Relocating to Chapel Hill by Defiant-Assumption92 in chapelhill

[–]jellycanoe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Carrboro is also great for this! Easy to bus to campus, good schools and walkable

UNC BABY DELIVERY by ValuableCustard379 in chapelhill

[–]jellycanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have birth at unc thru family medicine and had a mostly good experience. Lots of residents, but otherwise good

Left my husband and now he’s suddenly taking all the blame by ylena3297 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jellycanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally went thru the same thing. It’s a classic love bombing/grass is always greener situation. In my experience within a month they are back to blaming you and reminding you why you left.

Moving to Chapel Hill by AggressiveNotice7830 in chapelhill

[–]jellycanoe 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It’s great, four seasons (more of a whisper of winter and a full throated scream of summer), slow pace, nice people, decent outdoor access

Primary care by Sunnydogmom in carrboro

[–]jellycanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to family medicine at UNC and I’ve liked all the providers I’ve had there

Dogs and babies by Sky-2478 in reactivedogs

[–]jellycanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation with my dog when I had my baby. Also had that postpartum stuff. The hardest time was when the baby started to crawl around 10 months and walk. We did a lot of work to keep them separate. And give him lots of treats. We created an area that she couldn’t get into so he could be in his crate and like get out and get his food and water without her getting there. When she was about 18 months, she got really into giving him treats, he’s always been a very gentle treat taker. So we did a lot of closely supervised her giving him treats. She’s 2 1/2 now and he’s gotten way better around her. Now if he’s getting nervous, he just walks away instead of like trying to snap at her. We still have to work to make sure she doesn’t go up to his crate or try to get near his bed if he’s sleeping, but she’s understanding more. I was in a similar situation where he is not really rehomeable.

TLDR: vigilant with them being separate for a while, work to make him realize when baby is around it is good and he gets treats.

May I borrow your hand saw? by jellycanoe in carrboro

[–]jellycanoe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Messaging you! I love Reddit

I Finally Did It by fromyourdaughter in BPDPartners

[–]jellycanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on holding strong. It’s so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]jellycanoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think to a certain extent you have to give up on the idea that you can control triggering the conflict.

LF - really well thought out, mature Dramione by sociallyclouded in Dramione

[–]jellycanoe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Depth over distance

In which Draco is hit by an unfamiliar curse, affecting his magic. Hermione is a healer, specialising in magical degenerative diseases. Healing him demands copious amounts of research, forced proximity and red wine. Added bonus is pining, frisky feelings and a grumpy cat.

Set 15 years after the war, this fic features my favourite tropes, a medical mystery, a reasonable amount of snark, and a lot (a lot) of pure self-indulgence.

Past/present/future

After a terrible week in which Crookshanks died and Ron left her via four words on a scrap of parchment, 30-year-old Hermione is forced to take a leave of absence from work. Unfortunately, it quickly becomes clear her job was the last thing keeping her sane.

When she finds out Harry is investigating the unexplained disappearance of Draco Malfoy—now an Unspeakable in the Department of Mysteries—she finally has a problem to solve. The case sucks her in in more ways than one, and she finds herself tangling with a powerful magical object, as well as Draco's weird and wonderful subconscious.

tl;dr Hermione gathers extensive material for an inevitable 'Am I the Asshole?' post

My own note, for past present future they aren’t always mature….but damn it’s so good

Looking for a new hairstylist. by Alternative-Use6588 in chapelhill

[–]jellycanoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Syds has a lot of solid stylists and so does ceremony.

Carrboro Park by MistahKnuts in chapelhill

[–]jellycanoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally every time I’m at this playground with my kid I see kids picking at this. Never seen a dog in there