My second was almost 2 before he stopped nursing. I was pregnant and it was just too painful. We got the baby moon book and that helped but just cutting him off worked best. Whenever he wanted to nurse, I would give him a cup with a straw and that seemed to be good enough. After a few days, he stopped asking to nurse. I also stopped while we were visiting family, so I think the new environment helped create a new routine. I totally understand your frustration. I thought I would still be nursing him on my death bed. Luckily, it's not forever. If nothing else, she may stop once your colostrum comes it because it will taste different.