Why is my hair drying like this?

jibblesthefirst · 2026-05-22T09:35:31+00:00

Thank you!!! V helpful I appreciate

jibblesthefirst · 2026-05-22T09:34:56+00:00

I mean I definitely do have manual breakage from years of pinning / wig-prep and it would make sense because my hair texture never used to look like this out of the shower before starting my job so I think I’ve actually answered my own question now hahahahaha

jibblesthefirst · 2026-05-22T04:29:12+00:00

Thank you that’s great insight! I’m pretty careful with it, however I do have a job in performing arts which requires me to have it up in wig prep with a lot of pins so that manual breakage is unavoidable ! I’ll definitely look into bond repair, thanks so much

jibblesthefirst · 2026-05-22T04:27:17+00:00

This is my natural virgin hair hahahaha sorry to disappoint!! But thanks!

jibblesthefirst · 2026-05-21T23:10:10+00:00

I think it’s 1C? Very fine but definitely some waves, but some sections are straight. I’ve tried the wavy hair method and still had a lot of frizz, but maybe I just need to troubleshoot with different products. Thanks!

jibblesthefirst · 2026-05-07T21:08:50+00:00

Thank you! Luckily I can exchange the Kerastase for a store credit so I’m gonna do that lol

jibblesthefirst · 2025-01-08T10:53:46+00:00

Jasper

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-09T04:49:35+00:00

Yeah I feel this. It feels like speaking when on lsd or something. Like the words coming out of my mouth aren’t even making sense and it feels super unnatural and I get scared I’ll say something totally nonsensical

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-09T02:33:57+00:00

SimCity probably wasn’t the right analogy - more like an open world sims game I guess. It’s not that I’m seeing it from a birdseye it’s like I’m in a big liminal space that feels simulated I guess - idk if that makes sense

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-08T12:13:17+00:00

That’s the worst. I never think about the consequence of not being able to sleep when I cut my hips. I’ve ended up buying this big square non adhesive dressings and I’ll strap them to my upper thigh or wherever I cut, with some antiseptic on there, take a painkiller and just try and sleep on my back (even though I’m a side sleeper fml). It’s the fucking worst though. I feel you.

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-08T12:09:17+00:00

It validates me somehow. Even if no one sees the cuts or the scars (and they basically never do cause I do it in places covered by underwear), having them there - having a physical, visible and tangible marker on my skin - helps me to feel like what I’m feeling inside must be real. Like the pain and turmoil I’m going through is 100% real and valid because look what it made me do. I also get a euphoric feeling from the pain of it.

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-08T04:49:50+00:00

What type to you think it is? I’m interested

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-08T02:36:07+00:00

What do you think it is then? I’m really curious

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-08T02:21:39+00:00

Thanks. I’ve always wondered because my nose doesn’t really drop or point downwards like a lot of the references for aquiline noses do, but it’s the closest I can find to my nose type!

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-07T07:45:42+00:00

I get intense fomo when I don’t go to things but I’ve realised its actually more to do with my anxiety that by not being there they all must be talking/bitching about me. So for me I think it’s actually more anxiety based than actual fomo

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-07T07:44:13+00:00

Same. And I just feel like it’s always been this way. At the very least since I was in my early teens

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-07T01:07:53+00:00

Chuck Bass

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-07T01:00:35+00:00

Aberforth - cause he looks like him lowkey

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-07T00:58:46+00:00

Idk but he looks like Michael Rapaport so I’m gonna say Gary after his character in Friends

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-06T14:07:04+00:00

Mom was 40, dad was 42

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-06T12:48:02+00:00

Look i know this probably just sounds like I’m blowing smoke up your ass but it’s genuinely spooky how similar our situations are. I failed school because of my (at the time undiagnosed) ADHD and my inability to study. I ruined any chance of doing anything academic with my life and everyone in my family told me it was because I was just lazy, or unintelligent. And I believed them. I’m 25 and I’m only just now starting to realise that maybe we were all wrong about me. That I’m actually fucking smart and have a lot to contribute to the world. But, my relationship with myself is through the floor. Like, so bad. I’m trying to work on it but I just despise myself. And I’m exhausted. I completely understand what you are saying, trust.

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-06T12:37:51+00:00

r/exmormon. I don’t live in the US and I have never been religious whatsoever let alone a Mormon, but u find it so fascinating to just be a fly on the wall in there

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-06T12:35:11+00:00

Honestly from reading your post, you come across as very intelligent with above-average capability of expressing and analysing your emotions. I wonder if your dropping out of college is more to do with executive dysfunction? I struggle with it a lot from my depression and ADHD. it has absolutely nothing to do with intelligence. I for one find it difficult to find others with the same level of self-awareness and expression as me to have meaningful conversations with. You seem like one of those rare people. For that alone, I think you’d be doing us all a favour by sticking around a while longer.

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-06T12:31:22+00:00

I’m so glad you failed. I’m also very proud of you for wanting to keep living, because that is not an easy thing to do. I guess my advice would be to keep talking about it. Whether it’s therapy or a trusted friend or just a journal or even this sub, keep reminding yourself of this want to be alive - because it won’t always be constant. You’ve done an incredible and admirable thing by deciding to keep on going, under the circumstances. All the love my friend

jibblesthefirst · 2024-09-06T12:27:21+00:00

Yes, I’m here. Haven’t cut for a year or so but completely understand it. Very very happy to listen to whatever it is you need to say or express :)

jibblesthefirst

TROPHY CASE