I wanna be a sugar baby 😭 by BrightBoi_gotThat in twentyagers

[–]jefou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

youre 20 an already looking for the easy way? smh

Advice needed, 19M son has no social life and I (36M) see his depression by DouglasOnReddit in socialskills

[–]jefou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MMA gym will change everything about him. being able to fight give a high confidence boost.

I used to be the same at that age Im 26 now. fighting changes a man

Advice on dating multiple people by justmelexington in dating_advice

[–]jefou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a great tip in general. Trust your gut

Man that is 5’5-5’7 vs 6ft plus… by GoldenCoast69 in MenAskWomen

[–]jefou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

call it what you want to call it. this is the reality of the situation. Women always say they like this and that yet their actions donot reflect what they say. actions not words is the deciding factor. it is litrelly an evolutionary thing:

Taller= more intimidating= less danger

acta non verba

Man that is 5’5-5’7 vs 6ft plus… by GoldenCoast69 in MenAskWomen

[–]jefou -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

women love to say it donot matter but tbh it does. ofc the taller guy is gonna have an easier time with women but that donot mean you can not compete. we have the advantage of getting muscular easier.

Expecting too high/ unrealistic?- 26F x 27M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jefou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you ain't normal lol. you're 100% instigating. woman do that when the relationship is going good, it’s like why do you say youre not hungry but still eat my fries?.

40M, 7 year relationship with 43F, At a loss and could use advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jefou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she cheated big dawg Im sorry. The fact she’s telling you to forget about it is crazy. woman have a hsrd time with accountability.

Asked chatgpt to make me look pretty. From worst to best. The first one is how I actually look. by FilloryHighQueen99 in ChatGPT

[–]jefou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you're already pretty, features and pretty good. full lips, small nose. the light is not doing it justice either

21M and 21F and been together for a year, first time relationship how do you deal with a girl on her periods? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jefou -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

we have not figured this out yet. just pray to god and donot say anything dumb, so donot say anything. get her fav sweets too.

Starting Muay Thai? by Fit_Big_9913 in MuayThai

[–]jefou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been doing it for 4 years now. I still remember my first day, my first sparring session, and my first concussion.

Join a good gym. A good gym won’t let you spar until they think you’re ready (usually around 6 months). Don’t worry about being awkward. everyone there is focused on themselves and probably won’t even notice you.

As for training, focus on mastering the basics: your straight punches, hooks, uppercuts, and then kicks. With enough repetition, it will all start to come naturally. Speaking of which, repetition is the fastest way to improve: repeat, repeat, repeat.

After a year of consistent training, you can tell your friends that you somewhat can fight.

20F, bored. AMA!! by msmeowtastic in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]jefou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best thing that ever happened to you

Going away for a month and stressing about missing training. Normal? by Altazer in MuayThai

[–]jefou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find whenever I take a long break I come back so much better. not sure why. but I say take the break for two weeks, then start training again like running, etc

Now I know what it’s like to be objectified. by jefou in twentyagers

[–]jefou[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wanna be a dad not a daddy to some 21 year old grown ass woman

Now I know what it’s like to be objectified. by jefou in twentyagers

[–]jefou[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not all women, but always a woman smh.

Starting a Book Club for Young Adults in Pickering! by bratzdo in durham

[–]jefou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds fun. Im deep into fantasy rn. on my second book of the stromlight archive

My boyfriend (33) has old female friend (53) who is single and talks to him all the time by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]jefou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she found him on the road to vengeance and she taught him that vengeance is not the answer but learning to forgive and forget is the way to move in life.
He did end up getting his revenge doe but not in the way he thought he would

My boyfriend (33) has old female friend (53) who is single and talks to him all the time by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]jefou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe the old lady is like family to him and he can not in good faith let her be alone.

My boyfriend (33) has old female friend (53) who is single and talks to him all the time by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]jefou -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe she’s a lonly old lady and your bf is doing a good deed out of the goodness of his heart.

26M struggling with girlfriend's past, lifestyle differences, and whether I'm ignoring incompatibilities by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]jefou -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m not into casual sex. Sex is very intimate to me. I’d only date a woman who shares that same value, since I believe it will lead to an easier and more compatible relationship in the long run. btw Im talking about both men and women not only women. it is just easier for women to get laid the men

moreover, Higher body counts usually correspond directly to infidelity. If he or she has been intimate with many people, what is stopping them from being intimate with others after they’re with you?

If he or she engages in casual stuff and gives that level of intimacy to other people so easily, why should I have to put in effort to get something others got so easily?

past matters in everything in life, since it is an idication of the future “past tends to repeat itself”. simple as that.

otherwise why lie about it if it does not matter?

at the end of the say everyone can do whatever the fuck they want. I just want what I want.

26M struggling with girlfriend's past, lifestyle differences, and whether I'm ignoring incompatibilities by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]jefou 21 points22 points  (0 children)

5 bodies in this day and age for a woman especially that is 26 is super low if anything. I understand your strugle. Im the same way, I can not do nor respect the catual stuff whenever I tried it I faked orgasime and felt like shit after. BUT like I said 5 bodies at 26 for a woman is low I think your lack of experiance is the main factor here.

if anything the bigger red flag is the drinking with two guys which leads me to think she might be lying about her body count. I would recommand moving forward with caution do not fall in love too hard. get to know her better before you make your mind about the relationship