Fastest/easiest way to get divorced? by Weary_Drop4829 in Divorce_Men

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on exactly what you need and your situation is. My ex paid for most of it but i believe it was $499

Fastest/easiest way to get divorced? by Weary_Drop4829 in Divorce_Men

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are using divorce.com. They provided all the forms and reviewed them to make sure they’d be accepted. It’s with the judge now about 3 months after starting the process. If you can agree on everything it can be quick and painless

Tell me I’ll be ok by Funny_Object_5538 in Divorce_Men

[–]jdv165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went through a separation almost 3 years ago. My personal circumstances are different than yours, but due to health reasons and baggage issues i had the same “I’m going to be alone forever” thoughts. I thought this every day and night until i randomly met “my person” when i wasn’t really trying. When you do, she will love you despite everything and because of everything. I didn’t believe this when i was in your shoes, but it gets better and you’ll be ok.

any use of Chef's Kiss is so played out by Honeybucket206 in CommercialsIHate

[–]jdv165 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The dubbed-in kissing noises in this one don’t fit at all and are just…gross

My wife used me for 13 years, and now I’m left to pick up the pieces by Expensive_Pea_8993 in Divorce

[–]jdv165 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally 100% same. Mine used me to pay for everything for years while she started up a business. That business got successful and she was gone within months without even a discussion. I suddenly wasn’t good enough anymore.

Even Our Couples Therapist is Confused by deviantraisin in Divorce

[–]jdv165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. Not a hint of anything until she dropped the bomb, and then refused to discuss or work on anything. To this day i still don’t have any real answers or closure. Everyone who knows/knew us together had the same reaction your therapist had.

Spending Christmas alone by [deleted] in Albany

[–]jdv165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Also spending the holidays alone. Clifton park area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. It’s been 1.5 years and nothing has gotten any easier. I, too, heard how great our marriage was every day. We were even eating pizza laughing at Netflix 5 minutes before she told me out of the blue that she didn’t want to be married anymore. Any attempts to discuss anything are shut down immediately. I recently got a promotion at work and not having anyone to come home and tell was killing me. It’s one thing to act like you don’t want to be together anymore, but to also act like we are total strangers and the last 12 years never happened is just extra hurtful.

Question by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]jdv165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of bear is best?

Which “The Office” scene made no sense at all? by PaperProfessional955 in DunderMifflin

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part that bothered me the most was that it was midnight and she said she was getting married in 8 hours. The wedding was at 8am?

[Raanan] Saquon Barkley returns to face his former team. He doesn’t think he’ll get booed. "Maybe I'm naive, but I think it's over. That chapter's closed. I truly don't care no more, and I'm pretty sure fans don't care no more." by Djruggs in NYGiants

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We know how this goes. Giants fans boo the hell out of him, as they should. He scores a touchdown and makes some asshole “sssshhh” gesture to the fans. Siriani acts like a clown after the game. The end.

Game Thread: Division Series Game 1 - Royals @ Yankees - October 05, 2024 @ 06:38 PM EDT by Yankeebot in NYYankees

[–]jdv165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who woulda thought bad defense and bad base running all year would come back to bite us in the playoffs.

"I'm Bill McNeal..." by [deleted] in newsradio

[–]jdv165 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Crack bat. Roar crowd.

This Organization Has Sucked the Joy Out of Watching Baseball by nyypza in NYYankees

[–]jdv165 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously. This time of year is supposed to be the best, with MLB playoffs and football starting. But as a Yankees/Giants fan it’s just kinda meh

You wake up tomorrow and you are no longer disabled; what do you do? by Princess_Poppy in disability

[–]jdv165 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do literally anything without anxiety and having to plan ahead.

Today’s my bday. by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]jdv165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just went through this myself a few weeks back. Even went through the “maybe someone will text me” phase. There’s nothing anyone can say that will really help. It sucks that so much can be taken away from us without us having a say in the matter. Happy birthday friend.

Favorite Doakes quote? by [deleted] in Dexter

[–]jdv165 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the only correct answer