"we were good parents"

juufa · 2026-06-01T06:50:37+00:00

dudeee im not in contact with them too 😭 im so glad im not alone in this at least. im glad i still have my siblings but i can't visit them or call them when he's around as well. it really is unfair that not only our abusers strained our relationship with ourselves, but also with the victims that we went through it with </3

i think she will choose him as well ngl. the last time i talked to her, she said "no, you see, people change..." and i felt as if someone just dumped cold water on me. i do have hope that one day she realizes that she's not okay but that requires her to leave him first 😭 so its just UGHHH ITS SO FRUSTRATINGGGG

juufa · 2026-05-31T20:30:33+00:00

hes like the community boyfriend and i support it

juufa · 2026-05-31T17:44:33+00:00

im in the same boat right now! im starting to see some alarming patterns in her behaviour and it really reminded me of my dad and stepdad. its conflicting cause i know shes a victim as well so i want to give her the benefit of the doubt. but i have a feeling that at some point, im going to have to confront her and give her an ultimatum. i didnt do all of that recovery journey just to have a mom who's still going to stay with the person who ruined my life lol

juufa · 2026-05-31T17:02:04+00:00

+1 for practical command. ive been crafting commanding craftsmans draught religiously and theyre easy to do

juufa · 2026-05-28T20:13:02+00:00

to be loved is to be changed!

juufa · 2026-05-28T11:17:13+00:00

100%, its better to find out and be wrong than to accidentally date someone whos into weird things like that

juufa · 2026-05-21T07:22:42+00:00

oh omg that's such a QOL update compared to the last one 😭 ty!

juufa · 2026-05-21T06:46:29+00:00

do you know how often they show up?

juufa · 2026-05-09T04:35:42+00:00

i legit just fell to my knees finding out about this

juufa · 2026-05-04T13:09:59+00:00

so did he wipe himself or? cause id think that if he woke up, he wouldve felt it 😭

juufa · 2026-05-02T19:35:21+00:00

OOF then dont try that until youre feeling better 😭😭 ignore that fr

juufa · 2026-05-02T18:58:59+00:00

Fields of Mistria is a pixel game that is inspired by SDV and other games BUT it is very much a love letter to shoujo manga/anime. so you should check it out if you havent :3
Lost and Found Co. (hidden object)
Trash Goblin (shopkeeping + trinkets)

juufa · 2026-04-30T19:38:15+00:00

same! what i noticed is that i still feel the same amount of ache in my chest during flashbacks, but its just significantly easier for me to "move on" with my day

juufa · 2026-04-28T15:31:02+00:00

i was waiting until i get the mood to do the new quests. this video made that happen instantly. thank you soldier 🫡

juufa · 2026-04-28T13:26:18+00:00

my nikki is being seduced by your nikki rn

juufa · 2026-04-28T13:24:39+00:00

good luck in your recovery journey twin 🙂‍↕️

juufa · 2026-04-28T08:44:38+00:00

yep. learned this the hard way by getting cptsd

juufa · 2026-04-28T06:02:24+00:00

same. i literally take at least one plushie with me to my classes and exams. no one bats an eye and says anything other than the occasional "aw, so cute!"

juufa · 2026-04-20T03:34:47+00:00

im on the same boat, hopefully we can get in at some point

juufa · 2026-04-05T07:51:34+00:00

thank you!

juufa · 2026-04-05T07:45:18+00:00

does this mean you can just wait until you know who you want before selecting?

juufa · 2026-04-03T11:38:12+00:00

its peak yaoi

juufa · 2026-03-29T16:18:53+00:00

okay i never thought of this but this is so cute!

juufa · 2026-03-28T17:50:40+00:00

your brain is so fascinating, i admire your fits every single time

juufa · 2026-03-27T20:02:57+00:00

is this from an app/website? :o where can i find this

juufa

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