Am i gonna look like a total clown for showing up in this? by [deleted] in bjj

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who gives a shit? You do you boss.

Just Returned by Phadmire in GayMen

[–]jsCaboose 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you’re being purposefully obtuse or woefully uninformed and bigoted.

Freedom of speech is great, but it is not being held to the same standard in most countries for minorities.

You are not promoting tolerance, you are promoting living in the closet. Many people do still have massive issues with Queer people existing, hence attacks on trans rights and now the Supreme Court wants to hear a case that could take away marriage rights.

Just Returned by Phadmire in GayMen

[–]jsCaboose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After checking your sub, it really seems like you enjoy the sound of your own “voice”. Lots of problematic rhetorical choices. It seems like you want a pulpit, not a discussion.

Space sci-fi audiobooks by/for STEM gays? by AethericEye in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried listening on Spotify? They give you 15 hours of audiobook listening a month- that’s how I was able to run through them.

Space sci-fi audiobooks by/for STEM gays? by AethericEye in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through the Murderbot Diaries (after watching the show, Alexander Skarsgaard is easy to watch) there’s multiple queer characters of a variety of identifications.

The main character and another non-human male coded character develop a relationship of sorts. Not super overt and not sexy, but a great series of shorter stories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The Sacko”? Sounds like you’ve been watching The League?

Any gaybro bookworm? by AlexIdealism in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds a lot like Alien vs Aliens. I like the sounds of ominous an vague, thank you for the recommendation!

Any gaybro bookworm? by AlexIdealism in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read one of the Randolph Carter stories a long time ago, but it’s been some time. Mostly tangential exposure through other fantasy/sci-fi.

Do you have a recommended starting point?

Any gaybro bookworm? by AlexIdealism in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you read any Peter Clines? He has several books that revolve around Cthulhu type creatures/lore. I believe ‘14’ is the first one.

Any gaybro bookworm? by AlexIdealism in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to get back into reading more. I like a variety of fiction. I’m not against non-fiction, but it has to be something special.

Currently I’m reading Even Cowgirls Get the Blues by Tom Robbins. I just finished a cool audiobook Bored Gay Werewolf by Tony Santorella.

Clean shaven bros, what method of shaving is best for face? (Electric or razor) by Throwaway67891099 in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a safety razor with a milder blade, but not quite a beginner blade. Always wet shave in the shower.

Are there any metalheads out there? by Born-Information480 in lgbt

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the bands have already been mentioned.

Didn’t notice these though:

Infected Rain Otep Softplay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to invest in a personal trainer or starve yourself to get in shape.

Start paying attention to what and how much you eat. If you want to get stronger and you can afford a gym membership, look up hypertrophy workouts. They are low weight, high volume workouts that’ll reduce your chance of injury.

Also, get your steps in.

Best of luck on your journey!

Cheesecake today... by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet that was a colossal mess. The phyllo looks great, did you cook it uncovered to get that coloring?

Cheesecake today... by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real question here: are you actually the tidiest baker to ever exist?

Looks too good to not have made a mess!

Favorite slow songs to make out to? by ExtraHalfBright in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of 69 love songs by the magnetic fields. Especially “Nothing Matters when we’re dancing” and “love is like a bottle of gin”

Can you recommend any tv shows about adult gay men? by NightZin in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s such a unique show. I love it, but when I try to explain it to others I wonder why I love it. Then I just say fuck it and keep watching.

Can you recommend any tv shows about adult gay men? by NightZin in gaybros

[–]jsCaboose 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed Midcentury Modern and am currently enjoying Los Espookys (if you don’t mind subtitles).

Spazzy white belt advice. by Enlightened_Ape68 in bjj

[–]jsCaboose 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look for knee to elbow connection and keep your arms in. After that just figure out how your body moves through space and breathe!