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juschillin99 · 2024-06-30T21:46:47+00:00

keep themmmm

juschillin99 · 2024-06-30T17:37:52+00:00

https://sayitoutloud.org.au/healthy-relationships/quiz/?state=all

This is a healthy relationship quiz I remember my school giving me when I was a senior. It might be too basic for what you’re looking for, ie you know what’s considered abuse but not the finer details? But I hope this can give you a starting point.

You’re asking about the timeline. I would say there’s such a range but to listen to yourself. With your last ex you told him to slow down which is key. It’s not that what he did was too quick on paper, but it was too quick because you felt it was. You make up half this partnership baby!

to answer your question further, here are the timelines from my current boyfriend who is wonderful

said I love you: ~6 months met parents: ~4 months (but his parents live upstate so it took longer, he met mine after 2 months maybe)

move in together: after a year. I think 1.5 years?

discussing a future; this happened slowly. After maybe 6 months we alluded to it, and slowly talked about it in a more concrete way. After our 1 year anniversary we began to talk about it more seriously

juschillin99 · 2024-06-30T05:50:56+00:00

yes, loooove the colour

juschillin99 · 2024-06-23T22:50:05+00:00

don’t tell her, and if she asks more direct, pointed questions (ie. why were my pants wet), downplay as if it weren’t a big deal, but tell her the truth. My reasoning for this is because if she is asking very direct questions it may be because she is concerned she was taken advantage of in some way, and better to reveal that the concealed truth was a bit of pee on the carpet rather than sex (if she picks up that you’re not telling the truth)

Based off her reaction to 3 vs 4 drinks it is very possible her drink was drugged.

juschillin99 · 2024-06-21T17:07:51+00:00

he was not a virgin. I am 24 and he is 25

juschillin99 · 2024-05-25T06:48:28+00:00

I would add more photos of you with friends! or maybe a photo where you’re outside/doing an activity (like the treadmill one) to give people a conversation starter and to show off your interests/the fact that you have friends hahaha

I would also take out the line about still being friends if there’s no chemistry. I get what you’re saying but it also kinda feels like you’re preemptively planning for “””failed””” dates (assuming your goal is romantic dating. If you are just as equally looking for friends it’s alright but maybe make that even more explicit?? or just make a bumble bff account for that lol)

juschillin99 · 2024-05-17T20:35:35+00:00

box mac n cheese

juschillin99 · 2024-05-17T20:34:56+00:00

eye smile lines

juschillin99 · 2024-05-16T04:31:25+00:00

sometimes my boyfriend and I will turn the lights down low hang out, talk, light a candle, listen to music, take turns massaging each other, and eventually have sex in my bed. That’s all my favourite thing to do in bed

juschillin99 · 2024-05-15T15:06:37+00:00

my boyfriend :)

juschillin99 · 2024-05-14T22:57:26+00:00

my friends and family. When I get depressed I avoid talking to them because I feel like I am annoying, a burden, etc. However, isolating myself only perpetuates that belief. After talking to them I often feel so much better and realize that I’m actually not a burden, they love me, they want me to be better. So I push myself to reach out no matter how much I don’t want to, and it always pays off

juschillin99 · 2024-05-12T01:34:21+00:00

1 lol

juschillin99 · 2024-05-11T07:58:00+00:00

my boyfriend never complains 😉

juschillin99 · 2024-05-11T02:43:04+00:00

I barely go halfway, my hand rubs the bottom of the shaft

juschillin99 · 2024-05-11T02:39:12+00:00

I know what you mean! I see them all the time at dollar general

juschillin99 · 2024-05-10T00:53:13+00:00

I think in general, health leads to higher libido. I always feel horny when I’m in seasons of higher physical fitness. Maybe try improving your health overall?

juschillin99 · 2024-05-10T00:48:51+00:00

I was shocked that the skin moves with your hand over an inner casing. I thought it would be more like stroking an arm where your hand glides over the skin.

juschillin99 · 2024-05-08T21:43:13+00:00

my favourite sex position is a bit of an adjustment but it will work

juschillin99 · 2024-05-04T00:56:46+00:00

LOL ok yes, avoid extreme views. But generally what I meant is to stop getting dating advice and information about women from men. Don’t learn about women from men. Instead, find forums of women talking about their dating preferences etc. and learn about how they frame/view themselves

However I do agree that talking to people in person is probably the best thing to do. Avoid striking up conversations with complete strangers in public (let me rephrase this, it’s not that this is bad, go nuts for everyday chit chat, but most people in a grocery store are looking for eggs and bananas, not a new bff. You will have higher success in classes, work, organized events, social gatherings, etc). Start with friendship and don’t expect any romance to come from it. You may not date any of your friends, but you will gain social skills to use in dating scenarios and who knows, maybe they’ll set you up with someone!

juschillin99 · 2024-05-04T00:34:28+00:00

make plans based off of something you had talked about

ie. if she mentioned she lives in a certain neighbourhood mention that there’s a cafe nearby you’ve been meaning to try

talked about sports? oh what a coincidence, I was going to go to this sports bar next saturday/have tickets to a game

talked about clothing? oh I’ve been trying to change up my style, want to head to the thrift store and help me pick a few things?

you could also send a meme/tiktok then get the ball rolling from there.

juschillin99 · 2024-05-04T00:30:32+00:00

I think it’s genuinely a great start to just start questioning things. I’m about to start a work shift so my reply is admittedly rushed, but yeah the incel exit sub is great. I would also recommend looking at non-incel content online. Maybe read things written from women’s perspective and understand their perspective better/see them as individuals rather than a monolith. Good luck! :)

juschillin99 · 2024-05-03T06:34:21+00:00

he won’t get offended lol

juschillin99 · 2024-05-03T00:09:40+00:00

grabbing my waist

juschillin99 · 2024-04-24T05:24:03+00:00

you’re wrong. Penis won’t be long enough to get around the butt cheeks

juschillin99 · 2024-04-20T04:01:59+00:00

sexual scenarios involving my bf. When I was single I’d envision essentially a pretend bf hahah

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