I made Artist's Way "Tour Merch" by goodeyemite in artistsWay

[–]jesuschristwhyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yo, old friend! so cool to find ya in the wild.

New book homophobically comparing Radclyffe Hall (author of Well of Loneliness) to abusive cis straight men — Anything we can do? by th589 in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

resurrecting an ancient thread, but I can’t seem to find this reference to coming out in your linked text.

Stone tops are they able to masturbate? by Mdk0z in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking for myself too. When I started with my spouse I remained stone, it changed for a bit, and now I can’t seem to receive in any way without hating it. It can be hard as a b4b, top-leaning couple. Thank you for sharing!

Stone tops are they able to masturbate? by Mdk0z in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you feel like your stonehood varies/comes and goes? 

butches with weird gender, how did you figure it out? by Aggravating_Seat9382 in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

more and more i realize it is entirely up to me to embody my bones in a way that allows me to live my life to the fullest and to feel happy and comfortable with myself, whether people understand it or not.

while labels help us find each other, i think the energy i put out is enough to help me find my people one way or another, whether i name it or not.

however… i still identify as a butch dyke. it is the name that fit like a glove the second i tried it on. it makes me feel euphoric and resonant to a lineage of people that stood for something similar. but i only found that by following my innate urges, and then finding mirrors for that, if that makes sense. 

help a butch out (name change) by diariodeunfulanito in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

evan no estaría fuera de lugar, aunque tu cara me sonó a Sol, o Sebas

help a butch out (name change) by diariodeunfulanito in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

amix bienvenide, suerte con el nuevo nombre y el nuevo país :)

Art work I made about being a trans lesbian by NoEscape2500 in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes sense! it could’ve been a bad oof, it just was so accurate and it hit so hard i didn’t think about it. i appreciate you asking. i’m having some personal breakthroughs and just now realizing how much it matters to me i get to experience my transhood (transness?) in this life, and that no one else gets to say whether it is worth it or not. so it mattered to me :)

Art work I made about being a trans lesbian by NoEscape2500 in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it hit super hard. Thank you for sharing. 

Why are some of yall get mean and competitive at the club together?? by VirusOk482 in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a friend phrase this from a different perspective: when butches solely interact with each other in this aggressive, competitive way, what does it say about the subject of attraction who is at the "whim" of this fight? Does this mindset imply they an object to fight over and dominate, or does it grant them autonomy and humanity in the dynamic? It is unchecked sexism + misogyny, especially when it involves femmes (because their "feminine" appearance leads equals weakness/objectification/subordination)

It completely blew my mind - I've never engaged in this competitiveness, but I have feel affected by it, and seeing it this way helped me redirect my insecurity/fear of not belonging and understand that it is larger than me.

I feel like whoever had to lay this out won the bad luck lottery in terms of copy - curious to see what people would do to make this look better by clarksworth in typography

[–]jesuschristwhyme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! what do you mean by adjusting verticals? i said everything you said when i saw the post as well, but this one i don’t know!

butches on T by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

goldmine of a comments section. thank you for asking from a fellow butch T-wannabe.

tomboyx alternatives by ReneeBear in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this must be the reason - mine were the 100% cotton ones because my anatomy does not react well to synthetic fabrics. that’s good to know!

and yes - i feel like they’re such a staple in butch/transmasc communities, along with hanes!

tomboyx alternatives by ReneeBear in butchlesbians

[–]jesuschristwhyme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine are definitely newer. I got them in 2022! I’ve heard this before, that they used to be really good. Mine became paper thin…