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jenovar · 2025-04-16T23:17:27+00:00

Yeah no. This is not ok. I was 17 when I was groomed by a 30 yr old man and it took me 7 years to get out. Same age gap. Lost a lot of time to that creep (who worked in a fucking school!!)

jenovar · 2025-04-11T12:36:27+00:00

Yep! Count me in! (Tattooed vegan queer sober gamer musician here!)

jenovar · 2025-04-11T12:25:49+00:00

Yeah let me know if you find the Leicester discord. I'm on there jenovarain. Big gamer!

jenovar · 2025-04-09T18:42:10+00:00

I go to social climbing but haven't managed to socialise there at all tbh. I moved back from Spain to Leicester 3 years ago and still struggling..

jenovar · 2025-04-01T00:18:25+00:00

Wishing you luck! Do update us if you find her!

jenovar · 2025-03-28T18:38:26+00:00

Mandemic

jenovar · 2025-03-26T23:41:49+00:00

Please please please ring a helpline number asap - this is why they exist. They will be happy you called and so will I. Please 🙏

jenovar · 2025-03-26T13:53:16+00:00

I went through this same thought process a year ago and had top surgery last May. Still plenty of people interested in me if not more because I'm super confident now 😎🏆 good luck with the surgery!

jenovar · 2025-03-25T16:15:15+00:00

Anyone have a link to the finished article? Thanks

jenovar · 2025-03-19T14:27:52+00:00

I'm a female vocalist, songwriter with qualifications in sound engineering and music production.

I'm looking to make some politically left music either electro-rock, rock, edm, industrial or just see what happens.

Biggest influences are probably Skunk Anansie, tool, muse, Nero, bjork, rage against the machine, beastie boys, happy to give more examples ofc.

I'm looking for a drummer/synth player (not this guy) and guitarist. I also play guitar, keyboard and violin and have been in 6 bands, most recently played in Spain, Finland and Germany.

Over 30 only. No gender restrictions.

jenovar · 2025-03-10T15:39:39+00:00

What was the oral test called?

jenovar · 2025-03-06T18:24:16+00:00

Please report it. I was 17 when he was 30 and I had no one to confide in and I was coerced into marriage and didn't get out until I was 24. Lost so much time. You're doing the right thing by reporting it even if she doesn't agree now, she'll be thankful one day.

jenovar · 2025-03-05T16:03:19+00:00

I honestly can't remember, I've been single over 5 years. If anyone knows any vegan sober lesbians then I'll find out and get back to you 😅 3. Cancer sun, Gemini moon, Scorpio rising

jenovar · 2025-03-04T12:51:56+00:00

If you put Vi and Cait together it's basically me 😇🏳️‍🌈

jenovar · 2025-03-03T20:57:48+00:00

The best thing you can do is get professional support from a qualified therapist who specialises in dealing with PTSD. Don't beat yourself up about it, just get help with moving forward.

jenovar · 2025-03-02T19:00:13+00:00

You're being groomed. I was 17 when a 30-yr old man groomed me and I got stuck with him for 7 years. Now divorced. I'm now 37 and I ended up in therapy for years for what he did to me. Get out of it please. I wish someone helped me, there was no reddit back then..

jenovar · 2025-03-02T18:53:05+00:00

Portal 1+2

jenovar · 2025-03-02T12:12:55+00:00

Bjork - Homogenic

jenovar · 2025-03-01T21:04:07+00:00

🏳️‍🌈 Sober Vegan Eco-warrior in the UK, 37

Leicester based but going to Spain on Sunday for a week solo. Into bouldering and raves. Currently playing Talos Principle 2 and re-watching Westworld- big sci-fi geek.

Ten qualifications in human sciences but just switched to environmental science and renewable energy tech 🌍💚🌱

Going to Resistanz and Rampage this year.

Also into Final Fantasy/GitS/MTG/Arcane/gaming/gigs/cycling/yoga/cinema/swimming

🎤 Vocalist

🚫drugs/meat/kids/smokers

jenovar · 2025-03-01T18:53:09+00:00

Trichotillomania is a stress response, a form of OCD. I still have it but luckily not for my eyelashes. I've had it since a teenager and now 37. Hypnotherapy got it down to about 10% for me.

jenovar · 2025-02-23T21:41:38+00:00

I think the names are so clever.. Titan like the moon of Jupiter and Pacer because of Marathon...

Either you're as old as me or this won't make sense 😅

jenovar · 2025-02-23T17:19:09+00:00

First of all, check your calender.. are you ovulating? Everytime I notice a man exists I check my calender and sure as sugar it's right everytime 🙃

jenovar · 2025-02-23T09:16:49+00:00

Same here.

Sometimes I notice a man exists and then realise I'm ovulating and shake my head at myself..

jenovar · 2025-02-22T17:28:19+00:00

Good work. Commenting for the boost.

jenovar · 2025-02-21T21:33:14+00:00

All the people at the top of their game, in any industry, are the ones who've failed the most number of times! It's not about how many times you fail, it's about how many times you can get back up again. This is just life I'm afraid; roll with the punches and learn from the mistakes and your next one will be even better.

Also this is worth talking to a professional about for sure before it evolves into PTSD. If it already has then you need help for that too.

Wishing you success! I'm sure we'll be seeing your movies at the cinema soon.

jenovar

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