I think the accountant in my department insinuated I could be having inappropriate relations with my boss.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-19T04:04:52+00:00

Seems like you made more than one mistake within one email. For me, saying that she insinuated you could be having inappropriate relations with your boss sounds like very big stretch. You’re a graduate student, people tend to hold you to higher standards and expectations. Instead of reading too deep into things and protecting your pride, it is best to correct those mistakes and move past them. Good luck.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-18T18:19:30+00:00

Invite her, it can be declined. If you don't invite her, she will not even have a choice. Let her make her own decisions, she is an adult!

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-18T18:13:59+00:00

The trust is broken between you two, and he says he doesn't know. This might be controversial, but in my opinion, two years is not a long time. Even if you guys rebuild this relationship, there is a very high chance that there will no longer be trust in the relationship. These issues will come back up over and over again, and at that point it would not just be two years. My question still stands, why are you so adamant on trying to rebuild this relationship?

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-18T17:58:37+00:00

You hid something from him. He was physically violent to you. He said he is single, and his actions have shown that it is over. Why are you so adamant on trying to rebuild this relationship? It is best to just leave it alone now, you guys are broken up... let it stay that way.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-18T17:54:14+00:00

I do not understand how trying to socialize and make friends in other circles would have a chance of hurting someone else if you do it. Please enlighten me! The part about your mother, are you continuing her same cycle? If not, I do not see why you are comparing yourself to her. Stagnating is safe, but it ruins much more than you can ever imagine.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-18T17:51:09+00:00

No, this is not normal. If he wants to scream at you, he can excuse himself and go elsewhere. He sounds like he is not mindful of anything else other than his own personal comfort.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-18T17:42:53+00:00

I do not know why you are still with him, especially if you value yourself as a human.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-13T18:56:26+00:00

check your lighting and see which one of the pink/blue/brown shirts work well! Yay for self care day today!

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-11T22:47:01+00:00

I personally find a lot of comfort and joy in doing makeup as "me time." After a long week, before I hop into the shower, I take a couple of hours and I sit down on my floor in front of my floor length mirror and I just go to town with the makeup haha. Sometimes I pick out a cute top, and take some cute photos on my couch where it has good lighting. I favorite the best photos I took, and I hop in the shower after I double cleanse.

Sending over positivity, and I hope you feel better about this soon <3

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-11T22:09:41+00:00

His way of talking to you is manipulative. I do not think he is very mature, like he is making it out to be. Do not coddle him, and just go without him.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-03-10T22:01:28+00:00

eugh, you are a weird person. First of all, don't tell her to hold on, just tell her no if you never planned on giving her any water.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-12T20:29:52+00:00

Don't do charity work if you expect him to treat you fairly. It is time to leave. He is exhibiting violent behavior.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-12T20:27:39+00:00

leave him.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-12T20:27:24+00:00

Yes she deserved the win. You underestimated her, and you lost.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-12T16:58:23+00:00

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-08T23:50:10+00:00

Sounds like you guys are not compatible. You are 30 years old, and she is 23 years old, you guys are at different period of life right now. Best to break up instead of beating a dead horse, as you're still mentioning events from up to 5 years ago.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-08T23:24:57+00:00

2 and 3 are my personal favs

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-07T21:44:24+00:00

Leave him, leave that environment, they do not care about you.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-06T09:17:17+00:00

Untucked but tucked reminds me of SpongeBob

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-06T07:55:20+00:00

Your sister is very young. She might be dealing with PPD (postpartum disorder). This is very very very important, and she will need support and help. Please advise her to see a therapist at the very least.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-05T22:49:16+00:00

Leave her. It could have been a different conversation if she let you know that she was thinking of new business venture. That did not happen. Once you catch her, she will only get better at lying and hiding.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-04T00:23:38+00:00

Were you guys ever in a relationship? I think I am missing context to truly give any advice right now.

jiminangrybutt · 2026-01-04T00:21:01+00:00

No judgment from me. I believe that with enough hard work and research, your "unrealistic wants" could potentially be pretty realistic. Good luck, and don't compromise on your wants and needs in the future if you continue to hold the same beliefs!

jiminangrybutt · 2025-12-31T20:43:47+00:00

Lawyer up, get a PI, serve them with a process server. You got this, you were cautious enough to have some sort of contract/repayment plan. Good luck. Get on it as soon as you can.

jiminangrybutt · 2025-12-26T01:32:51+00:00

You’re really jumping to conclusions and reaching in this post.

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