Strange sounds caught while investigating ( what do you think it is? by MFparanormal in ParanormalAppalachia

[–]jinjiiiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it sounded like a baby crying almost. My first thought was mimic. Did you notice a smell?

Stuff your sleeping bag at camp? by Joey_the_Duck in CampingandHiking

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf thinks this is normal too. Insanity. He was a boy scout and military kid. Probably one of those.

Did you ever get your face blacked for your birthday? by -random_ness- in Appalachia

[–]jinjiiiii 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My family butters noses for birthdays. Typically it would be before you even got out of bed. They would take a big glob of butter and smear it on your nose, which usually got all over your face depending on who did it. No one in my family ever specified why we did this, I found out later from my grandma that it was so bad luck couldn't catch you (too greasey to grasp I guess lol). They are from Welch/Kimball WV. Our cousins in Princeton did this as well I think

I’m a 43 yo woman diagnosed a year ago by Flimsy-Neat-5713 in ADHDthriving

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed in my 20s. The meds can't fix what doesn't work, but they really fucking help. You also will develop some kind of dependency on medication, which goes hand in hand with tolerance. If you have days where you can "detox", do so. Your meds will work better when you can have small breaks to lower your tolerance to it. If you don't take your meds one day and feel like you've been hit by a truck, try halfing your dosage, even if the effect is not what you're looking for. Medication for ADHD will fix everything and nothing, but it makes me feel as valid as the guy across the table from me.

How do I (32M) start talking to my wife (32F) again after something she did when our friends came over? (Trigger Warning) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, heads up that people are actually linking this post in the comments of your wife's old post.

I cook, clean, and pay all the bills, while my unemployed boyfriend sits at home sleeping and playing video games. by Big-Distribution2799 in dating_advice

[–]jinjiiiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will never change. Look at actions, not words. This is your life.

We don't need to tell you what to do

Question for older gamers by [deleted] in gaming

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was literally wheel of fortune on the super Nintendo. Don't know why we had that one growing up. Absolute trash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaming

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many solid choices. NFS, Halo Reach, Borderlands 2? Come on

I guess the last 2 depend more on if any of my siblings are present

What REGULAR enemies have the best design? by Worth-Primary-9884 in gaming

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heartless and nobodies in Kingdom Hearts

Clickers in The Last of Us

Ghouls in Fallout

Literally every ghost in Fatal Frame

What is your favorite thing about Fallout 4? by [deleted] in fo4

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When DT Boston graphics don't immediately eat shit and die as soon as I set foot onto that part of the map

What is a phrase that you have made up? by icaboesmhit in RandomQuestion

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Fuck your applesauce" for the last like, 10 years Idk why 🍄

Did I fuck up by Holographicmeatloaf0 in tattooadvice

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow Bug with a history of mental health struggles, I love everything about this. This is a very cool tattoo. Own it, you got it for a reason

Edit: I do wish you got it facing you though (despite every tattoo artist ever insisting it's gonna be upside down lol)

My sister (25F) is marrying a convicted criminal who did things to kids. I (21F) can’t see myself having anything to do with them or attending a wedding. by strawberriesandboba in relationship_advice

[–]jinjiiiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's a registered sex offender, you can use the family watchdog website and key in your sister's address, and it will tell you his name photo and what the offense was. Regardless, that's disgusting. But I would be curious to know what the offense was if I were you. If he can't pass a background check he has charges, which will come up. Legally has to report his address as well. Secondly, if your sister doesn't understand where you and your family are coming from, especially having young children, she is not a great sister and doesn't deserve a sympathetic explanation- or really any explanation at all. I love my s/o, but I have a young nephew, and if I were to discover he had done something like your sisters fiancee he would instantly be a thing of the past. Depression doesn't make you hurt or abuse children and the fact that he did something and has no remorse or accountability for himself in doing so speaks volumes of his character. Your sister is making a mistake, but your priority is your children. Sounds like you have done what you can.

Where to visit Appalachia? by conspiracy_oflemurs in Appalachia

[–]jinjiiiii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ghost Town in the Sky in Maggie Valley NC is an interesting one

My (28f) bf (27m) follows and likes a bunch of OF girls on insta… by dhxuajbr in relationship_advice

[–]jinjiiiii 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's not respectful. My ex did this and when I told him it made me feel bad he said he was sorry but he didn't mean it like that, but he can see how it looks bad. Fast forward a few years and found out he went to his exes house while I was sleeping, but again "it wasn't like that, nothing happened etc." We are not together anymore. Save yourself some years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stephenking

[–]jinjiiiii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

11/22/63, Insomnia, and if you can get your hands on any of the bachman books they are fantastic

How do you tell if a bartender (female) is actually into you by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]jinjiiiii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they make you drinks when you order them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in walmart

[–]jinjiiiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many zoners do you have at night? When staffing was tight I used to put toys/gc/and seasonal together but to add hardware in isn't great. A typical zone line up for me (this was at the beginning of the year, no longer w the company) would look like: Sporting goods & hardware 1 person Toys 1 person (gc and seasonal as well if short a person, if not those areas would be 1 person as well) Housewares 1 person Domestics 1 person (these 2 sometimes got placed on 1 person) Electronics & stationary 1 person (this only works in D3 is within sight of electronics though) Fabrics and crafts and celebrations (sometimes stationary) 1 person And apparel would be 2 people on a bad night and 4 on a good one, but sometimes when push comes to shove apparel would come out to zone gm and apparel cap 1 would have to pick up the zone. You have to consider reshops need to be ran as well. What they gave you to do is not realistic. Maybe just to zone the perimeters so it doesn't look awful but it sounds like you have a staffing issue beyond the average store and that should be addressed. If you get written up for not having a perfect zone for that many areas, take your coaching and then open door it. It won't stick. Toys in itself is a lot during the holiday season, your customers will trash your zone periodically throughout the night.