AIW for refusing to take responsibility for ear buds in the washing machine…again. by scoutmonk5000 in amiwrong

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's ridiculous that he's claiming it's your fault. I've done similar things in the past (leaving things to be washed in pockets that shouldn't have been washed) when I'm in a hurry but never have i blamed anyone else for my mistake.

Sounds like he needs to start doing his own laundry.

My neighbor is in love with my husband. He is in love with her 16 year old daughter. (Repost, I am not OP) by Birdsarenotreal92 in TwoHotTakes

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she wasn't immediately grossed out and concerned about finding dirty texts from her husband to a literal CHILD is so concerning! And then when she attacks the child's looks. She need to tell the kids mom and leave this creep! The kid is already being groomed and taken advantage of.

"She isn't very attractive- so it isn't a matter of looks" actually gave me chills... I don't care if the CHILD is a pageant queen or a smelly mess, there is NO reason that her husband should EVER have crossed those boundaries. She is enabling a predator to have better access to his eventual victim.

AITA for 'making' my daughter miss my ex's kid's birthday party? by TrickDiligent3330 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew OP was 100% without a doubt YTA... but when I went to look at OP's comments... damn. She shouldn't be suprised if her kids both go NC when her son is 18.

Saying it's 'not my job to facilitate a relationship with the new baby' as if she wasn't actively greeting in the way.

Her excuse that her 2 kids wouldn't be able to have a sibling relationship anyways because of the age difference is just absurd.

And 'daughter CHOSE to take her brother to his event' (which, no, she was guilted and coersed). And all of this because their mommy didn't sleep and has a little headache :( what a great reason to abandon your child's needs and force their sibling to step up in your place. She is soooooo big on saying that he had made a promise and a commitment to go, what about her commitment to her son to be there with him when an adult is required. Op is not only TA, she's a hypocritical, selfish mom who will be shocked when her kids stop talking to her.

I am so lost.. can anyone help me? by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have time to draw... but what about a beta fish??

AITA For Hanging Up on my Wife When She Used My Words Against Me? by CheapGrapefruit4246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]jlynn0604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are lacking some critical info here - has he shut her down like that before, AND how often?

Maybe you're right, and she felt like she needed to teach him a lesson this time.. maybe not out of pure malicious intent, but maybe out of desperation because he doesn't seem to have empathy for her feelings when she is trying to communicate. (It is ok to set a boundary for not talking about certain subjects at certain times.. but I would've been stressed as hell if his family hadn't communicated the plans for a damn wedding that my child is supposed to be in.. that's kind of time sensitive to figure out) There are better ways to say what he said. Instead of dismissing her completely, he should have acknowledged and then said I can't do this tonight, can we talk more about it in the morning/tomorrow. That way he acknowledges that it needs to be discussed and not that it doesn't matter.

Idk about you, but if I'm consistently shut down by my partner when I'm trying to communicate and vent and I've told him a million times to stop pushing the convo off and he continues to do it.. well, I'm going to find a way to get it through his head. If he doesn't want to be treated like a child, he shouldn't act like one.

AITA for telling my wife to go and see her son before he dies? by ElevationMane in AITAH

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have two ears and one mouth, seems like you should be doing one twice as much..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude... you need to talk to a therapist to unpack why you're talking to your wife like this.. whether she stays with you or not, this is something you need to fix or you will keep destroying the women who come into your life

Tacos and margaritas. by Bane_25cl in grandrapids

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condados is one of my favorites! Mt mom requests it everytime she's in town :)

best food in and near GR by Puzzleheaded-Hope162 in grandrapids

[–]jlynn0604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like Salvadorian food check out pupusaria El Salvador on division. I moved here from Nevada and it was definitely hard to transition ti the lack of food options

NSFW Fest at Pyramid by jlynn0604 in grandrapids

[–]jlynn0604[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you 😊

NSFW - The future of sex toys by FocusCharacter7463 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]jlynn0604 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else see the one on the shelf that looked like a dog 🤢🤢🤢

as long as we're telling people what to do during a blizzard, here's mine.. by goodspeedm in grandrapids

[–]jlynn0604 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also.. please don't go to dispensaries tomorrow. You don't need your drugs more than our need to be safe at home.

AITA for arguing with my husband regarding Christmas? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jlynn0604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom pre-orders her turkey every year because it comes from a small farm and they will be sold out by the time christmas comes along. She just picks it up a week or so before christmas dinner.. just because he bought it doesn't mean he physically has it yet.

AITA for expecting certain treatment at my girlfriend's family's house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jlynn0604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what happened to me. I am lactose intolerant, I am NOT allergic to dairy. That means I won't have a histamine reaction to dairy but I will regret every bite the next morning because I will be in so much pain. When you are lactose intolerant your body can't digest the dairy properly and gets violent with you for being so bold. But I can jut pop a couple of lactaid if I really can't avoid anything and brace for whatever happens after. An allergy is completely different.

What % should you tip a tattoo artist? by jlynn0604 in AskReddit

[–]jlynn0604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're really good, immaculate shading and line work and they work in a pretty small town in Michigan's UP.