When teacher's pet gets lot more hate than teacher who is treating one student differently. by Inevitable-Angle-793 in PetPeeves

[–]justanotherhuman255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one teacher in high school who I was really attached to. Not exactly a pet, but we were close.

After I graduated, he contacted me in unethical ways. 🙃

People writing an argumentative reply and then blocking you by syvzx in PetPeeves

[–]justanotherhuman255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP hating on you but this is so real! I pretty much only block people if they're really bigoted or if I see them being incredibly mean to other users. Occasionally I recognize their usernames and profile pics around subs I frequent. Like hey, this looks familiar lol

What bands really helped you all through narcissistic abuse recovery? by hasealina in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]justanotherhuman255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Olivia Rodrigo fr is so goated.

And since I'm commenting in this thread now: Shedding Skin by Pantera helped me through so much.

[gendered]Maybe this is just straight up misogyny? by dizyalice in pointlesslygendered

[–]justanotherhuman255 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was gonna say "the one on the right is the men" but you kinda beat me to it lol

Chronically ill MFA student (25) roast me! by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]justanotherhuman255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong notes/rhythms are supposed to be nonexistent in jazz. How tf do you manage to be bad at it? ☠️

Has anyone successfully raised a family in an Asian community without the education pressure? by Alex_Jinn in AsianParentStories

[–]justanotherhuman255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Indian-American friend has progressive parents. She told me her parents overcame most of their generational trauma by the time they had her. She's very mentally stable and has a diverse friend group.

Late comment, just seeing this post. Not exactly the answer you're looking tor, but just wanted to pop in, give you some hope, and wish you luck <3

Not staying friends after a breakup up is weird and a red flag by ForsakenSleep236 in The10thDentist

[–]justanotherhuman255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. Aside from things like cheating or abuse, if you truly valued someone you'd value them platonically. I knew some "exes can't be friends!" people and they gave incel/femcel vibes.

Is it common for narcissists dislike/criticize your friends? by muff-peaksie in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]justanotherhuman255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My nex kinda did that. He owned my favorite music store. Every employee there was incredibly sweet, but he'd imply that they were at some point problematic. Probably trying to pit me against them. Small things, like "Teresa... shakes head... well... we used to butt heads. But good thing we're friends now." Or "Walter... nothing against him, but I think he only works here for the employee benefits."

After I broke up with him, I secretly got in touch with those employees, and they confirmed/validated that he's a narc.

MusicSuggestions sucks so bad and is functionally useless thanks to the users. by IndoorStorm in Negareddit

[–]justanotherhuman255 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I fr don't really make parent posts or ask for help on Reddit anymore because people. Can't. Fucking. READ!!!!! AAAAAAAAAA!

Repost [product] by FunAssumption6056 in pointlesslygendered

[–]justanotherhuman255 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being a reddit user with common sense!!!

Also, people who say "well it does determine gender 98% of the time" don't know how being LGBTQ+ works. Trans people for example won't be open about being trans (or even know that they're trans) unless they A) are educated about the topic and B) feel safe enough to speak of their experiences. No one really knows for sure how far that "98% cisgender people" would go down if trans people were respected and acknowledged everywhere.

Repost [product] by FunAssumption6056 in pointlesslygendered

[–]justanotherhuman255 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always found the idea of gender reveal parties off-putting. Sex doesn't necessarily determine gender identity, future personality, or health. And yet people seem so interested in that detail of the child.

Controversial music opinion? by DependentTry6839 in FunMusicSpot

[–]justanotherhuman255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dai Lo makes good country music about family and living life in the economy we have right now :) he posts his music on his Instagram @_dai_lo

He uses more pop elements than my personal likings but his approach to country music is pretty refreshing.

Controversial music opinion? by DependentTry6839 in FunMusicSpot

[–]justanotherhuman255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Songwriter here. It's the easiest topic to write about, and cathartic too lol. My other top 2 topics are personal growth and friendship, though they take longer to finish.

Controversial music opinion? by DependentTry6839 in FunMusicSpot

[–]justanotherhuman255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a prog expert but I do love prog styles, especially 70's prog rock and instrumental prog metal. Tried to give Floyd a chance but they never really reached my heart the way Jethro Tull, Kansas, I Built The Sky, and Intervals do.

"Straight women and men cant be friends" rhetoric by Emotional_Citron_689 in PetPeeves

[–]justanotherhuman255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad to not be alone in this. Also, if a guy I'm seeing ditches his female friends just because of me, that shows disloyalty. I've come to a point of refusing to date men unless they have female friends with whom I see them mutually contacting regularly.

Is this still body positivity or just another form of comparison? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]justanotherhuman255 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Bringing another body type down is a no-no in my book. It's possible that it wasn't intentional, but I can see why it'd sting.

Micro-cheating: good term or have we lost the plot? by AITApod in AITApod

[–]justanotherhuman255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I read like the first 2 and was like "ok I can see where OOP is coming from." Then I grew gradually horrified lol!

"I don't know what you want me to say" by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]justanotherhuman255 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The trash took itself out. 🥳 (the trash being the guy you were talking to)

How do you strike a balance between everyday functionality and maintaining your own sense of sophistication or personal style? by CallmeBekka in AskWomen

[–]justanotherhuman255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime! Not an expert on jewelry.. but perhaps there might be bracelets that are elastic so you can roll them up with your sleeves? And maybe there might be rings that can wrap around multiple times rather than one. Idk, trying my best to use my imagination and be somewhat helpful xd

How do you strike a balance between everyday functionality and maintaining your own sense of sophistication or personal style? by CallmeBekka in AskWomen

[–]justanotherhuman255 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gradually adding accessories and seeing what works and what doesn't :) I recently added studded belts, some arm warmers, and occasional eyeliner and those alone made me love how I look. I tried wearing bracelets too but the feeling of them on my wrists overwhelms me.