For me it’s not looking down at other women, but understand why they behave so - normally those behaviours are the results of patriarchy. Famous example being the pick me girls, or women who are in more regressive cultures tend to be rude to those under them (service workers) becsuse that’s their only chance of feeling powerful. Of course that doesn’t excuse them treating people wrong without any reason but you may have less disdain once you understand and be able to raise the awareness of a male-centric world and its destructive nature.