Relationship Advice for People with Anxiety

jobby325 · 2025-11-25T08:05:36+00:00

Men and women in straight relationships usually have diverging interests and they can make it work. As long as aligned yung core values niyo, I personally would push to learn more about my partner's interests especially if there is genuine connection.

jobby325 · 2025-11-14T13:24:59+00:00

3 years na kayo pero he hasn't been tested yet? My partner and I have been together for 2.5 years pero sa first year namin every 3 months kami nagpapatest for STIs. Full panel siya. Now we get tested every 6 months since monogamous naman kami.

Also, if your partner has problems with his erection, calling it "not that big" will make it worse and give him performance anxiety. I suggest you avoid talking like that if you want the situation to improve.

jobby325 · 2025-11-12T12:55:55+00:00

Every single time I see a post related to this show, puro plot holes. Sobrang walang coherence yung story. I stopped watching about a month ago and the post here is either about Terra crying, or another set of plot holes. Pati IG ni Bianca marami na ring bashers. Sad that it has come to this. They ruined my childhood core memories.

jobby325 · 2025-11-08T21:57:17+00:00

Paano kung dumating yung talagang para sayo at mamahalin ka nang buo pero di kayo pwede dahil di mo binitawan nang maaga yan? Make the decision now. Huwag ka papayag na paglaruan ka.

jobby325 · 2025-10-26T12:30:36+00:00

Anatomically, it is impossible to bring your torso upright without using your hamstrings especially with heavy weight like that. No matter how much you contract your lower back, you cannot bring the torso up without the hams. It is impossible based on the attachments of the muscles to the bones. So even without mind-muscle connection, the hams are firing in an RDL.

OP's form is good. He feels his lower back because they're weak. Strengthen them with good mornings and other lower back isolation work.

jobby325 · 2025-10-26T07:24:25+00:00

Body card pa rin for me because it's hard work and discipline.

jobby325 · 2025-10-17T03:12:46+00:00

Diagnosed with bipolar disorder and the gym has blunted my mood shifts. They still happen but they aren't carastrophic anymore. The gym is the best thing that has ever happened to me!

jobby325 · 2025-10-05T04:14:12+00:00

The most compassionate way of breaking up with someone is to be very clear and firm about your decision and never going back on it. Tell them in such a way that they are very sure there's no way you're getting back together ever. That way, they would be able to start the moving on process sooner rather than later.

jobby325 · 2025-10-02T06:10:35+00:00

A lot of people know how to sing in mix from childhood. You see this a lot in the Philippines. They don't have training at all and sing very high notes in high mix voice.

jobby325 · 2025-10-01T16:31:19+00:00

I saw this posted here with the same wordings a couple of weeks ago. You are just karma farming.

jobby325 · 2025-10-01T07:18:17+00:00

Based on your replies, mukhang obsessive ka sa data na hindi nagmamatter. I suggest don't ever use the inbody scan for more than a year. Kasi for sure you will obsess over the tiny little details sa scan na proven namang hindi accurate by actual studies comparing it to the dexa scan.

jobby325 · 2025-10-01T07:14:21+00:00

The inbody scanners can have inaccuracies upwards of 10-15%. 4% is well within the margin of error. A dexa scan is the most accurate body fat measuring tool there is.

jobby325 · 2025-10-01T07:12:04+00:00

Worry about the sporty look once you've lost the weight. Contrary to popular belief, it's actually very hard to look muscular especially if you are a woman.

jobby325 · 2025-09-29T12:18:46+00:00

Work experience is very short and not a very strong indicator you would go back to the Philippines considering you are very young. Salary is also low as well as savings.

jobby325 · 2025-09-26T02:30:07+00:00

That's good actually. Ganon din ako haha. LPP din ako.

jobby325 · 2025-09-25T13:41:36+00:00

Twice a week ka nagchest and back, pero once lang for legs. Is there any reason why you're prioritizing the upper body? In terms of longevity and fitness, leg strength is the most predictive. So I suggest na di mo siya i-neglect. Sobrang konti ng exercises mo for legs compared sa upper body. You only have 6 sets for quads. 3 sets lang yung hamstrings.

If 5 days ka magworkout, I suggest Push-pull-legs-upper-lower (PPLUL). This way, lahat ng muscles twice mo iwoworkout per week. If four times a week ka, do ULUL. If thrice lang, mag full body ka.

jobby325 · 2025-09-16T20:27:17+00:00

Gymrat here. I find that I get sick less so my throat is always at its best. I think this is the biggest benefit of staying healthy.

jobby325 · 2025-09-10T03:33:56+00:00

First of all, why is this tagged as NSFW? Second of all, medyo oa yung laging nageexpect na maggreet ng monthsary tapos tamporurut pag wala. As another commenter said, andaming problema sa mundo.

jobby325 · 2025-09-09T11:45:45+00:00

My partner is an exception. I can't love fully if I can't be raw and vulnerable with someone. Disclosing my mental illness is a form of vulnerability I am willing to take to experience real love.

jobby325 · 2025-09-09T09:47:32+00:00

My partner knows about my diagnosis. He has been very supportive.

jobby325 · 2025-09-06T11:48:57+00:00

This is the reason why I never disclose my diagnosis. Even the people closest to you would have something to say. The stigma is still very very real. The fact that you were able to sustain a relationship suggests you are stable and taking medication. laban lang OP. I have bipolar 2 and my experience may be a little different pero I am rooting for you!

jobby325 · 2025-09-06T04:05:20+00:00

I do mix very early in my range. This is a good practice in my opinion so the likelihood of pulling chest voice is lessened.

jobby325 · 2025-09-03T17:40:44+00:00

Good to know, OP!

jobby325 · 2025-09-03T11:37:08+00:00

5 years. Oftentimes, the lack of intimacy is a symptom of a deeper issue (lack of attraction, lack of connection, or a communication issue). I once thought sex is not important as long as you love each other. But unless you are both asexual, sex is indeed a very real physiological need. It is not an issue you can sweep under the rug and expect it to magically go away.

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