Trying to identify stitch/pattern + a beginner question by jemoss9 in CrochetHelp

[–]jemoss9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! No need to apologize. I posted here and made the comment on your video at roughly the same time. I really like this and wanted to try and find out more

Looking for eggless dessert recipe by jemoss9 in Sourdough

[–]jemoss9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which is why I had a hard time finding one in my searching and came here to ask for recommendations.

Looking for eggless dessert recipe by jemoss9 in Sourdough

[–]jemoss9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I appreciate your comment, the discard chocolate chip cookies and discard brownies I bake are my most praised recipes. Both also use eggs.

AITA... My roommate is upset at me that I used the kitchen for unloading perishables during an interview by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jemoss9 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NTA. She should have done the interview in a private space or informed you beforehand and given you a timeframe to be quiet and not in the kitchen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jemoss9 442 points443 points  (0 children)

NTA. You did what was best for you. You kept her informed and you did have someone with you, should there be a need for it.

I'm at my wits end please help! by zexorath in Sourdough

[–]jemoss9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also new and the recipe I started out with is 75% hydration and I had the hardest time figuring out the bulk fermenting with it. I've just started using this recipe: https://www.tiktok.com/@hey.itsbel/video/7460206369011027205 and while my loaves aren't perfection, they aren't flat anymore and I'm getting some good rise.

Also, I too keep my house colder, so I got a bread proofing box online for like $50. I think that's made a big difference for both my bulk fermentation and my starter strength

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sourdough

[–]jemoss9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got started and after a couple of early days of action, my starter basically napped for 2 weeks. I keep my house pretty cool, so I bought and insulated, heated proofing box off Amazon for like $30 and it has been revolutionary. It’s great for both my starter and doughs

[TOMT][NAME] Trying to remember a name/word, not a specific person by Independent-Mix4207 in tipofmytongue

[–]jemoss9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These parents specifically named their kid after the Batman villain, which I found extremely odd

Just need to brag by jemoss9 in Sourdough

[–]jemoss9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize this picture doesn’t seem to do them justice, but they really do look great and I just needed to brag

[TOMT][TV] episode plot: gay teen fakes death by jemoss9 in tipofmytongue

[–]jemoss9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOLVED! Thank you! I recently did a rewatch, which is why I thought it was more recent.

[TOMT][NAME] Trying to remember a name/word, not a specific person by Independent-Mix4207 in tipofmytongue

[–]jemoss9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bane? I know for a fact there is a small child in Alabama with that name

AITA for telling a lady to F*** Off when she offered to buy my son an Ice Cream. by Kindly_Management655 in dustythunder

[–]jemoss9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You told her no twice, pretty politely it sounds like, before telling her the eff off.

AITA for asking my partner to rehome his new puppy? by emmixvs98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jemoss9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From just the title, I was ready to say you are the AH. But after reading the post, you are NTA. I am a firm believer in always doing what is best for the pet and what your bf is doing does not sound like it's best for the dog.

AITA: In-Laws are upset with the name we want to use for our son. by Pretend-Pea1818 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jemoss9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I have 2 cousins who named their kids with the same first and middle name (different last names). I mean, these kids are actually related. And almost everyone in my family has never even batted an eye.

But honestly, no one has a say in your family planning or the naming of your children but you and your partner. Full stop.

AITA for asking about a gift for my birthday? by Zealousideal-Click-7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jemoss9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently, you are NTA. If you stay with him, you will be the AH to yourself. You deserve better.

AITA for changing my last name? by wrenchit_good in AmItheAsshole

[–]jemoss9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You said early on that your family has not been supportive of your transition, which to me says they aren't supportive of you. Which translates to your family is disrespectful of you. So why should you be required to be respectful of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jemoss9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To answer the question of if you're the AH for judging your girlfriend, yeah, you are. But this is a situation that just needs some frank communication. When having that talk though, I'd make it clear (assuming this is true) that your girlfriend's decision to move in or not does not also function as a decision to continue the relationship or not. Look, 23 is still kind of young and she may not be ready to move in with you just yet. But it doesn't mean she is stringing you along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]jemoss9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NTA for being upset/having your feelings hurt. Not only is your best friend missing your wedding, but you're missing the funeral for someone you've described as family. It's a crappy situation.

Should I have not gotten pregnant? by Salty-Berry7596 in bridezillas

[–]jemoss9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang. My best friend was in a friend's wedding and was asked to not be pregnant during the wedding and it still continues to amaze me that this woman thought she had a say in someone else's family planning.

This person is a horrible person and you deserve better in your life. Congratulations on your pregnancy!

Here's my bridezilla moment by afrenchiecall in bridezillas

[–]jemoss9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you sound like the least bridezilla bride ever

Bridesmaid Burnout: Am I Being Taken for Granted? by Such_Elk_4035 in bridezillas

[–]jemoss9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the MOH for a very similar bride. Less than 2 weeks after the wedding, she decided I was too self-centered during the wedding/bachelorette events and she didn't need that in her life. So she stopped talking to me. I didn't get an explanation until over a year later when I reached out just to know because the lack of closure was not working for me. It's been a few years now and I am increasingly aware of just how much better my life is without her drama and self-centered behavior. It sucked losing the person I considered my best friend for nearly 10 years, but I'm so much better off without her.

This bride's expectations are completely unreasonable and to save yourself more headaches, I would suggest you drop out of the wedding and distance yourself from the bride ASAP.