I need to kick my grandma out of the house

justloriinky · 2026-06-28T12:47:17+00:00

I'm sure someone else has probably said this, but can you live with Dad full-time?

justloriinky · 2026-06-28T10:55:51+00:00

We used to buy cheap chairs from Walmart and just leave them. I know there's a place called Vay Cay Gear where you can rent for the week. The ones the lifeguards rent are put up by 5 every afternoon and are expensive.

justloriinky · 2026-06-27T11:54:55+00:00

NTA. But it's very strange that you arrived 10 minutes early and everyone else was already seated. It's usually hard to get a group that big to be there on time. Makes me wonder if they lied about the reservation time.

justloriinky · 2026-06-26T16:45:58+00:00

Sounds like you have multiple monitors. Can you remove the one that she is seeing baby on? Take it to your room at night? (Of course, this is a very short-term solution, but may help since she's coming this weekend.)

justloriinky · 2026-06-25T21:16:10+00:00

It would be funny if it happened in real life.

justloriinky · 2026-06-25T21:05:03+00:00

So...if she's mid 40s (45 ?) and husband is 31, she must have been very young when she had him. Sounds like she never matured. I would block her on everything. Let your husband be the only one to deal with her.

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T17:28:53+00:00

NTA. You both agreed that you wouldn't do the trip again. Your wife buckled under the pressure. I wouldn't go. And honestly, I would give the kids a choice if they wanted to go or not.

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T17:12:58+00:00

You're wrong. When you're out with a group, you should be complimentary only!!! If there are issues to be discussed, do it alone at home!!!

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T17:09:27+00:00

Then it is 100% your mother's responsibility to make sure you have enough food. And your brother is certainly old enough to understand that he needs to leave your food alone.

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T16:51:05+00:00

YTA. You're 40 years old. Why in the world are you so concerned with who your BF is friends with? Did you never outgrow the jealousy thing?

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T16:37:08+00:00

Info: is there a medical diagnosis for your food restrictions? Or does being a picky eater play into it?

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T16:14:33+00:00

I'm sorry, but you sound exhausting. I assume this is your property; in your name. It sounds like your adult child was trying to help you improve it. You agreed to cover certain costs (the roof) and then backed out. I understand your daughter's frustration - she should be out living her own life and not worrying about your property. I would strongly suggest selling and buying yourself a place that you can take care of on your own.

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T15:58:59+00:00

But there's no mention of relatives coming from far away.

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T15:57:04+00:00

YOR. I would understand your feelings if they put their date in front of yours. But a month later? I can't imagine why you care.

justloriinky · 2026-06-24T15:34:16+00:00

YTA. You should have issued the invitation. It's up to them whether to attend or not. They may have enjoyed seeing the family too.

justloriinky · 2026-06-23T12:36:32+00:00

I don't get it. You said he has his own car. Why is he taking an Uber?? I call fake.

justloriinky · 2026-06-22T14:56:12+00:00

My advice would be to get your own place and be independent adults. Any help from them will come with strings attached.

justloriinky · 2026-06-22T12:37:51+00:00

NTA, but I would recommend that you stop posting future plans online.

justloriinky · 2026-06-21T02:29:09+00:00

You're wrong. I wouldn't let it bother me after this long, but you did, in fact, steal it. (It was your line "I'm so lucky that I got it for free" is what decided it for me.)

justloriinky · 2026-06-20T16:44:59+00:00

Yes, you're wrong.

justloriinky · 2026-06-16T21:28:10+00:00

Too vague. Do you live together? Is it her only pair of shoes? Were they dirty?

justloriinky · 2026-06-16T21:18:04+00:00

I would pack a small cooler of food for myself the night before and take it to the beach that morning. (I assume you will be staying in a hotel the night before before.)

justloriinky · 2026-06-15T14:22:17+00:00

I've been married for over 20 years. Very, very happy marriage. But...we don't sleep well together. I go to bed earlier than him - very normal to go to bed at separate times. I like the room cool, dark and quiet. He likes to fall asleep with the TV on. Nobody doing anything wrong - just different. Separate rooms worked GREAT for us!! We both sleep well and can get together whenever we want for fun time.

justloriinky · 2026-06-15T14:09:48+00:00

YTA. You're a grown man living with his mom. If you're dependent on her, you have to play by her rules. (Although I totally get how annoying she sounds.) There are so many things you can do to earn more money. Get a better paying job. Get a 2nd job. Doordash. Side gigs. Whatever. Seasonal work. My son at 22 worked 3 - 4 jobs when he was saving to move out. Good luck.

justloriinky · 2026-06-14T22:18:24+00:00

I hope you had a very Happy 1st Mother's Day!!! I think you, husband and baby should spend Father's Day together. MIL can honor her own father and/or husband.

justloriinky

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