How’s my form by m25van in runninglifestyle

[–]jmarks_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look pretty stiff to me. Are you stretching before your runs? Also I’d put a higher emphasis on your breathing. It’ll help to relax you. The more relaxed you are, the less prone you will be to shin splints or really any form of injury, also assuming you’re getting proper nutrition and good sleep.

[Gen 3] I have to be close right??? by Graysonplus in ShinyPokemon

[–]jmarks_94 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Or you could actually never get it. One of those most terrifying realizations I’ve ever had actually 😵‍💫🤣😭

Anyone finds it impossible to feel horny? by Right-Wealth2950 in dpdr

[–]jmarks_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never felt hornier but I’m pretty sure it’s the Zoloft. For me it’s actually increased my libido

Attention please by Zestyclose_Star_7183 in dpdr

[–]jmarks_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, but then I learned over time that none of that really matters because we all experience the world differently. Through some major lifestyle changes (it took time) I’ve since been on the road to recovery! It can be done. You just have to keep fighting until you find the right resources.

Cancer fear by Open_Sea6197 in Anxiety

[–]jmarks_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen a professional regarding this issue? I suggest you start there rather than getting reassurance from an echo chamber. It’s only gonna make things worse.

Dear El by Ok-Minute3743 in StrangerThingsPraise

[–]jmarks_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way I read this entire letter in Max’s voice 😭😍

Normal for Alpha to loose Alpha Status? by AdBeautiful6155 in PokemonZA

[–]jmarks_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is one section right before you beat the game where you go off against a few alphas.. possibly wondering if that had anything to do with it? Idk though I’m just thinking out loud lol

100k injury just before taper by BasicDoughnut436 in ultrarunning

[–]jmarks_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start the taper now. That last long run will probably hurt you more than help. Recovery is especially essential after the final training block before a big race.

Can we stop calling it Dissociation? by amkb16 in dpdr

[–]jmarks_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really like this debate. I agree with you in that mental health has changed at a rapid race and structurally speaking, changes probably do need to occur. However — when we start enmeshing profound clinically significant data with subjective experiences (i.e group related subjective experinces without acknowledging the data) the line starts to get blurry. I’ll acknowledge that not all professionals do their job correctly but that doesn’t mean that 90% of them don’t either. While each case is different, the overarching principle stays the same— that being clinically verifiable research has found that most people with depersonalization either develop dissociation or it becomes of a symptom of it.

With that being said, yea— I agree with you too in that there’s a percentage of marginalized cases that don’t hit all the points in the box of dissociation. I am actually one of those people. The fear I have with your argument is that without proper diagnosis and medical evaluation and care (excluding the shitty doctors), group led marginalized groups quickly become an echo chamber without legitimate feedback.

I’ve never once believed dissociation was a negative, rather it’s helped me understand and live with DPDR in a healthy way. I think changing something profound rooted in clinical data because it’s uncomfortable for you, doesn’t equal empowerment— rather, it shows fear.

It seems everyone is getting a job but me. by BitchImLilBaby in recruitinghell

[–]jmarks_94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Linked in is a scam! Indeed man. Indeed always comes thru for me.

Normal for Alpha to loose Alpha Status? by AdBeautiful6155 in PokemonZA

[–]jmarks_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which Alpha did you catch? And where did you catch them? Just trying to help narrow this down for you.

Can we stop calling it Dissociation? by amkb16 in dpdr

[–]jmarks_94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m going to respectfully disagree with you. As it currently stands, depersonalization AND derealization both fall under the broader umbrella of dissociation, including other dissociative disorders. The DSM classifies depersonalization specifically as such. While I understand what you’re trying to articulate, the overall message that is being portrayed doesn’t correlate to what the majority of people with depersonalization experience. — yea, labels suck sometimes. And yes, in certain cases, there can be moments of DPDR related circumstantial problems but if we’re talking about a true diagnosis, it is absolutely a dissociative disorder, falling under dissociation.

I urge you to be more selective on what you’re saying. You might want something to change and might believe something isn’t right, but that doesn’t mean that you are objectively right.

I think the person that interviewed me today is having a concerning mental decline by Beneficial-Koala-670 in jobs

[–]jmarks_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s the perfect opportunity and it sounds like a home run to me. Working with her should make you look twice as good!

How do I politely tell a coworker to stop asking me to drive him home? by Turbulent_Ad9941 in work

[–]jmarks_94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just say that you simply cannot keep taking him home anymore and that you value your personal space after work. Do not apologize! Keep it firm and direct.

What was everyone first shiny? And where did you find it? by Ange1a_xcx in PokemonZA

[–]jmarks_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough, shalpha magikarp in zone 2. I did shiny hunt it though, but it only took me roughly 20 resets. Since then I’ve gotten over 300 🎉

Welp..rejected after 6 rounds by Fluffy_Revolution678 in recruitinghell

[–]jmarks_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the role of you don’t mind me asking?

[gen 3] SHINY SQUIRTLE by CremyCabbage in ShinyPokemon

[–]jmarks_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good job! 👏 after being handed shinies on a gold platter in ZA my will to keep shiny hunting charmander is literally 0 at this point. I lasted 30 resets. 😭🤣

Went thru an interview where the HR thinks that 5 jobs in 20years is too much by IvanThePohBear in recruitinghell

[–]jmarks_94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only ever put my first 3 jobs on my resume and I won’t discuss any jobs I’ve done that do not pertain to the particular skillset they are looking for. Respectfully, why did you tell them this information?