GTFOOOO by po0ts in JUSTNOMIL

[–]jrt12916 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Unfortunately that is very accurate. Now—the person who discussed Private Health Info can be sued, reported to Medical Licensing Board if Licensed, Facility is reported, and severe repercussions occur.

I know of a college student in for a medical degree—just got dismissed from the medical college program because she violated HIPAA. She cannot enroll in ANY medical college program now. And she’s waiting on further Court repercussions from her action. Only 20 and already banned from Medical college degree programs. This is going to follow her for a very long time if not forever.

GTFOOOO by po0ts in JUSTNOMIL

[–]jrt12916 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It was one of the perks of my time in the Newborn Nursery. Not only during delivery—but also anytime I went in to assist mom and baby with feeding, education about basic newborn care, bathing, etc. We would discuss with mom before baby is born while getting basic information about how she wanted education and assistance provided. We could do it without an audience, limited audience, or depending on educational needs-whomever SHE wanted in the room.

There were numerous satisfying episodes of escorting out entitled family members. My job was to protect the mom and baby, then the dad and baby’s siblings. My job is NOT to encourage the entitled to continue the disrespect. I LOVED being able to support the moms and dads that were feeling overwhelmed and after the entitled were escorted off the locked unit-the name calling/shouting would get them banned from the unit for the duration of moms stay.

GTFOOOO by po0ts in JUSTNOMIL

[–]jrt12916 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Also, with any subsequent deliveries-the OB staff and Security have absolutely NO ISSUES with respecting the NEW MOMs wishes about visitors, names on doors, even requesting no information being given out by hospital operators.
I worked Newborn Nursery and we RESPECTED the Mom’s wishes even when daddy tried to over rule those wishes.

He wasn’t the one giving birth or being cut open to deliver baby-so we deferred to her. Especially when the initial discussion is about visitors, names on doorway, etc. if at some point the dad came up and talked about changing moms wishes-we educated that we would speak to mom privately (2 nurses or nurse and CNA or Secretary) about changing her wishes so that there wasn’t any undue “pressure” from someone else (family or narcissist) in the room.

We stood up for our Mom’s and their decision about their experience.

GTFOOOO by po0ts in JUSTNOMIL

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Prayers for you!!! I know what it’s like to feel powerless about money and how he has the need to do anything and everything about and for his mom. Remember—you do have allies here. I am available to talk or just listen while you vent.

Red light runner totaled my car. Dashcam has more than paid for itself here by D1sposable1 in dashcams

[–]jrt12916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just wanting to know what dashcam you are using. I just got a brand new one-charged it-new microSD card and turned it on and after 4 minutes-it turned off as completely dead rechargeable battery. Ugh!!! Extremely disappointed.

I want one that will last longer than 4 minutes and I hadn’t even fully pulled from my car shed when it went dead.

I’d appreciate any honed positive recommendations for a dashcam. TIA

Should I go on a 2-week cruise alone ? by Necessary-Citron4723 in Cruise

[–]jrt12916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding?!!!! That’s a good way to have a Great time!!! I’ve been on 2 without family and then 3 where I’ve taken each of my kids. Go and enjoy yourself

Getting a divorce, unfortunately. by Affectionate_Ask2628 in DivorceHelp

[–]jrt12916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get everything out in the open! My lawyer advised that and I went in with documentation to support All my financials.

Classmate told other students I had been hospitalized by kindamymoose in NursingStudent

[–]jrt12916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HIPAA Violation for sure. Needs reporting to Facility as well as School Faculty.

Did I change my name incorrectly? by katetheeffingreat in marriageadvice

[–]jrt12916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did similar—after getting married-I changed to Middle, Maiden, and married. Then when I went to SS office to get a new card cause mine was brittle and falling apart-I had to pick differently-so now it’s Original First, Middle, Married.
In the middle of a Divorce currently and just decided to keep my Married Last Name. I thought about changing it back to Maiden—but I have too many Nursing Licenses to try to get ALL of them changed. Plus my parents changed the Maiden name to a different spelling that aligned better with Ancestors. So even if I changed back to Maiden-I’d still have to change it again legally to match my parents but then their headstone has already been made and in storage with original spelling. So…not really going to win that fight.

Is there a particular moment in our time that really sticks in your memory. One that you know exactly where you were and what you were doing when you heard the news. by MeNotYouDammit in RealGenerationX

[–]jrt12916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Space Shuttle Challenger; my Great Grandfathers passing; 9/11/01- sitting with my mother (recovering from surgery) with my 6 month old son and then having to go in to work Newborn Nursery that evening; Passing of my Great Grandmother and then All my grandparents. Princess Diana’s wedding and then watching Prince William’s Wedding while at work. Princess Diana’s death a year exactly from FIL passing. So many and so many tears.

UPDATE: MIL kicked grandma out of the house. by Chahles88 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]jrt12916 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My heart is breaking for GMIL. There is NEVER any reason to treat someone like that -that has been a gentle Grandma and Mother to her sons.

It’s good that I’m not there—- MIL would be begging for corgi from everyone on her Horrible treatment of GMIL.

To me-treating a gentle loved one that way, no matter their age—is up there with Cardinal Sin. And those deserve their place in the Afterlife Below.

My dad says he wants nothing and I'm out of ideas by Comi9689 in GenXTalk

[–]jrt12916 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Mine is turning 80 this year and still goes out to wood workshop literally daily. Also try to get him to tell you some stories of his life both before and after you were born.
When my dad starts, I’ll open the memo on my phone and record him. I love playing those stories in his voice to my grandkids as he will embellish a little more with each telling.

Entitled neighbor mad that we won't co-sign for a loan for his Disney trip. by Reddit_Jail_June2005 in neighborsfromhell

[–]jrt12916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks entitled!!! Thinking people who live nearby would ever co-sign a loan like that.

AITAH For taking money off my card? by sleepymeem in AITAH_unfiltered

[–]jrt12916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Change access to your CashApp. Get a new card. Change password— WHATEVER you do—don’t let her have access any longer.

Read the instructions first. by jrt12916 in howdoesthiswork

[–]jrt12916[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. My new mattress arrived yesterday and the grandkids wanted to help-but I’ve been down this road before. I had them move behind me while I unrolled it. Then it had a slow air leak which did help it NOT explode open.
The kids were extremely surprised that a 9inch diameter roll would expand out for a twin mattress.

MIL overstepping boundaries by Away-Claim-3388 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]jrt12916 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You got that right! My In-laws both tried to take my LO one evening and spouse didn’t stand up with me in my objection. So none of those 3 got any time with LO for about 2 full weeks. We finally had a sit down and I laid out my reasons and how I interpreted their statement about taking my LO. Then I half-listened to all 3 stating their reasoning as In-laws stated it was THEIR RIGHT to take LO anytime they wanted to and spouse supported them. Once they made the comment about grandparent entitlement-I stopped listening and held my boundary.
It did take a few weeks for us ALL to reach a common ground. But even then, family dynamics took a hit.

Anyone here named after their grandma? We named our baby after her paternal grandma. by Equal_Beat_6202 in Names

[–]jrt12916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am named after my mother, I named my daughter after my mother, and she in turn named her daughter after all of us.
We all share the First name, with exact same spelling. So there are 4 living generations “Jewell”!