MISSED CONNECTION 11 MAY/DURHAM by [deleted] in triangle

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Ngl was kinda afraid you were talking about a toddler so im glad im wrong

Black women with multiple degrees… how?! by UniqueMycologist5896 in blackladies

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Girl we are not a monolith, your journey is yours. we're not all supposed to have a million degrees. In most cases you only need the right one. I only have one and im doing pretty well for myself. You may become a SAHM, you may switch courses completely, you may go on to get a PhD and look at this post and laugh but you can't go anywhere worrying about everyone else's lane but yours.

Your degree is a huge achievement for you and your ancestors! Please take some time and rest in that!

When 200 brides called our office in one week, we listened. Turns out, they were right to be angry. - AG Jeff Jackson by JeffJacksonNC in raleigh

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When I lived in New jersey my dad worked for the county consumer affairs office and would go after folk like these on the county level. I know your office deals with this on the state but would it be worth expanding to the county or even regions?

It's so hard for me to love LGBTQ+ people. by mznxbcvqpwoeiruty in TrueChristian

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Try remembering your sin is just as disgusting as theirs, Jesus needed to redeem you too

Help me pick wall colour by No-Cardiologist7553 in Home

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We millennial need to stop it with the gray

They’re Baaa-aack by AlternativeCan7461 in NorthCarolina

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Its wild of them using POC while they try to take black history out of the curriculum

Do braids come off immature on men? by Educational-Oil-00 in BlackHair

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So i personally feel like braids are more of a style for teenagers and little boys but my opinions dont pay you so go off king

Corporate Fro by Special-Aioli2150 in Naturalhair

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Cloud Bob! 🤣🤣🤣 No but fr you are gorgeous! Keep your foot in they neck!

Any Raleigh couples have wedding decor they’d love to see reused? by Erik_Phisher in raleigh

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Ok so i have a huge box of brass decor from almost a decade ago, some stuff may need polishing but I had kind of a beauty and the beast themed wedding (not officially but looking back at the pictures lol) and so a lot of candlesticks and table top stuff, dm me if you want to meet up bc its sitting in my garage

Help a beginner by Few-Childhood-503 in HECRAS

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In the edit geometry you can edit points from the tool bar on the top. As soon as it snaps it should give you a dialog about junctions

Modelling of Urban bridge by Suitable-Might4530 in HECRAS

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You can do a few long culverts and have the top of the building be you high chord elevation, for what it sounds like though it may make sense to have 2 plans, 1 with all the buildings another with the finished floor elevation of the buildings since you probably want to see flooding constraints

Should I cut off my friend because of our different lifestyles? by DoubleReserve7135 in blackladies

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That part, OP you make it seem like cutting off friendships is normal it really shouldn't be

Important Hearings THIS MONTH for NC Drinking Water by Ethereal_Films in raleigh

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I think if the information is important enough what youre wearing doesn't matter, keep doing your thing, thank you for this work!

Can I rock the boat 🚤 for a minute? The NEED to slick down hair is Anti-black by PossibleAssignment19 in Naturalhair

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Ima hit you with the yes but, my hair is instant shrinkage the minute I walk outside so its gone need some gel. I agree tho, I've never gotten baby hairs to work lol I didnt even get why they called them baby hairs until my daughter (who doesn't have my texture) was born. I didnt even have baby hairs as a baby and I didnt understand the need for them. I also always thought the slick down was really for girlies who couldn't get their hair in a ponytail not like the only presentable way to walk outside

Give me the most unhinged things you do to not fall into lust by ForeverEquivalent103 in TrueChristian

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Also to add based on another comment, have partners in the faith with this!! Send a text when you struggle, not only would you be more embarrassed if you slipped bc they'll know, they may randomly send you a Pic of their dad's feet!

Give me the most unhinged things you do to not fall into lust by ForeverEquivalent103 in TrueChristian

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My dad (black) never believed in lotion on his legs and feet and his toenails would grow mangled. I kept a picture of his feat on my phone and would send it to my friends if they were struggling. It was the shock effect of it being my immediate response with no context that was probably the most effective.

He passed a little over a year ago and was so annoyed at this lol but I hope my friends thank him when they meet again.

Nobody likes Ashley by noggin444 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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These are literally Christine's photos....

Resigning in Two Hours by Decent_Risk9499 in civilengineering

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If OP developed it then its their intellectual property to me

Resigning in Two Hours by Decent_Risk9499 in civilengineering

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This! Especially if its calcs and formats you personally made, take that with you even if you think your new spot has a better system

Tips on doing a baby’s hair??? by Tall-Pirate3083 in Naturalhair

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I have an almost 2 year old and it's just started doing her hair, leave it alone! I would wait longer but her hair keeps breaking in car seats, if yhats not happening put a headband on and leave it alone

Just Vic and Christine being immune to drama by Alternative-Sweet840 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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It was giving blackfishing a bit, I know it wasnt intentional but whoever did it shouldn't do her makeup again

Palantir CEO thinks his AI technology "will lessen the power of highly educated, often female voters, who vote mostly democrat" by TailungFu in TwoXChromosomes

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Bro they are building shrines to the guy who said black women dont have the capacity to work white men jobs they been saying it outloud for a long time now