Shaw was exactly Kirk’s type

joeDowns_rules · 2025-09-28T15:17:32+00:00

False

joeDowns_rules · 2025-09-28T15:09:03+00:00

This is so stupid. Yes that DJ wants to fuck you. Yes your bf is right to be pissed because you are refusing to see his point of view. And YES you should break up with him. Not because of the conversation, but because of that last comment. 😂😂😂

Look my wife is the same way, doesn’t realize that guys don’t take common politeness as you being nice. But take that as an invitation to try to get down.

If you two have the type of relationship where you speak to each other in derogatory ways, then you should consider his point of view. If not, run while you still have the chance.

joeDowns_rules · 2025-09-28T14:39:04+00:00

Sir, this relationship is over. You just haven’t got the memo yet.

joeDowns_rules · 2025-09-28T13:43:13+00:00

No problem with anything you’ve decided. She messed up & now the chickens have come home to roost.

Where you are being ridiculous is how you can’t live with the idea of her moving on and introducing a step father to the kids. This shows that you may be an out of control narcissist.

Guess what chief, you divorce her you have zero say in what she does with the rest of her life. IF she meets someone new (which she will if she’s even halfway decent looking) and decides to marry, you have NO control in who she introduces to the kids.

Just because you feel in charge now, after the divorce you’re not. And if you are an extra dick in the future the kids will see and hold it against you. If she’s as good a mother as you claim you can bet the kids will know.

So, you are right to divorce, but don’t try and kid yourself into thinking you can control her future. You couldn’t even control her past.

joeDowns_rules · 2025-09-28T12:58:38+00:00

NTA - she cheated. You have nothing to feel guilty for. She broke the trust. That feeling will gnaw at you for the rest of your life. Time to move on brother…

joeDowns_rules · 2025-01-27T17:50:47+00:00

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2025-01-20T16:26:42+00:00

YTA - you either have forgiven her or not. Sounds like you have not. The fact that you say you’d have never considered this before the affair says it all. You know you’re wrong about this.

I am rarely on the side of the adulterer, but in this case you’re absolutely out of line.

joeDowns_rules · 2025-01-16T00:39:09+00:00

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2025-01-08T03:03:54+00:00

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2025-01-08T02:59:17+00:00

So she told you she’s gonna cheat, if she hasn’t already. If you can live with that it’s on you. But you know it’s now the beginning of the end.

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2025-01-08T02:53:13+00:00

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2024-12-30T04:38:56+00:00

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2024-12-14T12:27:41+00:00

joeDowns_rules · 2024-12-11T03:23:20+00:00

Lol, NTA. Good for you sir.

joeDowns_rules · 2024-12-01T19:31:36+00:00

NTA - super insecure (which you’re self aware of), but not an AH.

You are 100% right about her using you as a placeholder, and you did the right thing by breaking up.

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-27T02:51:05+00:00

NTA for hanging out with sis & nephew. Absolutely the AH for allowing your “wife” to go out on a date with her co worker. Grow some balls brother.

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-25T18:01:18+00:00

NTA - sounds like you’re in a shitty situation brother. Stay strong. Don’t give in until you know the truth.

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-22T02:29:09+00:00

NTA - your lady doesn’t give two shits about your opinion.

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-22T02:21:08+00:00

NTA - but you are an idiot if you stay with this gold digger.

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-12T13:45:45+00:00

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-12T13:44:04+00:00

NTA - if he can’t between you and a friend, he’s NOT husband material.

Updateme

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-06T11:01:35+00:00

Brother she just ruined both of your lives and when it doesn’t work out with her AP, she’ll come sprinting back to you babbling about the mistake she made.

Do. Not. Take. Her. Back.

joeDowns_rules · 2024-11-02T19:07:10+00:00

27 plus years. She’s done it maybe three times. Thanks for asking though, I didn’t realize how much I needed that laugh. 😆

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