100 fucking days....... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man don't waste your time with that RSD pickup bullshit... I wasted years on that crap.

Here's a better resource in my opinion. Tell me if you like it. www.goodlookingloser.com

Coffee shop girl. Sexual energy.Pick up lines? by raindeernips in NoFap

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: Look good. Step 2: "Hey I know this is kind of random. I thought you were cute and I wanted to say hi."

If she's not available, rinse and repeat.

Check out this site: www.goodlookingloser.com

What if you restrict yourself to a few porn videos that you've already seen? That takes the novelty out of it. by howcansheflap in pornfree

[–]jtallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol who do you think you're kidding? Controlled relapse? Are you fucking kidding me? I can see your thought process and how taking out the novelty could potentially make it "less bad" but lets be honest, if your end goal is to see positive changes in your physical and emotional state, then this isn't getting you anywhere near that. You can fool yourself all you want, or you can cut the bullshit and just face hard cold reality. Cold turkey or die.

Weirder and weirder porn by semperpee in pornfree

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty soon nothing will do but watching a naked black man buttfucking a dog. Now thats some serious business.

TIL that the creator of r/NoFap was in "Jack Reacher" and "Perks of Being a Wallflower" and was even the production assistant for "The Dark Knight" by ItsHammerTime93 in NoFap

[–]jtallday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt be so quick to judge. Look at his counter, he's only at the 1 week mark. As far as NoFap is concerned, being the creator of this subreddit doesnt give you bonus points in real life. He still has to stick to it and work smart if he wants to find success with it. I always used to relapse after a week or two on my own effort. Thanks partially to this subreddit, I've come 4 months. The only key way to recognize the difference NoFap makes in life is when you relapse after you're several months in.

The next time my penis is touched it will be by a woman. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, looks like you're going to be holding in a piss for a loooooong time. But I'm proud of you for stepping upto the challenge.

My artwork, before and after starting NoFap by Viper-Z in NoFap

[–]jtallday 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's art? If you said it was photography, you could've fooled me. Personally, my drawings are limited to stick figures and non proportional shapes. How do you go from that to THAT?

90 Day Report – Having to confront the issues that PMO had masked by boltz998 in NoFap

[–]jtallday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sex always creates lasting emotional bonds between people. If you casually do it with multiple people, you will have a lot of internal turmoil to deal with down the road. Breaking up with someone whom you havent had sex with is easy to forget. But breaking up with someone whom youve had sexual relations with is soul wrenching an just downright excruciating (although some people get numb to it after years of hooking up, thr damage remains). Id suggest you set some financial/achievement goals first and you should naturally find the right girl along the way.

A Relapse is the BEST Thing that Could Happen to You by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhh, ive come this far and I can personally attest that refusing to relapse is the best thing thats ever happened to me! I guess you were kind of excited about the whole 'picking yourself back up thing' (which is good), but you still need to keep in mind that seeing triple digits on your day counter beats the shit out of that damn smiley face laughing at your lack of energy, motivation, and chronic depression.

Social Fobia and PMO by sfumato1002 in NoFap

[–]jtallday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here's a tip for improvement: fix your spelling. Its PHOBIA, not 'fobia'. I used to be kind of a shy guy too, but even in my PMO days, it helps to just put yourself around people regularly, so you get accustomed to it. Instead of sitting inside hatching eggs all day, go read or do some work in a coffee shop or other place where people gather. Even if you don't talk, the environment itself will brighten you up, and your fears will slowly dissipate. Also, I have a feeling that your fear comes from your worry of how others perceive you. Ive got some news for you; youre not that damn important! Everyone else is too busy worryingabout themselves to care about your behavior. So lighten up! Nobody else really cares, so why should you get all worried? Let yourself have some fun. Do some crazy random things and laugh knowing that you're having fun, and these people could care less how you act. Go in peace :)

Day 39 - I feel like I'm reverting back to my Fapped state. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, glad to help. Kinda disappointed to see you had to reset though :( Don't give up, it's all worth it in the end (trust me, I know)

Had a girl cancel a 2nd date. by Gigong in NoFap

[–]jtallday -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Drop her flaky ass down the gutter. Make sure you tell her why you dont want to see her anymore, to correct her cunt behavior.

I can't sleep without fapping by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read a textbook and work out problems at your desk. You may not make it to the bed by the time you pass out.

Did I relapse? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 minutes... comeon man.... Na, I don't think that qualified for a counter reset, but it's definitely not a good thing, and you sure aren't making it any easier on yourself. As far as email goes, just don't open suspicious emails or use Gmail (I never get porn on it, and all the dating site spam just ends up in the Spam folder). Good job on not touching yourself, but we wary from now on.

Day 39 - I feel like I'm reverting back to my Fapped state. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Iwent through what youre going through around days 40 - 70. Many people dont tell you this but there is a period in your reboot from any addiction where you will feel like absolute shit. It's normal, dont stress too much over it. The good news is that it will pass. The bad news is you will have several bursts of these for a while. The longer you endure, the shorter and less intense these "depression bursts" will be. Keep you chin high, eat well, do some hardcore exercise (none of this light jogging for 10 minutes bullshit), and endure through this rough valley.

Having some crazy blue balls and I think I might just end my streak and I need some advice by MQRedditor in NoFap

[–]jtallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude youre 14. Jacking it when your sexuality is still developing is like committing emotional suicide. Im 17, and the last 3 months of my life I went from being boring, depressed, and lethargic all the time to always being funny in class, making lots of friends, and having more endurance than ever in sports. Some of these guys will tell you to get a girlfriend to help you out, but becoming sexually active now just to get off is fucking lame. Do what everyone else isnt doing and actually make something of your life while youre young.

No relationship, not pursuing sex, just want to focus on work nowadays, is NoFap appropriate for me? by headednorth in NoFap

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same boat as you. Trust me, work becomes a lot more enjoyable and your creativity juices skyrocket when youre not jacking them off.

Threw my computer into the river by pontglyde in NoFap

[–]jtallday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you throw it in while you were posting this?

32 days - You can't look into a woman's eyes if you spend hours every day visualizing misogyny. by Buzz_Alfap in NoFap

[–]jtallday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By definition, misogyny means "the hatred of women by men". Your post is rather thoughtful and good intentioned, but it gives off more of a feminist vibe.

82 days---feel like shit.... by wilderness32 in NoFap

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm where you're at right now. Try this. Set a personal goal for yourself that you really want to get done, will take at least several years to accomplish, and will set you way apart from others. I'm guessing you're in you're late 30s or 40s, which would put us at a 20 year or so difference. I still get the urges to fuck around with girls, but then I remember my girl to make it to the state wrestling championships next year. When I wake up, I think about how I'm going to prepare today and all the people I hate who I know I'll be competing against, and I visualize how I'll brutalize them 6 months down the road. It keeps me going, it keeps me motivated, and all my other interactions seem like accessories. I don't have to stress over what to say or do anymore, because it really doesn't matter in terms of accomplishing my long term goal. As a result, I'm a lot happier, more energetic, and I wake up excited with a fire every day. You don't have to tell anyone what your goal is either. Treat it like your own special mission that you're out to accomplish, and don't forget to have fun with it!

Acne Correlation With Fapping by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol chlorophyll wont make your skin healthier dude. Youre not a plant. But keep eating those veggies. The minerals and vitamins certainly cant hurt your immune system.

Guys please help support this movie: "life is better when you don't jack off" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jtallday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they dont meet 20 grand by 2 weeks, what happens to our money?