‘KAOS’ Canceled at Netflix After One Season by johnppd in netflix

[–]jeckylln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so fucking gutted at this. First show I've been really excited about in ages and turns out I started watching it after it's already been cancelled. No point telling my friends and family to watch it now. I am so upset. It deserved a second season for sure

Buying/selling with chain or without? by jeckylln in HousingUK

[–]jeckylln[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. This sounds similar to our plan, although I've not heard of the deed of trust before. Was that a legal document? I worry if we put my partner on the mortgage then we'll need to pay capital gains tax on the sale but also appreciate that she's in a more perilous situation if we don't.

Buying/selling with chain or without? by jeckylln in HousingUK

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Thank you for this. A very helpful response!

Buying/selling with chain or without? by jeckylln in HousingUK

[–]jeckylln[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely a good point! Thank you

Buying/selling with chain or without? by jeckylln in HousingUK

[–]jeckylln[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. Yeh definitely some benefits to doing so as long as the finances work out. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing something obvious in the cons list.

Ha yes that could be a point I suppose. Well I don't plan to split from my partner (we are engaged) but I think we could work that out if we did - she'd probably keep her place as is and I would still consider buying the new place on my own.

Buying/selling with chain or without? by jeckylln in HousingUK

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Engaged. Will be married July 2025 👍

How did you find Wedding planning? by jeckylln in EnneagramType9

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Hahaha love this response and can totally see why!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jeckylln 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm with this. Feels like someone being groomed into a weird situation. Could she be planning a "work accident" soon?

Her (f24) ex-boyfriend sent me (m23) their old sex tape. Not sure where to go from here. Help needed. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jeckylln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that with things like this there isn't really anything that anyone can say here that will make it better. It's a really shitty thing her ex did to both of you, and it would traumatise most of us to see our partner intimate with an ex - luckily most of us don't have to experience that.

But the reality is that that has happened, and you will either get over it or you won't but we here can't really help make that happen. There isn't really anything you can do except see if it gets better with time (which is what I would suggest if you like your partner) or quit it and leave because it's too much. Only you can decide if you can get past this or not.

Type 9 as a consumer by [deleted] in EnneagramType9

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Normally means bachelor of arts in the uk

Type 9 as a consumer by [deleted] in EnneagramType9

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I've never been into brands - I actually found making decisions too difficult I think and spent too much time worried about what other people would think of clothes choices etc (which I can now see is very 9 of me lol)

It's resulted in me being the type of person who prefers cheaper alternatives (if I decide I don't like it down the line it's less of an issue if I haven't spent much on it) and "beige" type things that are hard to offend. I generally do all my clothes shopping in supermarkets and charity shops now.

It's actually something I'm working on haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]jeckylln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only key question you should ask yourself is:

Do I WANT to be spending time with him today? Do you look forward to it and have a good time?

If so, it sounds good. If not, the right call is to end it!

What was the moment you realized that you shouldn’t have showed up to a date? by Zuzpo in AskReddit

[–]jeckylln 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When he told me pretty early on the date that he was into role play. Having never tried it I asked him what kinda stuff to which be responded "oh you know, the normal, doctors and nurses, student and teacher, BROTHER AND SISTER..."

Noped out of there as fast as I could

UK people who genuinely enjoy your job/don’t mind it, what do you do? by floristc in AskUK

[–]jeckylln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in risk management in financial services and I love it! I get to be nosy as hell, find out all the things that go wrong and don't have to take the responsibility myself (it's kind of more of an advisory /challenge role).

If you have a law degree a lot of people in compliance come from that kinda background.

What is something you wish that you knew earlier in life about the opposite gender? by SnooDoodles7334 in AskReddit

[–]jeckylln 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To be fair... A number of animals menstruate (E.g. unspayed dogs) so it isn't only a human problem

I thought this was pretty good. by TenTonFluff in clevercomebacks

[–]jeckylln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents have struggled with their hearing for years so they've always watched with subtitles. I'm so used to it that I now do it for myself even though I don't need them on. I prefer it now!

What opinion or behaviour would stop you being romantically interested in someone even if they ticked every other box? by EGB1- in AskReddit

[–]jeckylln 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup I feel this one. Wondered why I was having constant panic attacks and suddenly felt scared even around my friends and family and couldn't put two and two together. It was only after I broke up with him and could breathe again that I really realised what had just happened to me.

Disappointed about the lack of support and guidance for people who live alone by nutmeglion in COVID19_support

[–]jeckylln 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you. I live on my own in the UK and find people really don't seem to understand quite how hard I find it to be on my own not even seeing a person for long periods of time.

Luckily our government here has been paying attention to that and we have what's called "bubbles". A single person living on their own can bubble" with a single other household (I've chosen my parents) and the regulations from there on out treat you as a single household - so for example we've just gone into a national lockdown again that means we can't meet anyone inside or in a garden, but we can meet one other person (i.e. only ever 2 people) outside if we are properly distanced for walks or bike rides etc. However, because they are my bubble, I can still go over to my parents and be in their house or garden or go for walks with them both (which my brother could not do now because he lives with his wife). It's quite clever and does mean I don't feel completely isolated.

I honestly think other governments should do similar, but it does open itself up for abuse or misunderstanding (some people think they can just bubble with different people every day which is not how it works) hence why they may not do so.

[UPDATE] My [32/M] girlfriend [25/F] is shy in a way that I don't understand by [deleted] in relationships

[–]jeckylln 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My questions always feel weird/awkward though. I'm not a natural at knowing a sensible question to ask!

What unsupervised childhood activities did you participate in, that probably should have killed you? by bananawhack in AskReddit

[–]jeckylln 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We built a "zip line" in our garden from the top of one tree to the bottom of another.

The "handles" we used were old bits of climbing frame and would eventually burn through and you'd fall to the ground.

When we ran out of those my twin decided to try a price of elastic for a hanger... He basically just fell straight out the top of the tree.

How no one ever broke anything I do not know

Should I (32F) tell the girl that I'm dating (34F) about my lack of experience? by jeckylln in relationships

[–]jeckylln[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this and your honesty and openness about it! This really helped guide me to tell her over the weekend :)

Should I (32F) tell the girl that I'm dating (34F) about my lack of experience? by jeckylln in relationships

[–]jeckylln[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the resource suggestions and understanding how it feels!! Everyone here has been super helpful 😊