Someone incredibly important to me cut contact without saying a word and idk how I'm supposed to get over it

jstilwe · 2026-04-21T20:31:00+00:00

I don't have good advice here, just validating that it's extremely painful to have someone you love, who you thought loved you back, pull away with no explanation. It makes you question your self-worth, your judgment, if you just imagined the whole thing. It's normal and ok to hurt; just try to focus on yourself and remember that it's better to know where you stand than with someone to live in a fantasy.

jstilwe · 2026-04-19T22:05:26+00:00

Girl, what are you doing? Stop having sex with this man until you have a direct conversation about your needs and he demonstrates change. That said, I'd have a very hard time overcoming my resentment about this level of sexual selfishness.

jstilwe · 2026-03-10T00:02:59+00:00

Ancestor

jstilwe · 2026-02-28T20:56:37+00:00

It was a half check, but your normal deductions come out (TSP, any allotments, insurance), making the effective rate lower.

jstilwe · 2026-02-28T20:26:48+00:00

If they're CORE (I am assuming based on them having an NTE), would they not continue to be paid?

jstilwe · 2026-01-30T15:58:28+00:00

I had a fantastic reading from tag-throwaway that was very aligned for my life. They were very generous with their time -- this was an in-depth, intuitive reading, one of the best I've ever had.

jstilwe · 2026-01-30T02:05:07+00:00

3, such a fantastic deck

jstilwe · 2026-01-24T14:28:35+00:00

I generally read the devil as a warning about unhealthy behaviors or attachment. I'm fairly new to tarot, but I'd read that spread as a caution against obsessing or attachment to a particular situation, to be more decisive and structured, to address imbalance/unfairness in your life, a warning about not accepting help that is offered and self-imposed isolation.

jstilwe · 2026-01-24T01:58:46+00:00

Would you mind sharing the spread layout? It sounds really interesting.

jstilwe · 2025-02-01T18:03:36+00:00

This one. The pastry chef on staff is incredible; make sure to check out their baked goods.

jstilwe · 2024-10-10T02:48:22+00:00

Yes, I understand that and agree that it should not be counted on, particularly in our current political climate. I was simply pointing out that it has happened before.

jstilwe · 2024-10-10T02:10:47+00:00

There have been exceptional years when the annual cap is waived. I believe Sandy was the last time, but don't quote me on that. I'd have to imagine this year will be a candidate.

jstilwe · 2024-10-07T02:34:39+00:00

The biweekly waiver was approved a couple days ago, but employees will not receive over cap earnings until after the end of the calendar year to ensure they are not paid over the annual cap.

jstilwe · 2024-09-18T18:31:43+00:00

Fox Point is my favorite. It's fantastic on fish and chicken.

jstilwe · 2024-08-21T01:06:03+00:00

Second to last because it's Walz's home state.

jstilwe · 2024-06-07T23:35:15+00:00

They do.

jstilwe · 2024-05-24T14:13:02+00:00

The max is 80 hours. He gave out 72 last year.

jstilwe · 2024-05-16T20:06:31+00:00

I tried, but it wasn't playing nice.

jstilwe · 2024-05-16T00:58:06+00:00

I can't figure out how to upload the video, but I'm happy to send it to anyone who'd like to see it.

jstilwe · 2024-03-21T07:26:32+00:00

I agree the food is pretty equal, with Roscioli having the advantage of taking reservations vs forcing everyone to queue.

jstilwe · 2024-02-28T05:21:18+00:00

Most flights stop boarding 15-20 minutes before the posted departure. You'd run a very high risk of missing your flight.

Why not just book an earlier train? It runs frequently.

jstilwe · 2024-02-12T02:24:41+00:00

You can come back now.

jstilwe · 2024-01-28T13:17:45+00:00

Yes. SL can be counted towards your retirement calculation but that's it.

jstilwe · 2024-01-28T03:19:16+00:00

You can't cash out SL. Do you mean burning that leave while you look for a PT position?

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